Re: Still holding on


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Posted by Bob on January 05, 1999 at 15:38:26:

In Reply to: Still holding on posted by David on January 05, 1999 at 14:07:40:

Dave,

First of all, praying for your reunion does NOT sound weak and foolish. Jill is your wife. What you are feeling is normal because you love her.

Secondly, you are right. If you have read any of my or A.T.'s postings (and followups from Michele and all) you will realize that you are correct. You can not "hound her", as you put it re: your love for her. (May I say from first-hand experience that that is easier said than done, right A.T.?)

Lastly, I don't think you should serve her with papers for shock value...at least not yet. To me, that sounds like "The Last Resort." It doesn't sound like you are there yet. I'll be checking to see what others think. Give her reasons to love you again!

I'll be thinking about you Dave--hang in there. I know it sounds like a cliche, but try to take one day at a time. That approach seems to help me deal with all my anguish.

Bob



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