"How to Get Your Man Back -- and Keep Him Devoted to
You For Good" by Bob Grant, L.P.C. - "The Relationship
Doctor"
Ladies, has
this ever happened to you, or to another woman you
know? ↓
Y
ou meet a great guy. You
start dating and your relationship goes well over the first
few weeks or months. You're convinced he's definitely
into you -- maybe even in love with you. Suddenly,
just when you start thinking he's Mr. Right, he loses
interest in you and begins to pull
away.
You
panic -- and you start asking yourself, "What
happened?"
Then comes the inevitable question
...
"Where did
I go wrong?"
You spend all your time
replaying in your mind over and over what happened during your
last conversation or encounter with him, looking for clues as
to what might have led to your breakup. What
should you have done or said -- and what should you
not have done or said? You say to yourself, "If
only I could understand why he left me, I could fix
it."
Then,
when you can't find anything you did wrong, you begin to
wonder, 'What's wrong with him?' Maybe he's
got a drug problem, maybe he met someone else, maybe he's got
intimacy issues, maybe he's gay, and so on ... ad
nauseum.
Sound familiar?
Then, you do what
most women do ... consult with your girlfriends (or your
sister, cousin or Mom) and together, you speculate for hours
why he suddenly seems indifferent and distant. You
devise all kinds of ploys to put yourself in his path
or to get him to call you -- but nothing works.
Then, you're faced with the agonizing decision
... do you go on hopelessly wishing he'll come back to you,
while feeling hurt and broken-hearted -- or just
forget about him and chalk him up as "the man who got
away?"
If
you're experiencing the above
scenario... .....or you know
someone who is going through it
.....
or you just want to prevent it from happening to you --
this may be the most important article you'll ever read!
When a man leaves a
relationship, and the woman wonders where she went wrong, and tries
desperately to get him back, that's actually a common pattern I've seen
all too often in man-woman relationships. It certainly causes
a lot of distress in women -- but the good news is that there's an
easy solution to this problem!
In the next 5
minutes, as you read this article in its entirety, you'll
discover ...
the reasons why a man suddenly loses interest in
having a relationship with you, even if he was previously very
much into you
how your natural tendencies
as a woman often contribute to the breakup -- and what you
can do to avoid sabotaging your reconciliation efforts;
the No.1 mistake women make when
trying to get their man back; and
my step-by-step game plan --
including techniques that have been used for centuries to
rekindle relationships. This irresistible game
plan is virtually guaranteed to soften your ex-boyfriend's
(or ex-husband's) heart and create a deeper bond between
the two of you that paves the way to re-establishing your
relationship.
I'll even reveal to you my word-for-word script --
9 incredibly powerful
wordsyou can say to your man that will make him realize
he simply couldn't bear to lose you!
I
urge you to adopt my game plan as soon as possible. Don't wait
until your man has moved on in his life without you and shut you out
of his heart forever. You must strike while the iron's
hot. When you follow my game plan exactly as
prescribed, it is highly likely that he'll come running back to
you.
A Man's Change of
Heart
A client (whom I will call Charlene
to protect her privacy) came to consult with me last
year. She had been dating a man named Martin for 6
months. Charlene was 43 and had 4 children. The
relationship was going beautifully for a few months when, out
of the blue, Martin told her that he wasn't ready to get
married -- so he stopped seeing her.
She felt
devastated, and when she came to my office for
counseling, she broke into tears often
as she told me her story. I showed her my proven game plan for
getting Martin back -- and she began to implement it. At
first, nothing happened and she thought the plan wasn't
working -- but she stuck to the plan anyway. Seven
months later, Martin proposed to her -- and 3 months
thereafter, they were married.
If you were to ask
Martin what caused his change of heart, he would never
be able to tell. But Charlene and I know that "the plan"
had everything to do with
it!
Why They Call Me the
"Relationship Doctor"
My name is Bob Grant. I'm a
Licensed Professional Counselor, therapist, and relationship
coach with 18 years of successful practice. I'm also the
author of the popular book, The
Woman Men Adore..and Never Want to Leave (2005).
People
call me "The Relationship Doctor" because I have the prescription for
finding love, keeping passion alive, and reigniting relationships
that have lost their spark.
