Jewsweek - Help - Contact Us

Home > Spirituality > God, am I supposed to forgive the terrorists?

Featured Sponsor
Recent & Decent

.Diamonds are forever, but is DeBeers?

.Sam Waksal and the ImClone scandal

.The many sides of Steven Spielberg

.Going back to Kingston Avenue

.A Soldier's Story

.The Wisdom of Sex

.Jews for Jesus exposed

.5 and a half news stories to watch for in 2002

.End of Days: Islam's Dark Secret

.Double Trouble: Cloning in Jewish Law

.Meet the 50 Most Influential Jews in America

.Is Viagra Kosher? And other questions you've been meaning to ask about sex




God, am I supposed to
forgive the terrorists?

Rabbi Benjamin Blech gives a poignant response to possibly the hardest question to come out of the rubble of September 11th.

- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
By Rabbi Benjamin Blech/ | God, I need your guidance.  I grieve for all the victims of September 11th.  My heart is filled with pain, and with anger at the terrorists responsible for the horrible crimes committed on that day.  But I know that you teach us to forgive those who sin.  In the Bible you often tell us that you are a God who is slow to anger, merciful and forgiving.  We are supposed to imitate you and adopt Your behavior as guidelines for our own personal conduct.  Does that really mean that no matter how difficult it is, I have to tell myself to forgive all those who turned the twin towers into a mass graveyard? Am I guilty of failing my spiritual obligations if I’m not willing to respond to terrorism with love and forgiveness? God, how far does clemency go?  In the name of religion, must I be prepared to pardon even those who committed murder?

Forgiveness is a divine trait.  It defines the goodness of God.  Without it human beings probably couldn’t survive.  Because God forgives, there’s still hope for sinners.  When we do wrong, God reassures us that he won’t abandon us as a result of our transgressions.  Divine forgiveness is the quality that most clearly proves God’s love for us.

That’s why the many passages in the Bible that affirm God’s willingness to forgive our sins are so importantThey comfort us and they fill us with confidence.  We know none of us are perfect.  If we would be judged solely on our actions we would surely all fall short.  Thank God the heavenly court isn’t that strict.  We can rest assured, as the prophet Isaiah told us in the name of the Lord, “Though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow.”

It makes perfect sense, then, for us to understand that if we expect God to forgive us for our failings we have to be prepared to forgive others as well.  What we need when we’re being judged from above certainly deserves to be granted to those we are judging.  So we obviously have to be guided by the profound words of Alexander Pope: “To err is human, to forgive, divine.”

That all makes it seem like we have no choice in the matter.  Forgiveness appears to be our only moral option.  But the more we study the Bible, the more we recognize a peculiar paradox.  The same God who preaches forgiveness very often doesn’t forgiveInstead, he punishes sinnersHe holds people responsible.  He criticizes, he condemns, and afflicts those who committed crimes.  Adam and Eve sinned, and they were kicked out of the Garden of EdenCain sinned and he was condemned to become a wanderer over the face of the earthThe generation of Noah sinned and a flood destroyed them.  The builders of the Tower of Babel sinned and their speech was turned into babble.  In one story after another, from the five Books of Moses through the works of the prophets, we read of retribution, of accountability, of divine punishment.

Isn’t this an innate contradiction in the Bible? The same book in which God identifies himself as merciful and forgiving, repeatedly shows us a God of justice who withholds undeserved pardons. It almost sounds hypocritical to hear God glorify forgiveness as an ideal way to act and then most the time not to put it into practice in his dealings with human beings.

There must be something we’re missing.  There can’t be such an obvious contradiction in the Bible.  And sure enough, just a little reflection makes clear why there are times when God forgives people for their sins and why at other times he refuses.

The Price For Forgiveness
God's great gift to us is a heavenly pardon.  But his present is predicated on a condition. What he asks us to do before He grants us forgiveness is to acknowledge that we were wrong and that we renounce our sinful behavior.

“Let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts; and let him return unto the Lord, and He will have mercy upon him; and to our God, and He will abundantly pardon.” (Isaiah 55:7)

Forgiveness is willing to overlook the sins of the past for the sake of an altered futureIt is ready to pardon the most terrible wrongs for the price of remorse, regret and the desire for a new beginning.  But the one thing God's forgiveness is unwilling to do is to condone vicious crimes by simply accepting themAn unrepentant sinner mistakes God's mercy for permission to continue in his waysTo forgive such a person isn't kindness; its cruelty to all those who’ll be hurt by the evil that wasn't stopped before it could do more harm.

Yes, it was the same God who drowned the wicked generation of Noah and who saved the evil people of Nineveh. Those who were destroyed by the flood were given plenty of warning.  They watched Noah build his ark for many years.  Noah told them what God planned to do if they didn't repent. But they didn't believe him - even when it started to rain and to pour like never before.  So of course people who didn't see the need to ask for forgiveness weren't forgiven. 

