Scanners Refuse To Choose by Barbara Sher

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Refuse to Choose!: Use All of Your Interests, Passions, and Hobbies to Create the Life and Career of Your Dreams

Don't know what to do with your life? Drawn to so many things that you can't choose just one?best-selling author Barbara Sher has the answer-do EVERYTHING!

I didn't know I was a scanner until I read this book, find out if you are one too by reading below! I used to worry if I had ADD but now I know I'm not alone with having lots of passionate interests and that it can even be an advantage.

With her popular career counseling sessions, motivational speeches, workshops, and television specials, Barbara Sher has become famous for her extraordinary ability to help people define and achieve their goals. What Sher has discovered is that some individuals simply cannot, and should not, decide on a single path; they are genetically wired to pursue many areas. Sher calls them "Scanners"-people whose unique type of mind does not zero in on a single interest but rather scans the horizon, eager to explore everything they see.

In this groundbreaking book, readers will learn:

  • what's behind their "hit and run" obsessions

  • when (and how) to finish what they start

  • how to do everything they love

  • what type of Scanner they are (and which tools they need to do their very best work)

Key Facts, Ideas and Concepts from Refuse To Choose 

Refuse To Choose 101

  1. Scanners fear that they have but usually do not have ADD (Attention Deficit Disorder)
  2. Scanners are people who believe that they are Hopelessly interested in Everything
  3. Scanners where previously often seen as Jack of all trades
  4. Start a Scanner Daybook, use this to note down all your various ideas should not ordered (the Da Vinci Notebooks were famously not ordered). When you are distracted by a tangential idea write it down "get it out of your system" then return to your previous task
  5. Yappers
    Another name for Scanners is YAP Yet-Another-Project
  6. Backward Planning Flowchart
    A way of breaking down a project until you find a step that you can action immediately
  7. Start Small Start Now
    The importance of doing something now, making some small progress. This builds your confidence
  8. There are scanners who can never start their projects
  9. There are scanners who can never finish their projects
  10. Other Scanners find that they are organized enough to start and complete their projects but unfortunately lose interest in it as soon as they have mastered it. So for instance they might qualify as a teacher and then announce that they have no desire to teach this often astonishes and dismays friends and family.
  11. Scanners often have Good Enough Jobs that is to say jobs which earn enough to pay the bills, but allow them enough energy to pursue their other passions. Scanners have usually given up on finding the perfect job anyway.

Barbara Sher Refuse To Choose 

Refuse To Choose Testimonials and Comments 

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All these are real comments and testimonials. When you are evaluating reader's comments read the positive ones and the "intelligent" negative reviews (many negative reviews are ill though out, or the book arrived late). The intelligent negative reviews will also teach something about the book/product.
  • This is the book I have been searching for all of my life
  • You need to read it if you are someone who has so many interests you can't seem to get anything done
  • Help for Jacks of All Trades
  • Finally my random approach makes sense
  • I bought this book for my daughter who, though bright and motivated, was having trouble deciding on which one thing she wanted to devote her life to. She loved this book
  • The Book I Was Waiting For and Never Knew It!

More Brilliant Barabara Sher Books 

Barbara Sher is All about Ideas and Inspiration

Barbara starts her book by remembering her bewilderment at college when she had to choose her classes, her fellow students all seemed to be organized and know exactly what they wanted. Barbara on the hand just listened to amazed to things being discussed "The golden peaches of Samarkand ", "200 million year old fossils from the ancient sea of Tethys are now found on the slopes of the Himalayas", "The rebirth of learning after the dark ages", "Ancient trade routes", that there were people in love with learning hungry for knowledge. Of course at that time she didn't know how to channel or focus all that, didn't know she was a scanner and Refuse to Choose was eventually born out of that

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I don't think it's an advantage to be a scanner but at least we are never BORED. A Scanner never says "I don't know what I'll do with my retirement", a scanner forced to stay in a dull town for a few weeks for business reason becomes practically an honorary member of the place in that time.
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Squidoo is Ideal for Scanners 

Squidoo has allowed me to resolve many of my scanner projects ie get them out of my system. I just create a lens on whatever subject has grabbed my attention. Sometimes that's enough and I've fulfilled my interest in that topic, other times it's a stepping stone and my interests develops, either way I am proactive and can stop the idea worrying me as yet another uncompleted project

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The most important thing I got From Barbara's book was the realization that I might as well accept the fact that I'm a scanner, and that the Internet allows me to even make money out of it!

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Scanners the Film 

Welcome to the world of the Scannersa race of humans with telekinetic powers that can wreak havoc beyond your most dreaded nightmare. Writer/director David Cronenberg (The Fly, Naked Lunch) brings the terror closer than ever beforehe brings it right into your mind. Cronenberg is a modern-day horror master whose name fits in easily with the likes of King, Craven and Carpenter...and Scanners, with its spectacular and shockingly realistic special effects, is a startling masterpiece of the genre. When a rogue Scanner of unparalleled power (Michael Ironside) wages a bloody war against the normals, young empath Cameron Vale (Stephen Lack) is recruited to trackhim down. But Vale is inexperiencedand a battle with another Scanner could mean a grisly death...or worse. Can Vale vanquish his insanely violent, power-mad adversary? Only one thing is certain: Scanners delivers the chills-down-your-spine, heart-in-your-throat, you-can't-watch-but-you-daren't-leave goods

Scanners

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