The majority of my clients
are women -- and one of the top relationship problems they've
brought to my attention is this: The man in their life has lost
interest in them and they want to know how to get him
back.
Luckily, I have an effective remedy based
not only on real-life feedback from hundreds of my real-life female
clients, but also from time-tested strategies andtechniques I've developed over the yearswhich, when
properly implemented, are most difficult for a man to
resist!
But before I reveal the "remedy" -- or the
absolute best game plan to bring back your man -- I'm going to ask
you to take part in the fun and eye-opening7-second pop
quiz below.
If a man with whom you've recently had a
good relationship suddenly loses interest in you -- and
you sense that he's beginning to pull away from you --
which of the following frequently used
strategies do you think is the best thing
you can do to get him back?
↓ Check
one.
A. Write him a letter (expressing your
heartfelt emotions, reminding him of all the good times
you've had together, what you think went wrong in your
relationship, ways to make your relationship better,
etc.)
B.Call him on the phone, tell him how you
feel -- and get him to open up and talk about his
feelings
C. Give him
gifts and shower him with sweetness and love --
so he'll realize what he's missing by not having you in his
life
D.Call him and say, "No
one will ever love you as much as I
do."
Have you placed a check
mark next to your answer? If so, which of the above strategies
did you check -- A, B, C or D?
If you checked any one
of them, then I'm afraid that your answer ...
... is
wrong.
The correct answer is none of
them!
That's right -- none of the above strategies work,
at least not
permanently.
The No.
1 Mistake Women
Make When Trying to Get Their Man Back
In the 16 years I've spent in relationship coaching, I've
found that most women do not have a clue as to how to
effectively win back a man who has lost interest in them.
They almost always go about it the wrong way!
By far,
the most common mistake a woman makes when trying to get a man back
is this:
She uses strategies that work on women but
not on men.
Let me explain.
Men respond to things differently than women -- and they're not hardwired to
understand feelings the way women are. That's why
talking about your feelings -- and getting him to talk about
his feelings -- rarely works.
Writing him a letter is
also a waste of time because words do not have the
same effect on a man that they have on a woman -- no matter how
wonderful your words are and how beautiful the
sentiments behind those words.
Most women think that
words are going to tug at a man's heart strings, and make him
fall to his knees begging for the woman to take him back.
Ladies, let me be blunt: They
don't.
Words are for women. While it might
make you feel good that you've written the most inspiring
letter in the world, your letter won't have much of an impact on a
man. Period.
Giving him gifts and showering him
with sweetness and love seldom work either because men don't flow
as well in the emotional realm as women do. You simply
cannot flood a man's heart with emotions to win him back the way you
can a woman's.
The Guy Didn't Know What Hit
Him!
Heather started dating a guy named
Greg, who she didn't know was dating 2 other women besides
her. One day, Greg told her up front about the other
women -- and Heather was shocked and dismayed because
she had been dating him exclusively and had thought the
exclusivity was mutual.
Not knowing what else to
do, she gave him an ultimatum, "You have to choose --
it's either them or me" -- to which he replied that he wasn't
ready to date her exclusively. He then stopped seeing
her altogether. This is an example of not knowing
how or when to give an ultimatum
-- that's why it backfired on her.
I showed Heather
the game plan and she immediately set it in motion. For
4 weeks, nothing happened. Greg didn't even call her --
and that made her think he probably just wanted to play the
field, and didn't want to be tied down to one woman.
On the 5th week, he
called and said, "I've been thinking about you." He said
he wanted to know how she was doing, and just wanted to talk
-- without particularly wanting to get back with her.
Little did Greg know that the game plan had prepared Heather
for this very call -- she knew EXACTLY what to say to Greg
and how to say it. Within a month of working the
magic of "the plan," they went on a date. Soon
thereafter, Greg stopped seeing the other 2 women -- and
decided to have a relationship with Heather exclusively.
Heather had captured his heart -- and he didn't know what hit
him!
Why Do Most Strategies for Getting a Man Back Fail
Miserably?
Because they fail to identify or address the
root cause of why your man left you or lost interest in the
first place. So even if you do manage to get your man back
using one of the common ploys, it will be temporary at best
because the cause of your breakup would remain
unresolved.
