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The Hook Up

The Hook Up: 1-11-2012
, Jan 11, 2012

Interpreting mixed messages on the dance floor and choosing between a monogamous or open relationship.

The Hook Up: 1-4-2012
, Jan 4, 2012
How to deal with your partner's body issues.
The Hook Up: 12-21-2011
, Dec 21, 2011
When should you say "I love you"? Also, the aftermath of your first time and a tough break up.
The Hook Up: 12-14-2011
, Dec 14, 2011
Figuring out why girlfriend number two got the brunt of girlfriend number one's heartbreak. Also, if she's so straight, why did she sleep with me?
The Hook Up: 12-7-2011
, Dec 7, 2011
How to trust again after being heartbroken. Also, what to do when your best friend/crush falls for someone else.
The Hook Up: 11-30-2011
, Nov 30, 2011
Playing pretend with your girlfriend's family and how to know when you're ready to be in a relationship.
The Hook Up: 11-23-2011
, Nov 23, 2011
Confronting a cheating partner and wearing jewelry from an ex. Plus, what to do if you are always the one expected to kills the bugs.
The Hook Up: 11-16-2011
, Nov 16, 2011
Is it OK to date someone who looks exactly like you? Also, how to deal with an incredibly high-strung girlfriend.
The Hook Up: 11-9-2011
, Nov 9, 2011

A 30-year-old wants to reclaim her mojo and how to handle a friend whose girlfriend is just not right for her — without ruining your friendship.

The Hook Up: 11-2-2011
, Nov 2, 2011
How to deal with strict parents and girlfriends who can't agree on using toys.
The Hook Up: 10-26-2011
, Oct 26, 2011
Dealing with someone who won't take a hint and reasons you should love being single.
The Hook Up: 10-19-2011
, Oct 19, 2011
Dealing with the aftermath of a summer fling and what to do if your love interest won’t commit to the “relationship” label.
The Hook Up: 10-12-2011
, Oct 12, 2011
A reader is sick of being single. Also, Anna answers how to navigate issues that deal with prescription drugs.
The Hook Up: 9-28-2011
, Sep 28, 2011

Anna gives advice on not apologizing for things out of your control. Also, a baby dyke wonders if she's overeager for her first girlfriend.

The Hook Up: 9-14-2011
, Sep 14, 2011
When your friends don't seem to want to hear about your gay life and how to pursue a friendship with someone you've already hooked up with.
The Hook Up: 8-31-2011
, Aug 31, 2011
Should you tell your girlfriend about your crush on a friend? Also, what to say to a friend who says she supports you, but won't go to any gay events.
The Hook Up: 8-18-2011
, Aug 18, 2011
How to deal with jealousy in a polyamorous relationship and the best way to talk about a drunken come-on the day after.
The Hook Up: 8-3-2011
, Aug 3, 2011
Is it unfair to maintain an online dating profile if you're not interested in dating? Also, can you ever just have casual sex?
The Hook Up: 7-20-2011
, Jul 20, 2011
How to know you're over your ex. Also, how to successfully live with your parents and pick up girls.
The Hook Up: 7-6-2011
, Jul 6, 2011
How to handle your crush who only wants you when she's drunk. Also, what to do when you can't find a label that suits you.
The Hook Up: 6-22-2011
, Jun 22, 2011
What it means if you don’t want to marry your girlfriend and how to work side by side with the ex who dumped you via text.
The Hook Up: 6-8-2011
, Jun 8, 2011
How to blow off someone you're not interested in without being an jerk. Also, the best way to let women know you're gay and available.
The Hook Up: 5-25-2011
, May 25, 2011
Does Anna take her own advice? Also, is this relationship really over?
The Hook Up: 5-11-2011
, May 11, 2011
Can you be in love if you're polyamorous? And why do I have a habit of falling for straight women?
The Hook Up: 4-27-2011
, Apr 27, 2011
Anna gives advice on beards and putting yourself out there, even when you don't know how the other person feels.