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"Dear Friend,
"Why did you come to the Save My Marriage Today
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"Is your marriage in trouble? Were you hoping that you
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"Do you feel like your only choice is between accepting
things as they are now, no matter how bad they get, or leaving your
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"...Even if you are experiencing severe
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"I designed Save My Marriage Today to be the most
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From: Amy Waterman July 01, 2009 5:30pm
Dear Friend,
I feel so much empathy for the pain you must be
going through right now. It's no exaggeration to say that a
potentially marriage-ending crisis can feel like the whole world is
about to end.
The great news for you is that you're about to
learn simple, easy strategies to solve almost any marital
conflict! Whether you are stressed out by your inability to
communicate properly with your spouse, want to improve your physical
intimacy, need to resolve specific complicated issues, or simply
want to put your marriage on the right track, then you have come to
the right place.
No matter what situation your marriage is in -
even if you are on the verge of divorce! - this information
applies to you, if you're willing to give these methods a chance,
you'll be amazed at where your marriage is in a relatively
short time from now!
There is a strong chance that you've probably tried
using numerous ineffective methods to rescue your marriage,
without even knowing it. This isn't your fault. You've searched far
and wide for the right information for you and your marriage and not
all advice out there is the right advice.
Before telling you what you'll find in Save My
Marriage Today (and telling you about my free 6 part Save-Marriage
mini course), I want to let you know what Save My Marriage Today is
NOT about.
It's NOT about:
1. Giving in to everything your partner wants and
demands. 2. Begging or pleading for more chances. 3. Forcing
your partner to understand where they went wrong.
What it IS about is getting your life as a whole
back on track, outside of your marriage. Supporting your partner in
their goals and aspirations in way where you grow together. And
ultimately learning to have a lot of fun together again. There is a
lot more, but that's the essense of it.
I want you to know that you are not
alone. I've seen first had what works for
hundreds of couples around the world!
That's why I created this web page. I wrote Save My
Marriage Today because I was fed up with seeing so many marriages
end in divorce... and it doesn't have to be this
way!
I've seen miracles worked with troubled
marriages that appeared to be absolutely beyond repair. Many
couples have bounced back from a vast range of seemingly
irreversible problems, such as:
- unresolved conflicts
- extra-marital affairs
- lack of intimacy
- excessive fighting
- ineffective or not enough communication
- not enough quality time for busy schedules
- a suffocating partner
- children issues
- trial separations
- and many more complex and difficult situations
Does any of this sound familiar? I strongly believe
that with the right information, virtually anyone can have
the marriage of their dreams because I've seen first hand
what works.
Keep reading and I'll tell you how to resolve your
marriage problems and gain the relationship of your dreams! Follow
my methods, and you'll experience significant
results.
Who Is Amy Waterman?
Amy
Waterman is a professional writer specializing in attraction,
dating, and relationships. She has extensive experience in
helping thousands of people re-establish love with her
insightful and powerful secrets into attracting love and
making relationships work.
Over the years she has helped thousands of men and women
fix their marriages and unhappy relationships and also bring
back the love and communication to couples that are suffering.
I am the author and host of:
I have also co-authored and hosted a number of other
leading online courses such as:
- How to Be Irresistible to Men
- Make Every Man Want You More
- Seduction Genie
- 2nd Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your Ex
- Conversation Chemistry
- Supreme Self Confidence
Here's a sample of what others say about Amy:
"Amy Waterman is one of those rare, priceless
women in the world of dating and relationship advice who
respects women and men equally and therefore sets herself
apart as a respected voice to both genders. Her work
consistently portrays the warmth and compassion of a woman who
is truly doing what she was born to do. And given the
thousands of of people worldwide who her work has been so
meaningful to--ourselves included--that earns her our highest
recommendation. We're proud to work with Amy any chance
we can get, and can't wait to do so again soon." Scot
and Emily McKay, San Antonio, TX ?
DeserveWhatYouWant.com "Having the pleasure of knowing Amy personally,
we can vouch that she is extremely thorough and passionate
about the work that she does. She leaves no stone unturned in
making sure that her readers get the results that they expect
and more. We've never met someone so dedicated to the long
term success of others and who takes such great pride in her
work. We can all learn a lot from Amy's advice and attitude to
life and love." Mark and Michelle
Ling |
First of all, I want you to know...
...It's quite possible that you're making critical
mistakes in your attempts to save your marriage without even knowing
it! It's not your fault, you just may not always receive the best
advice from others.
It is not enough for you to learn how to
communicate better. You'll find that that simply teaches you to
fight better.
Give up on arguing. That always turns into a battle
of opinions, and neither of you is likely to change. Especially if
either or both of you are stubborn.
Forget the theories and ideas you have heard that
aren't working.
But don't give up on your
marriage! No matter what kind of problems you are having,
this information applies to you, and in virtually all cases, the
results will surprise you.