What complicates the
problem is that men are not usually willing to open up about their
feelings long enough for you to figure out what it was that caused
them to leave. And oftentimes they may not even be aware of
the underlying reason why they habitually try to escape from
relationships that are going well.
When women make "educated
guesses" as to what caused their man to break up with them, more
often than not, they guess wrong -- and so they waste all
their time trying to fix the wrong thing -- and never get
anywhere.
So what's a woman to do?
I'll get to that in
a moment. But first, here's what you should not
do. ↓
WARNING: Beware of Untrained Relationship
Coaches and Relationship Resources that Dispense Advice of Dubious
Value
There
are several books -- not to mention dozens of articles
in women's magazines -- about how to get your man back or how to
rekindle an old romance. There are even more self-proclaimed
"relationship coaches" who claim they can help you with your
relationship problems. Whatever you do, don't fall for the
following:
Relationship Books that are not
Gender-Specific --
Books that give generic advice for both men and women
seeking to rekindle relationships with their ex-girlfriend or
ex-boyfriend are seldom effective because, as I've pointed out
above, what works on
women does not work on men -- and vice
versa. Most available resources tend to be tilted in favor of
helping men get their woman back.
Books, Magazine Articles or Relationship Advice
Based on Trickery and Artifice -- Far too many books, magazine articles and
relationship advisors show you how to "trick" a man into submission
by using all sorts of artifice -- and of course, the old stand-by,
sex. In my opinion, these do more harm than good.
Trickery could work in the short-term, and it may help you
get your man back temporarily, but it won't enable you to
sustain the
relationship -- you're likely to lose your man again down
the line because the device used to get him back was based on
shallow motivations instead of a deep understanding of
men.
Advice Given by Untrained or Inexperienced
Relationship Coaches --
There's been a recent proliferation of "relationship coaches" who,
after having completed a mere 12 to 48 hours of life coach training,
masquerade as relationship experts. When you take advice from
such untrained people who resort to guesswork instead of
extensive real-life experience, you run the risk of making critical
mistakes that could jeopardize your chances of ever getting your man
back. So now that
you know what not to do, what should you
do? My private relationship counseling practice has
enabled me to develop powerful strategies for helping couples
rekindle relationships -- including a step-by-step game plan to help
women get their man back. I truly want to share this game plan
with more than just the clients who are able to travel to my office
in Georgia to sit down with me face-to-face. I also want to
help those who can't afford my counseling services ($125/hour).
So I devised a way that will enable you to gain immediate
access to my game plan, and let you benefit from my experience
without you having to shell out hundreds of dollars in hourly
fees -- and without leaving the comfort of your own home or
office. For the first time, I've spilled
my secrets in the pages of my second E-book, titled How Do I Get Him
Back.
Unlike other
relationship resources that teach you the obvious ploys for
rekindling a man's interest temporarily (through the
promise of sex or other enticements), my E-book shows
you how to understand your man deeply so that you can sustain your
relationship after he does come back to you.
Here's a sneak peek at some of the
nuggets contained in the E-book:
How to tap into a man's
pain, which holds the secret to reaching his heart
(see page
13)
The 9 words you can say to your man that
will make him realize he simply can't bear to lose you -- this
last-ditch tactic is based on one of the most powerful
psychological motivators in the world! (see page 68)
When do your acts of kindness,
empathy, generosity, graciousness and taking pain away come
across to a man as being controlling -- instead of
being perceived as praiseworthy intentions? (see pages
10-11)
How to
get what you really want in a man -- a simple exercise
that takes all the guesswork
out of determining if the man you want back is good for
you -- or worth all the trouble to get him back
(see pages
45-50)
How to use your feminine
attributes to make yourself a "safe" person in whom he can
confide his fears and inner pain so that you can
finally discover the real reason he escapes from
relationships -- and ultimately, make him want to get
back with you; (see page 86)
Why a
man's imagination is the best thing you have
going for you -- and how to use it to make him crave to
be with you again. (see pages 60-61)
How to identify signals in a man's voice that
tell you his guard is down, he's willing to let you get closer
to him, and it's the best time to talk about the previous
issues in your relationship (see page 64)
What if he doesn't call you? How to initiate
contact with a man in a demure and classy way --
without appearing too forward or desperate, or running
the risk of being regarded a stalker.
