best part of this website for me is getting to know all of you. I have
made some very worthwhile friendships during this whole process of creation.
Many of you have been sharing your every day experiences with me, through
letters, cards, and email.
An overwhelming number of you have expressed questions and concerns
with sexuality, looking fit, and feeling sexy at any age. I was very
surprised by the young adults (in their 20s and over) asking for
advice on dating an older, more mature woman.
From the correspondences I have been receiving, people need a lot of
important information. Men and women over 40 want exercise routines,
ideas on how to romance their partners, ideas on how to rekindle an
existing romance. Many of you have children that are all grown up and
moved away, and now, one of you wants to roam. How do you deal with
Many of you want to know why Frank did not stay and support me throughout
this whole ordeal. It seemed like I was his type, more so than his wife.
One person commented that I looked better for a woman of my age than
his own wife.
Now, it is time to share some secrets with you. This will deal with
my life prior to the scandal. It will give you a sense of why beauty,
health, fitness welfare and spirituality have always given me the confidence
I needed in any business or personal situation.
My background in school was in science and health. I was a physical
therapist when I met my husband (who was a pioneer in the fitness industry,
like Joe Wieder and Jack Lalanne). In the late 50s, my husband
started to transform the old, dark, stagnant gyms into more luxurious
places for meeting and working out. (When we first met, we had very
glamorous spa days.) He incorporated nail and hair salons, gourmet restaurants,
private massages, eucalyptus body wraps, and steam rooms and saunas,
to the list of amenities for his gyms. This was a natural career choice
for him because he was a football player for U.T., an international
boxing champion, and a golden gloves champion. He was quite the athlete!
Do I dare say that women loved him and still do? This can make any woman
jealous. What do I do about it? I stay healthy and fit, keeping myself
on my toes to look the best I possibly can, to hold on to what I have.
Of course, its much more than physical. Mentally, I am a together
person. This in combination with my fitness regimen makes my life simple
and easy to manage.
Since you are sharing your health, fitness, goals for success, and so
much more, I wanted to let you know a little more about me. I want you
to know why I feel my web site can be so good for all of us. It is very
different from other web sites and is not a porn site at all. When you
go through my site, you can feel my positive energy being passed on
to you. I have written about what I feel is necessary for every day
stress-free living. I try to be an upbeat, confident, loving, caring
and giving person to everyone around me. You can take this energy, and
process it in your own life. You can be proud of your own sexuality
and begin to relate this to others around you.
I began working with my husband to develop the best fitness, weight
loss, wellness and medical centers around the country. We are certified
in nutrition, exercise and fitness, weight loss and weight control through
behavior modification and lifestyle changes. We studied at the New England
Deaconess Hospital, under the well-known nutritional expert Dr. George
Blackburn of Harvard University. This was accomplished through many
hours of hard work.
In addition to this, I opened a chain of unique clothing boutiques.
We specialized in sexy swimsuits, work out wear, and my own line of
leotards, tee shirts, sweatshirts, workout shoes and much more. We also
had our own line of cosmetics, Prescriptions healthy style entrees and
My husband and I have an amazing sixty years of combined experience
in the health and fitness industry. My airline job was like a hobby
to me. I am very thankful because it gave me the opportunity to travel
and experience new techniques and ideas for our fitness classes.
Shortly after our semi-retirement, I worked as a business consultant
for a fabulous man who owned several large companies. I designed and
placed fitness centers in his hotels, worked on starting new restaurant
chains, and helped him with land development projects. When you come
right down to it, I am a businesswoman with a passion for travel. I
have met many wonderful people over the years. Some have been celebrities,
high profile dignitaries, royalty, and even Frank Gifford!
Stay tuned for Part Two. This is going to be difficult for me to write
about because I suffered so much pain and humiliation during this whole
ordeal. This was one of the lowest points in my life.