But when Jonah told the residents of the city of Nineveh that they were doomed because of their evil behavior, they took the message to heart and committed themselves to a new way of life.  And the people who changed were immediately forgiven.  God wasn't going to hold their past against them - because it was really a thing of the past.

To speak of forgiveness as if it were the automatic entitlement of every criminal is to pervert a noble sentiment into a carte blanche for mayhem and chaos.  We might as well open the doors of every jail and release all the thieves, rapists and murderers.  Our wonderful act of compassion wouldn't take too long to be followed by the cries of the victims of our folly!

As a Jew, I recognize this idea as a basic principle of our faith.  In our tradition we are taught that, “He who forgives the wicked hurts the good.”  But you don't have to be Jewish to acknowledge the validity of this concept.  The New Testament unambiguously affirms it as well: “And if your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him.  And if seven times of the day he sins against you, and seven times of the day turns to you saying, I repent, you shall forgive him.” (Luke 17:3-4) Forgiveness isn't an orphan.  Its parent has to be repentance.

Don't Forgive Them Unless….
Forgiving people who aren’t sorry for what they did makes a statement: Repentance isn't really necessary. No matter what you did, you don't have to change.  Can anything be more immoral than encouraging evil by refraining from any condemnation of those who commit it?

The day after the Columbine High School massacre, a group of students announced that they forgave the killers.  A short while after the Oklahoma bombing, some people put out a call to forgive Timothy McVeigh.  And, on September 12th, on several American campuses, colleges groups pleaded for forgiveness for the terrorists responsible for the horrific events of the previous day.

These weren't just misguided gestures of compassionThey were serious sins with potentially tragic consequences.  Evil unchallenged is evil condoned.  To forgive and forget, as Arthur Schopenhauer so well put it, “means to throw valuable experience out the window.And without the benefit of experience’s lessons we are almost certain to be doomed to repeat them.

The terrorists who piloted the planes into the twin towers never asked us to be forgiven. They expressed not the slightest remorse as they went to their deaths together with their victims. Those who sent them, those who financed them, and those who applauded their mission never for a moment regretted what happened.  Forgiving them is no less than giving them license to murder 4000 more innocent people.  That's why to forgive in a case like this is to become an accomplice to future crimes.

What If a Nazi Asked For Forgiveness?
But what if a brutal murderer realizes the enormity of his crimes and honestly regrets his past deeds? What if the plea for forgiveness is accompanied by sincere remorse? Can the crimes of the past be forgotten? Is a troubled conscience sufficient to secure automatic forgiveness?


That's not just a theoretical question.  Something exactly like that happened towards the end of the Holocaust. And the man who had to decide what to do in such a situation, a concentration camp victim who had suffered indescribable mistreatment and torture, wrote a remarkable book about his experience.

Simon Wiesenthal was a prisoner of the Nazis confined to slave labor in a German hospital.  One day he was suddenly pulled away from his work and brought into a room where an SS soldier lay dying.  The German officer, Karl, confessed to Wiesenthal that he had committed atrocious crimes. Although raised as a good Catholic and in his youth God-fearing, Karl had allowed himself to become a sadistic accomplice to Nazi ideology.  Now that he knew his end was near and he would soon be facing his Maker, Karl was overcome by what he now realized was the enormity of his sins.

More than anything else, Karl knew that he needed atonement.  He wanted to die with a clear conscience.  So he asked that a Jew be brought to him.  And from this Jew, Simon Wiesenthal, the killer asked for absolution.

Wiesenthal has been haunted by this scene his entire life.  When it happened, he was in such shock that he didn't know how to respond.  His emotions pulled him in different directions. Anger mixed with pity , hatred with compassion, and revulsion with mercy. His conclusion was to leave in utter silence. He didn't grant Karl the forgiveness the German desperately sought.

Years later, Wiesenthal shared the story with a number of prominent intellectuals, theologians and religious leaders.  How would they have reacted?, he asked them.  In the light of religious teachings and ethical ideals, what should have been the proper response? Was there a more suitable reply than silence?

Wiesenthal collected the answers and had them published as a book called The Sunflower.  The ranges of responses offer a fascinating insight into different views on forgiveness.  Some, like the British journalist Christopher Hollis, believe that the law of God is the law of love, no matter what the situation. We have an obligation to forgive our fellow human beings even when they have caused us the greatest harm. A remorseful murderer deserved compassion.

On the other hand, Cardinal Franz Konig believes that Wiesenthal did Karl a favor just by listening to him. Wiesenthal did pass up the chance to offer his forgiveness to Karl, although in those circumstances doing so would have been " superhuman."

Rabbi Abraham Joshua Heschel, a prominent American theologian and author, offered a different perspective.  No one can forgive crimes not committed against him or her personally.  What Karl sought could only come from his victims.  It’s preposterous to think that one solitary Jew can presume to speak for 6 million.

And Who Are You To Forgive?
Some years ago, Rabbi Heschel had occasion to elaborate on this idea.  He had been invited to address a group of prominent business executives.  Among them were some of the most important CEOs in the country.  His lecture dealt with the Holocaust and its lessons for us.  He stressed the importance of memory and the need to continue to bear witness to the crime of genocide.