(see page
66-69)
How to affect a man on an emotional level to
maximize the chances of rekindling your relationship with him
(see page
66)
What you
must do in order to get the attention of your ex -- and how to
determine what will cause him to want to be with you
again. (see page
44)
How to
show a man you care about him without coming across as being
too needy, or emotionally "high-maintenance" -- which could
backfire on you and cause your man to back off. Also,
how to tell when a man has reached the threshold of giving,
and is overwhelmed by your needs that he feels the need
to escape. (see
page 31)
How to
know if your man has unresolved issues which persist
even when you're doing everything right in a
relationship -- and how to know if those issues can be
resolved, of if you need to give him up as a lost cause
(see pages
35-36)
WARNING:Your acts of kindness
and generosity may be giving him the impression that you're a
woman with low self-esteem, or one who's trying too hard to
please him. How to know when you're giving too
much (see page 30)
The
top 3 reasons why a man chooses to end his relationship
with a woman -- the sooner you understand these reasons,
the sooner you can get him back, and prevent the same mistakes
from happening again (see page 41)
How to influence and shape
your man's opinion of you -- and get him to see you as
being more beautiful and more valuable,
not someone who can be taken for granted
(see page
74-76)
The Art
of Perfect Timing -- How to create the perfect environment
and time to give your man relationship-enhancing advice
or insights at the precise moment he is ready to hear it
-- so as not to drive him further away (see pages 21-22)
Why insisting on a commitment from a man is
one of the best things you can do for him -- whether he
thinks it's a good idea or not (see page 28)
How to
differentiate between the insight problems and
motivation problems involved in your breakup, and how
to deal with each type correctly (see pages 20-22)
How to
avoid putting your man on the defensive with your well-meaning
opinions (see
page 20)
How to
understand what's really going on inside a man's heart
in order to make him warm up to the idea of reconciling with
you -- this is something he might not even be aware of, or
he??s trying to avoid. (see page 6)
What causes women to have "blind spots" --
and make them clueless as to what men want and what drives men
away. (see page
10)
How to avoid
continually implementing strategies just because they're
familiar to you -- in favor of implementing the most
effective plan for getting him back (see pages 11-12)
How to
avoid the knee-jerk actions that your
fears compel you to do -- even though those actions may
make perfect sense -- because they're usually the least
effective ways of getting your man back.
(see page 13)
How to
know how much you should be giving to your man --
too little and he won't know how much you care about
him; too much and he is going to feel like you are
competing with him (see page 14)
How to
get your man back by tapping into the very thing that caused him
to date you in the first place. (see pages 14-15)
...and much
more!
What is It Worth
to Get Your Man Back?
I've
always found it quite amazing to observe how dramatically a woman's
life changes when she has the enduring devotion of the man
she wants.
In this regard, I'd like to ask you
this:
How would the quality of your life change when
you get your man back? How overjoyed would you be when you
realize you have the power to keep your man devoted to you
forever?
What price can you put on not wasting any
more time trying ineffective ways to get your man back -- but
instead having a step-by-step game plan to effortlessly
magnetize him back into your life -- even if there are other
women vying for his attention?
What is the value of never feeling helpless, hurt
or broken-hearted if your man suddenly loses interest -- but instead
having the know-how to reignite the spark in his heart, create a
deeper bond with him and re-establish a stronger and enduring
relationship?
How delighted would you feel when you realize
that you never have to let a man slip through your fingers
again -- or watch him walk out of your life without being able to do
anything about it?
Clearly, most women regard the ability to
win back a man's heart as a priceless skill -- one that's
worth a small fortune in life-changing benefits not only for
themselves but also the female friends and relatives they could
potentially help once they've learned the game plan.
What is it worth to you?
$3,000?
$2,000? $1,000?
Would
you believe it if I told you that How
Do I Get Him Backwon't even cost you $100? No, not
even $50. Your investment in getting your man back and keeping
him devoted to you for good -- is only...
