I have experimented with bondage quite a bit in my life,
and have always felt disappointed about it in one aspect: I just don't
look as good in ropes and duct tape as the bondage models you find
online. No matter how I am bound, I always look more like a piece
of furniture someone just bought from Ikea and mounted to the roof of
their car than some lithe, well defined internet bondage model. In
a vain hope of living vicariously through one such person, I talked to
Sara Nychols of Boundandgagged.net
about life as bondage diva. This interview was conducted via email
in November 2002.
No, it is not safe to assume that!!!!!
Emotionally it makes me feel sexy and vulnerable. When
I am bound, I think of a million different scenarios of how I could be taken advantage of.... that, believe it or not,
I prefer the "being bound" stage. I feel like I turn into an entirely different person. My mind takes over.
Hmmmm, I guess being tied up naked spread eagled to a
Sometimes I enjoy tying others up, but I am a sub at heart.
It is more exciting. I feel like I have experienced so much in the past three and a half years.... and it keeps getting more exciting by the minute!
I am learning and experiencing new things all the time. It's great!
Absolutely not. For the most part, everyone I have met in this industry is absolutely wonderful. They all tend to
look out for me which is a great feeling. I have made some very dear friends that I will cherish forever.
Well, that experience definitely opened a door for me.... but unfortunately it was not until more than a decade later that I realized
what my childhood actions meant in the grand scheme of things.
Well, to start out it was just all "learned behavior". I played the way I wanted to - my rendition of bondage. Then Martin came along and
enforced my play habits and added some of his own.
Well, I get some of the colored rope from American Science and
Oh no...by all means Martin showed me the ropes (so to speak! :)) I knew about and practiced bondage, but he really
introduced me to more aspects of it via the internet. Lorelei (Bedroom
Bondage) was his idol long before I came into the picture.
No, No, and Yes. All I can say is that it was an incredible experience. To think of myself bound and vulnerable
for such a long period of time still sends chills up my spine. So no, it was not hard. No I never got scared...
I trust Martin completely, which is a huge aspect of bondage. He was rarely out of earshot of me and checked
on me often (and snapped those pics of me while doing so).... so I was never scared. But yes I was a bit stiff
in the morning. "Suffer for your art"..... I love it!!!
Oh absolutely not..... if all we did was to take pics for the website I think bondage would get a little routine and
annoying. We make sure that we play outside of the website realm. Keeps us interested.
Well, we had a whole bunch of pictures... talked to lots of people
From my vanilla friends (who by the way have no idea that I do this) I hear negative things about bondage. Bondage is still quite a taboo among those who do not understand it.
From my bondage friends... I never hear any "not-so-friendly" or "unhealthy attitudes" about it. If you are into it, you understand and love it. If not, well
that's your loss.
My favorite bondage gear.....jeez, that's like asking a chef what their favorite kitchen gadget is!!!! Let's put it this way, there is not much
I DONT like. ;)
I do like this question. I would have to say that I have never encountered any
competitiveness since we have been online. Ok, well first of all, here's the thing: Nobody competes with Lorelei. It's just not possible.
She is simply the best. Hands down. So as for other competitions.... well, maybe I am
naive but I have never felt competitive edge from any other bondage model that I have worked with. I simply have my site on the web
for my own satisfaction. When it starts becoming more than a hobby, I believe I will discontinue doing it.
As I said before, everyone I have met so far has been extremely nice.
Lifelong friendships that I cherish and will make sure I continue even after my site is long gone.