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It would be great if you and I wanted the same things. You can tell from the special e-mail I request whether we might have a basis for meeting.[Photo -- Mary]

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Please e-mail me only by copying and pasting the following letter into an e-mail to me if you can honestly do so (see exceptions). To learn how to copy and paste, please click here. It's easy! Then, just supply a simple, virtually one-word answer (such as your first name, age, and day that you want me to contact you) right after each of the ten dashes (--), which are in the last ten, short paragraphs of the letter. I assure you, I don't need anything else in the e-mail. Please don't remove the dashes (--) or any words from the letter, even those in parentheses. My e-mail address is Mary1777@aol.com  You can tell a little about what I'm looking for and whether I might fit what you're looking for from the content of this letter. If you want to read more about me, please go to my home page or to "More About Mary: Articles." If it doesn't make sense to you to read any of my other pages at this time, that's OK with me. 

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Dear Mary,

I understand that you appreciate that people are different and often looking for different things. A lot of men who aren't looking for the same thing that you're looking for want to correspond with you, but if you were to correspond with them, you'd have time for little else. This letter is your way of trying to receive e-mail from men who may be compatible with you and who want to meet you.

I understand, too, that, although talking and getting to know a man and letting him get to know you is one of your favorite things to do, you prefer to do that in person as much as possible rather than over the phone. Therefore, until you meet someone, you're usually very concise and systematic on the phone. But if I ever meet you in person, we'll have a normal conversation, and you think that, in person, I'll find you very comfortable to be with, relaxed, fun, kind, sensitive, and possessing a great sense of humor. A lot of men would like to be phone friends, but that's not what you're looking for. If you were to spend very much time on the phone with men who may not ever meet you, you'd have little time for finding a man who wants to get to know you in person.

I, like you, believe in total honesty within a relationship, and I won't mislead you in any way while we're getting to know each other. I can honestly say all of the following.

To make it easier for you to quickly spot whether a man is able to honestly send you this whole letter as it is, I haven't changed its format at all. I haven't removed the dashes (--) or any words from the letter, even those in parentheses, nor have I changed or added to any of your words. I've just supplied a simple answer right after each of the ten dashes (--) below. I'm happy to make this step easy for you, Mary.

I'm unattached; that is, even if I may be separated or getting a divorce, I'm not married or in a relationship.

Eventually, if I find her, and after we spend a significant period of time getting to know each other, I'd like to be married to the right woman for me.

Like you, I need and want a lot of togetherness with a person I'm interested in.

I know that you're in a south (sometimes called southwest) suburb of Chicago, Illinois. If things worked out between us, I could move to your area (if I'm not already in the Chicago area).

I could meet you in person in your area.

I don't smoke.

Either I don't believe in a god or I don't think that I can know with certainty whether there's a god. I'm not religious.

I understand that you're looking for a man who either doesn't masturbate or who doesn't condone masturbation for himself and would prefer to live without it. I fit what you're looking for in this regard.

I know that, even though you're not a virgin and even though you love sex and you're very affectionate in marriage, sex is very special to you. You only want to have sex with one man for the rest of your life, and you won't know who that man is until marriage; so, you want to wait until marriage to have sex. I respect that.

I'm skinny, slender, or lean, or I can be and am not far from being so.

Either my photo is attached to this e-mail or I'd like you to send me an address where I can mail you my photo. My photo is not more than two years old, and it shows at least my face, without sunglasses. I know that, if I mail you my photo and if I enclose a self-addressed, stamped envelope, you'll send my photo back to me.

I could definitely be available to receive a call from you at the date and time that I'm suggesting (starting eight paragraphs below), and I'm asking you to call me then.

On the day that I'm suggesting for our phone appointment (several paragraphs below), If I haven't already received an e-mail confirmation from you, I'll check my e-mail just before the time of that suggested phone appointment, and if you sent an e-mail confirmation to me, I'll definitely be awaiting your call. If you send me an e-mail confirmation before the time I'm suggesting for our phone appointment, and if you call me, and if I'm not available to accept that call, I won't expect a second chance. I know that you get a lot of prank e-mails and that you need some way of guarding your time.

I've copied and pasted the following as the subject line of this e-mail so that you can easily spot it among all of the junk mail that you receive: Here's the special e-mail you request, Mary.

My first name is --

I'm at least 35 years of age, and my exact age is --

Even though you don't believe that there's necessarily anything to astrology, the following is my sun sign (for example, Pisces) --

You may call me collect or toll-free at the following phone number, and unless I'm in the 224, 312, 630, 708, 773, or 847 Chicago-area area code (in which case you'll probably call me direct) or unless I'm giving you a toll-free number, this phone number doesn't have a collect block on it (area code and number) --

If I'm not attaching my photo to this e-mail and if, instead, I'm going to mail my photo to your mailing address after you send that address to me, the date I'm asking you to call me is at least fourteen days from the date of this e-mail, to give you time to receive my photo before we talk on the phone. I understand that, if I'm attaching my photo to this e-mail, the date I'm asking you to call me can be today's date or any future date. Therefore, please call me on the following specific month and date (not a range of days and not "any day," but a specific day, for example, January 2) --

That date falls on the following day of the week (for example, Sunday) --

I understand that the best time for you to call me is some specific time between 3:00 p.m. and 8:00 p.m., your time, Central Time. If I'm asking you to call me at a specific time between 8:00 p.m. and 10:00 p.m., your time, it's because there's truly no day of the week on which I can be reached by 8:00 p.m., your time. Please call me on the above date at the following specific time, your time, Central Time (not a range of time and not "anytime," but a specific time, for example, 4:00 p.m.) --

This means that you'd be calling me at my time (for example, 2:00 p.m.) --

My phone number is in the following time zone (for example, Pacific, Mountain, Central, Eastern, or Atlantic) --

I'm looking forward to talking with you. Sincerely, (your first name again, if you wish) --

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