When he finished, one of the very famous names in American corporate life angrily rebutted the essence of Heschel's talk. " I'm tired," he said," of hearing about the Holocaust.  You claim that you're speaking in the name of morality.  Why can't you demonstrate true morality by learning to forgive and forget?"

To a stunned audience, Heschel replied by asking them for permission to tell a story. Before beginning, he introduced his listeners to the man he would be speaking about.  In the history of the Jewish people, he explained, there has hardly ever been someone considered as saintly as Rabbi Israel Kagan, commonly known as the Chafetz Chaim (“the one who desires true life”). A Polish rabbi and scholar of the late 19th and early 20th century, he was universally revered not just for his piety but more importantly for his extreme concern for the feelings of his fellow man.  It is an incident in the life of this holy figure that Heschel said he wanted to share before he would respond to the question put to him.

Rabbi Kagan was traveling on a train, immersed in a religious book he was studying. Alongside him sat three Jews anxious to while away the time by playing cards.  The game required a fourth hand so they asked the unrecognized stranger to join them.  Rabbi Kagan politely refused, explaining that he preferred to continue his reading. The frustrated card players refused to take no for an answer.  They began to beat the poor Rabbi until they left him bleeding.

Hours later, the train pulled into the station.  Hundreds of people swarmed the platform waiting to greet the great sage.  Posters bore signs of Welcome to the Chafetz Chaim. As the Rabbi, embarrassed by all the adulation, walked off the train with his bruises, the crowd lifted him up and carried him off on their shoulders.  Watching with horror were the three Jews who had not long before accosted the simple Jew sitting in their cabin, now revealed as one of the spiritual giants of their generation.  Profoundly ashamed and plagued by their guilt, they managed to make their way through the crowd and reached their unwilling card player partner.

With tears, they poured out their feelings of shame and remorse.  How could they possibly have assaulted this great Rabbi? They begged for forgiveness.  And incredibly enough, the Rabbi said no.  The man who spent his life preaching love now refused to extend it to people who harmed him and regretted their actions.  It seemed incomprehensible.  So the three Jews attributed it to a momentary lapse.  Perhaps, they thought, it was just too soon for the rabbi to forgive them.  He probably needed some time to get over the hurt.  They would wait a while and ask again at a more propitious moment.

Several weeks passed and it was now close to Yom Kippur, the Day of Atonement.  Even the simplest Jews knew that they had to gain forgiveness from their friends if they wanted to be pardoned by God.  With trepidation, the wicked three wrangled an appointment and once again were able to speak to the Rabbi.  They pleaded their case.  Still the Rabbi said no.  He would not forgive them.

The rabbi's son was present as this strange scene played itself out.  Puzzled by his father's peculiar behavior, he couldn't contain himself.  It was so unlike anything he had ever witnessed before.  Why did his father suddenly act so cruelly? Why would he persist in tormenting people who only asked for a simple expression of forgiveness?

The son dared to ask. His father explained. "Do you really think I don't want to forgive these poor Jews before the High Holy days? If it were only in my power to do so, don't you know that I would have forgiven them when they stood before me at the railroad station? Of course I, Rabbi Kagan, forgive them for what they did to me.  When they learned who I was, they were mortified and filled with shame for what they had done.  But the man they beat up was the one they presumed to be a simple, unassuming poor person with no crowd of well- wishers waiting to greet him.  He was the victim and only he is the one capable of granting them forgiveness.  Let them go find that person.  I am incapable of releasing them from their guilt."

Rabbi Heschel completed the story. He then turned to the executive who suggested that it was time for us to move on after the Holocaust and to forgive and forget. "I would be more than happy to do so if I only could. But I was not the one who was sealed in the gas chambers to die a horrible death.  I didn't have my child pulled from my breast and shot it in front of my eyes.  I was not among the tortured, the beaten, the whipped, and the murdered.  It is they and they alone who can offer forgiveness.  Go and find those 6 million and ask them if they are prepared to forgive and forget.”

Should we forgive the murderers of the thousands of victims of terrorism on 9/11? Perhaps the most appropriate response is simply this: We are not the ones who have the right to make that decision.

*** ***

This has been a Jewsweek exclusive excerpt from the soon-to-be published book, September 11th: God, Let Me Ask You Some Questions, by Rabbi Benjamin Blech.

{ Rabbi Bejamin Blech is the author of seven highly acclaimed books, including Understanding Judaism: The basics of Deed and Creed. He is a professor of Talmud at Yeshiva University and the Rabbi Emeritus of Young Israel of Oceanside, NY which he served for 37 years and from which he retired to pursue his interests in writing and lecturing around the globe. }

Deluxe Only $199 free case and shipping!_468x60

(c) 2002


Copyright © 2001-2002 Jewsweek Inc. All rights reserved.
Help - Legal - Disclaimers
Advertise on Jewsweek
Phone: (866) JEWSWEEK