Today many of us yearn to make the holiday season|
more meaningful, more loving, perhaps more spiritual.
Candlegrove traces the winter holiday season from Thanksgiving through Epiphany.
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2009 Holiday Season Calendar(be sure to adjust for your time zone)
DEC 11, 2009: First night of Hanukkah
DEC 18, 2008: Final night of Hanukkah
DEC 21, 2009: Winter Solstice in North America, time depends on your time zone
DEC 25, 2009: Christmas
DEC 26, 2009: Boxing Day and the first day of Kwanzaa
JAN 6, 2009: Epiphany (observed Sunday, Jan 3 in Christian churches)
In Japan, citrus fruits, especially the yuzu, a citron, as well as pumpkin figure prominently in traditions around winter solstice. A yuzu bath taken at winter solstice is said to bring health. Pumpkin is a traditional Japanese dish at this time of year. The traditions harken back to the days when Shinto, an ancient nature-based religion, was more prominent.
For a simple family ritual on Winter Solstice, you can pass around an orange. Each person peels off a portion of the rind, while thinking about one thing in their lives they would like to "peel away." Once it's fully peeled, the orange is passed around again. Each person eats a section, while thinking about one new wish or intention for the new year. If it's a mandarin orange, save the peel to make mandarin peel tea!
Nighttime wishing ritual: Go outside and settle into the night. Listen. Think about the night as if it were an island. Have in mind what is important to you — what you want to release from your life and what you want to welcome into your life in the coming year. Breathe each thing you want gone, one at a time, into the palm of your hand, then blow them away into the winter sky. Do the same with each desire you wish to enter your life. When you are finished, go inside and light a red candle. Put it in a safe place to burn out completely. The candle is a symbolic guiding light to draw your desires to you.
Honoring the directions: Many ancient cultures acknowledge and use the four compass points in their rituals. Here are some qualities for each direction in the Northern Hemisphere. These come from the wonderful book, The Winter Solstice:
North: cold, earth, challenge, endings, ice and snow, things waiting to germinate and be born.You can add or change these associations to make them your own.
A simple litany: From the same book, a simple prayer. You can make this both serious and fun. Every person in a group can contribute a line:
For the return of the sun — blessings and praise!You can continue this litany as long as you can keep thinking up new things.
Sun map: Here's a way to observe winter solstice for yourself (assuming the day is sunny). It is similar to sun maps found in Zuni homes. At a specific time on the winter solstice, (perhaps sunrise or noon), mark where the sun's rays shine inside your house, with a special mark or sign on a wall, or by hanging a feather or other object that casts a shadow at a specific point. I use an ornament shaped like the sun with a mirror in the center. Then in future years, you'll be able to observe the sun approaching winter solstice.
St. Francis of Assisi's Canticle of Brother Sun is a beautiful prayer. It has the same spirit of reverence and gratitude for the natural world as you'll find in Native American prayers.About Yule logs: There are three modern interpretations of this ancient tradition. The first hews closest to the old ritual: Decorate a good-sized log (traditionally oak, also traditionally not purchased but found) with a few sprigs of evergreen tied in ribbon (probably red) and place it in your fireplace. For a ritual touch, write wishes for the new year on slips of paper and tuck them under the ribbon. The full tradition requires that the log be lighted on Yule (winter solstice or Christmas Eve, or both! your choice) along with a piece of the previous year's Yule log, then extinguished before burning out fully, to save a portion to light with the following year's log, hence completing the cycle of the year. Another interpretation of the tradition demands that the fire be kept going for the 12 days of Yule.
For those without fireplaces or for a different take on the tradition, you can create a candle version by taking a smallish log, sawing a flattened side as the base, then drilling holes fat enough to hold candles for a tabletop decoration.
Then, of course, there's another interpretation of the Yule log: that over-the-top French dessert, a 19th century fantasy in genoise and chocolate (often festooned with meringue mushrooms). High Martha Stewart points for that one!Read our interviews with:
Waverly Fitzgerald of School of the Seasons
Sheryl Karas, author of The Solstice Evergreen
More about winter solstice, from Wikipedia.
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