Fantasies & Fetishes
Naughty but ever so nice
The erotica industry is booming. John Walsh considers our obsession with spicing up our sex lives
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Inside Fantasies & Fetishes
It's a very nice house in the country (but not for an orgy)
Wednesday, 15 July 2009
Jerome Taylor: Wealthy guests sipped champagne, but at midnight everything suddenly changed
The dirty Old Masters
Saturday, 20 September 2008
It is usual, in discussions of erotica and obscenity, to talk about art and pornography as if they were opposites. In fact, argues Tom Lubbock, the whole purpose of much great art is to cause sexual arousal
My strange encounter with the world of tantric sex
Saturday, 20 September 2008
My husband Phil and I are only recently married, so we're still in the intense stage of our relationship. But when I heard about Diamond Light tantric sex workshop, which claims to transform intimacy, I admit I was intrigued.
The facts of life: fantasies & fetishes
Saturday, 20 September 2008
It was the French psychologist Alfred Binet (1857-1911) who coined the term "sexual fetishism". He meant it to describe individuals with sexual interests in non-human objects such as clothing.
Is the law tying itself in knots
Saturday, 20 September 2008
Photographer Ben Westwood has always been fascinated by bondage. But a new law could see many of his images banned and him behind bars. He makes the case for his defence
Fantasy scene: Luis Bunuel's 'Belle de Jour'
Saturday, 20 September 2008
A woman's masochistic fantasies, created by men
Sleeping around: Fulfilling a fantasy
Saturday, 20 September 2008
'At the sex party, naked couples writhed on beds'
Sex doctor: First, choose your fantasy
Saturday, 20 September 2008
In fantasy land, there are no rules. No-one can accuse us of being right or wrong, nice or nasty, because (thank God) no-one has yet invented a device to read minds. Most of the time, fantasies revolve around things we'd never want to try in reality. But their effect on our libido is immense, and they're the cheapest, most effective sex aid around. Here's a rundown on our most common themes.
Questionnaire: What do your fantasies mean?
Saturday, 20 September 2008
Analysis of fantasies, and the closely related world of dreams, has long been the backbone of the talking therapies. Freud famously remarked that when two people make love there are four people present the two doing it and the two they are thinking about. Others have criticised Freud for having a limited grasp of maths. Jung, that other giant of psychoanalysis, built an elaborate philosophy of dreaming around a construct he called the archetype. Although modern psychologists often dismiss night dreams as (a) only 4 per cent about sex and (b) mainly full of the day's mental junk, pioneering researchers into daytime dreaming people like Nancy Friday and Shere Hite - have revealed the amazing richness and filthiness of our sexual fantasies. This quiz asks which of four broad categories of fantasy you fall into.