.... $39.95
That's less than the price of a nice pair of
shoes! Yes, your
investment in this must-have
E-book is just $39.95 -- that's just a small
fraction of the $125 that I charge for a 45-minute counseling
session, in which I could cover only a tiny part of what my
E-book contains!
You would have to E-book several counseling
sessions with me and pay hundreds of dollars in hourly fees to get
all the eye-opening content you'll find in
How
Do I Get Him
Back.
What's more, when you consider that my step-by-step game
plan for getting your man back isnot available
elsewhere -- isn't it clear that you need to own
this indispensable E-book now?
This Book is Worth Its Weight in
Gold!
"Wow, Bob Grant's book, How Do I
Get Him Back, really opened my eyes to the truth about
men. I used to think that all men generally have a
love-'em-and-leave-'em attitude when it comes to dating
women -- and that there was nothing I could do to make a man
faithful to me. This book revealed an important concept
about how to make a
man regard me as someone of great value -- someone
who's worth devoting his singular attention to. I'm
forever grateful for this priceless information which I know
will serve me for life. I appreciate this book even more
because ever since I read it, I've been sharing what I learned
from it with girlfriends and female members of my family who
wanted to get their boyfriends back. I feel like a
female Dr. Phil dispensing expert advice to women.
This book is worth
its weight in gold!" -- Kristin Bennett, Los Angeles,
California
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You Could Lose So Much -- Especially Your
Man
Since you've read this far, I know you're
obviously interested in getting your man back -- or maybe helping a
girlfriend bring her man back.
I also know that
in your life, you and your girlfriends have probably known a
lot of men who suddenly leave a relationship that seems to be going
quite well. And you've probably devised all kinds of ploys to
get back your men -- and have had little or no success.
If
you're one of the lucky women who's never had the experience
of suddenly being dumped by a man with whom you were having what
you thought was a good relationship -- I can tell you this
...
...sometime in your dating life, you will
experience it.
Chances are, you'll experience it
more than once. And so will your girlfriends.
That's
because it's a relationship pattern that spontaneously shows
up simply because men are true to their male nature -- and this
often comes into conflict with women who are just being true to
their female nature.
Oftentimes, neither the man or the woman
is singularly at fault! It's just the eternal battle of the
sexes at work!
It's the wise woman who learns how to
harmonize (notcompromise) with the nature of
men -- and eventually triumphs and gets what she wants out of her
relationship with a
man.
Right now, you have a choice to make. You could
either download
a copy of How Do I Get Him Back and implement the
step-by-step game plan that will not only bring your man back but
also keep him devoted to you for good -- or you could remain
the same woman with the same relationship challenges you have today,
never knowing how much better your life could be if you just
learn how to get back your man.
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Do I Get Him Back today.
Wishing you successful
relationships,
Bob Grant,
L.P.C.
P.S. If you're like most women, I'm certain you've had your
share of girlfriends who've tried every trick in the book to get
their man back. I invite you to own
this E-book now or give
this E-book as a gift to a girlfriend so that you
can finally discover the art and science of having a lasting
relationship with a man. The information I reveal in How Do
I Get Him Back could change your life and the lives of all your
friends with whom you share my plan.
P.P.S. In my 16 years of experience, I've found
that when women are left to their own devices as far as
trying to get their man back is concerned -- they almost always fail
miserably. Or they don't get the results they want.
Sometimes, even my own female clients, to whom I've shown the game
plan, still insist on doing it their own way -- with
disastrous results. Consider the following:
Monica, a woman in her early 20's,
came to see me because she couldn't figure out what went
wrong with her relationship. Her boyfriend, Phil,
was wonderfully charming and intoxicatingly romantic. He
pursued her with flowers, chocolate and other gifts week after
week. He swept her off her feet, and she finally gave
in to his advances and said yes to whatever he wanted.
Within 2 weeks, he suddenly stopped calling. That's when she
came to consult with me.
I revealed to her the game
plan to get Phil back -- and she seemed eager to try it.
She got excited when he started responding and warming up to
her again. That's when she blew it! She let
her guard down, and fell back into her old patterns
instead of maintaining the plan. Within a month, Phil
dumped her and began dating someone else.
This
is a classic example of initial success ultimately turning
into failure. Even if Monica did get Phil back, she
didn't stick to the plan long enough to keep him for
good.