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Danielle Bean

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Danielle Bean, a mother of eight, is Editorial Director of Faith & Family. She is author of My Cup of Tea, Mom to Mom, Day to Day, and most recently Small Steps for Catholic Moms. Though she once struggled to separate her life and her work, the two …
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Rachel Balducci

Rachel Balducci
Rachel Balducci is married to Paul and they are the parents of five lively boys and one precious baby girl. She is the author of How Do You Tuck In A Superhero?, and is a newspaper columnist for the Diocese of Savannah, Georgia. For the past four years, she has …
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Lisa Hendey

Lisa Hendey
Lisa Hendey is the founder and editor of CatholicMom.com, a Catholic web site focusing on the Catholic faith, Catholic parenting and family life, and Catholic cultural topics. Most recently she has authored The Handbook for Catholic Moms. Lisa is also employed as webmaster for her parish web sites. …
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Arwen Mosher

Arwen Mosher
Arwen Mosher lives in southeastern Michigan with her husband Bryan and their young children Camilla and Blaise. She has a bachelor's degree in theology. She dreads laundry, craves sleep, loves to read novels and do logic puzzles, and can't live without tea. Her personal blog site is ABC Family. …
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Rebecca Teti

Rebecca Teti
Rebecca Teti is married to Dennis and has four children (3 boys, 1 girl) who -- like yours no doubt -- are pious and kind, gorgeous, and can spin flax into gold. A Washington, DC, native, she converted to Catholicism while an undergrad at the U. Dallas, where she double-majored in …
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Robyn Lee

Robyn Lee
Robyn Lee is the managing editor of Faith & Family magazine. She is (yikes!) an almost 30 year-old, single lady, living in Connecticut with her two cousins in a small bungalow-style kit house built by her great uncle in the 1950s. She also conveniently lives next door to her sister, brother-in-law …
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Hallie Lord

Hallie Lord
Hallie Lord married her dashing husband, Dan, in the fall of 2001 (the same year, coincidentally, that she joyfully converted to the Catholic faith). They now happily reside in the deep South with their two energetic boys and two very sassy girls. In her *ample* spare time, Hallie enjoys cheap wine, …
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Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr. John Bartunek, LC

Fr John Bartunek, LC, STL, received his BA in History from Stanford University in 1990, graduating Phi Beta Kappa. He comes from an evangelical Christian background and became a member of the Catholic Church in 1991. After college he worked as a high school history teacher, drama director, and …
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Jeff Young

Jeff Young
Everyone is entitled to at least one good idea, right? Well, Jeff Young had his in October 2008 when he was struck dumb by the Catholic Foodie concept. It was a Reese's moment for him. Two great "tastes" that "taste" great together. Food and faith! Jeff produces the Catholic Foodie internet …
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Lynn Wehner

Lynn Wehner
As a wife and mother, writer and speaker, Lynn Wehner challenges others to see the blessings that flow when we struggle to say "Yes" to God’s call. Control freak extraordinaire, she is adept at informing God of her brilliant plans and then wondering why the heck they never turn out that …
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I am pregnant with our third child and I am a lot more ill than with the other two.  I was hoping for some suggestions on how to deal with this, as my ob-gyn told me there was nothing that could be done.  The main issue is that I am very dizzy and weak.  It is so bad that I have trouble making it through my cafeteria and clip duties at school, which are only 40 minutes long.  I can deal with the nausea and general digestive upset that always accompanies pregnancy, but this dizziness is somewhat incapacitating.  I have been eating small meals every three hours or so.  I make sure there is some carbohydrate/protein in each one.  I am taking my prenatals.  I have been going to be with the kids, so I am getting plenty of sleep.  I am not sure what else to try.  Any suggestions would be appreciated.  Thanks!

 

How about a bit of iron?  I find that with each successive pregnancy, anemia-like conditions get worse and worse.  You can take iron, or eat red meat or spinach.  It will help with the feeling of overall weakness.  And, congratulations!

 

Congratulations!  My “bible” for this is Marilyn Shannon’s book, “Fertility, Cycles and Nutrition.”  Strongly recommend it to you. 
In the meantime, I think that if you can do it somehow while working, aim for an *hourly* snack, and plenty of fluids. Carb/fat/protein combo’s work best.  What kind of prenatal are you taking?  Vitamin B6 is important.  Lifetime Professional Prenatals are awesome.

Hard-boiled eggs, bean dip, hummus, yogurt, cheese, nuts, nut/seed spreads, portable protein bars (not a regular granola bar)...just some ideas.  Plus, milk to drink on the go. Not sure what would work at a school for you. 

Also, try to “frontload” your day by eating before bed, in bed, and if you get up during the night for the bathroom.  That overnight fast can really send your blood sugar levels plummeting & make it hard to really catch up before you start your day.  Hope this helps. Happy gestating! grin

 

I know how you feel! Was there many times myself. I took B6—it was the only thing that helped me. The amount in pre-natal vitamins was not near enough. I went to Walgreens and bought it separately. When pregnant, I took 200mg time-release at night, and 100mg in the morning (300mg B-6 total per day). It takes a week or so to kick in, but well worth it. Hope you feel better soon!

 

Your glucose may be low? They always test it to make sure it’s not high, but sometimes you can have the opposite called hypoglycemia. You feel dizzy and weak. I fainted for the first time in my life when I was pregnant with my third ‘cause I had hypoglycemia. I agree, eat small snacks with protein and rest. God bless you.

 

What are the chances of pregnancy from relations four days before your temperature rise? I am freaking out because we are trying to avoid and my temp went up on Saturday (we had relations on Monday, and I didn’t notice the fertile mucus until Tuesday). Our last child was conceived from relations once four days before the temperature rise, so it has happened before.

 

OH, I hear you.  If it happened before..well then…. Maybe what might be different if you are pregnant is that your support can be widened.

Are you comfortable with the rules/ instructions you were given?  And, if you have an NFP provider, we / they should be a real help.  I teach NFP in Maryland, and am happy to have you connect with me further aboutit.  Going back to your source of solid nfp info would be best right/  What do you think/

 

Therese, I actually live in the DC area and see the napro trained Dr. at Tepeyac. I have PCOS and my cycles are very, very difficult. Despite being on metformin for 3 years they are still irregular. I have had two children, both surprises. I’m not sure if there’s anything that can be done at this point. :( NFP doesn’t seem to work very well for me. I took a CCL class and use the sympto-thermal method but I’m familiar with some of the basics of the Creighton method. I have a follow-up at Tepeyac on Dec. 9 about my cycles. Hopefully I will not be pregnant and they will be able to help me further. I have been going there for 4 years with not much luck, though. :( I had a life-threatening complication last time and I am very scared of another pregnancy.

 

Also, do you know the odds of a pregnancy resulting from relations on that day?

 

from what I know, it doesn’t matter so much about the temp rise as much as if fertile mucus is present when you have relations.  from what you say, you didn’t see it the day of but did see it the day after.  there is a chance that it was starting the day before but hadn’t dropped, and this is the exact situation why some methods advocate internal checks.  i’ve seen probabilities on this, but I couldn’t tell you what they are right now.

 

The way I understand it, if there’s no fertile mucus, the sperm can only live a few hours.  Think of it this way: if you were trying to conceive, would that day be a good day?  Probably not.  The sperm have to live in something.

 

From what I know women have conceived even though they did not observe the fertile mucus.  One woman I know switched from Creighton because of this—2 surprise pregnancies conceived when she had observed no fertile mucus—she switched to a method that did internal checks.  So the lesson is just because you did not observe it does not mean it was not there.

 

Thanks for your replies, everyone. I always do internal checks - I can never tell by wiping. And I didn’t see the really stretchy stuff the day we had relations.

 

Thanks for your replies, everyone. I always do internal checks - I can never tell by wiping. And I didn’t see the really stretchy stuff the day we had relations. I did see something that was kind of ambiguous, but usually when I have that I’m not fertile. However, my last pregnancy was conceived four days before the temp rise when I had ambiguous mucus.

 

Does anyone here use a fertility monitor (Marquette method) to track their fertility? Dh and I have been having a hard time with communicating effectively every month, and I’d like to try to enhance our tracking. I’ve been looking the Clearblue Easy Fertility Monitor vs the Ovacue. Does anyone have advice/experience?

 

My husband and I have used the Clearblue Easy.  It helped us conceive our now 13-month-old boy and helped us to avoid a pregnancy during the tricky postpartum time before my period returned.  We don’t use it all the time, though, because the test sticks are pricey and we feel that we have enough to go on with just temperatures at the moment.  But it’s perfect for times that you’re looking for a bit of extra assurance/your cycles are irregular/you’re up all the time with a baby and your temps are all over the place.  Good luck!

 

we have the ovacue, both oral and vaginal testing. I have irregular cycles, and it is pretty good at confirming ovulation, but I don’t feel like it has given us any better idea that ovulation is pending. If you have regular cycles, you may have better results? I do think it’s better for acheiving pregnancy, not avoiding. I personally felt it’s a waste of our money, since I’m relying on my basal temperatures and mucus anyway. We’re abstaining for about 2 weeks every cycle, plus during AF. It sucks!

 

Therese, I actually live in the DC area and see the napro trained Dr. at Tepeyac. I have PCOS and my cycles are very, very difficult. Despite being on metformin for 3 years they are still irregular. I have had two children, both surprises. I’m not sure if there’s anything that can be done at this point. :( NFP doesn’t seem to work very well for me. I took a CCL class and use the sympto-thermal method but I’m familiar with some of the basics of the Creighton method. I have a follow-up at Tepeyac on Dec. 9 about my cycles. Hopefully I will not be pregnant and they will be able to help me further. I have been going there for 4 years with not much luck, though. :(

 

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