There is an alternative to divorce. In fact, you
could soon be experiencing the relationship you've only dreamed
about! |
Here's a Small Sample of What
You'll Learn:
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Discover one of the
most destructive things in a marriage crisis that
you're probably doing. It usually leads to divorce, so you'd
better listen up and learn how to break free from this and
replace this with more constructive habits. |
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How to get your spouse to change
their attitude. (I've seen the methods employed in
this chapter alone help turn around dozens of marriages)
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Find out how to get your spouse to
fall back in love with you! This is absolutely
critical information and will have a dramatic effect on your
life. |
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The powerful 4 step formula to
stop cheating dead in its tracks (pages 126
to 132). |
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The 3 things that most people do
to win their partners back after a split. These
things usually DON'T work. Find out why, and what you MUST be
doing instead to win back your marriage! |
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The one thing that you absolutely
HAVE to do if you are serious about saving your
marriage and getting your partner to love you again. |
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Discover the REAL REASON why a lot
of marriages fail - and what to do about it... |
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The essential things you must know
in order to remain positive in the midst of all the
negative emotions that are around you in a serious marriage
problem. |
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There are two emotions that you
are probably holding onto that make it very difficult
for your spouse (and others) to be around you happily. You'll
learn how to stop being a slave to your emotions. |
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A simple but powerful
psychological trick that will help you to put your
mind in a place of happiness and relaxation. Coming from this
position will make it a LOT easier to save your
marriage. |
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How to prepare yourself for the worst, so
that you are fine - no matter what. This will actually give
you a far higher chance of saving your
marriage anyway. |
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Eliminate all possibility of your partner
?pulling your strings? and take complete
control of your emotional and internal states? no matter what
the situation. |
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Outside-the-square tactics
to really pinpoint what your issues are in your
marriage. Many people discover that the REAL issues run deeper
than what they think, and this pinpoint realization may be
exactly what you need to get your marriage back on
track. |
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Do you ever feel like the only way to
resolve a conflict is by slamming the door and walking away?
Or by punishing your partner? It doesn't have to be this way.
Find out incredibly powerful strategies for resolving
your marriage conflicts in a more constructive and
less emotionally stressful way. |
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What to do if you're a person who gets
frustrated at your partner's actions during an argument. I
give you an in-depth look into what is actually
going on in an argument ... and how to
understand what your partner is doing when they are seemingly
behaving irrationally and selfishly. |
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The 5 needs that you absolutely
MUST pay attention to if you wish to achieve
self-actualization as a couple. Hint: In conflicts, there
tends to be an abandonment of many of these fundamental
needs. |
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An important step-by-step
exercise to identifying exactly what your needs are
as a person. For the sake of your relationship, I want you to
make sure that you have these things completely fulfilled.
Most people don't get their goals fulfilled, I show you how...
even if your partner is seemingly in the way. |
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How to save your marriage if you
have cheated on your partner. Now I don't condone
cheating AT ALL, but if it has happened, there are certain
things you MUST do if you want to maximize your chances of
reconciliation. |
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If you are in the position where your
partner has cheated on you, your trust in them is likely to be
shattered. I guide you through how to survive an
affair and save your marriage if you have been
cheated on. |
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The single most important thing
that you MUST do in order for love to return to your
relationship. You're probably overlooking it - most people do
- but it is easy to remedy and will make all the difference in
the world towards bringing the love back into your
marriage. |
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How to get your mindset out of the
negative and into the positive. You'll learn how to become
your own life coach and guide your marriage to
success without needing the help of anyone
else. |
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When your partner withdraws, do you feel
cold and lonely? You need to know exactly how to look
after yourself, and how to keep your mood elevated.
People often overlook taking care of themselves in these
situations. I show you what to do. |
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How to get out of the vicious
cycle of reacting to problems, conflicts and
situations, and move towards acting proactively. This might
sound easy, but there are critical steps that you need to
take, and I guide you through them. |
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So many couples come to me and tell me
that they can?t stop fighting with their
partner, and how their partner makes them so angry.
This makes me sad, so I've created a special section showing
exactly how to stop the negativity and start loving your
partner again. |
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Discover the truth about trial
separations. How to make them work if it is forced
upon you and mistakes that most people make that cause them to
NOT work. |
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Find out secrets to saving your marriage
if you and your spouse do not live
together. |
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I've recently added an extra bonus
section containing some of my email consultations.
Some of these marriages may have very similar issues to yours
and it is important that you look at these, and in particular
my strategies for resolving their marital problems, so that
you can help your own marriage. |
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What to do if you are disappointed
in how your spouse treats you. I show you how to
resolve this difficult issue using a case study of a
consultation that I had with a woman who resented the way her
husband of 10 years treated her. |
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The secrets of a loving and
fulfilling relationship: what must happen to keep
BOTH OF YOU from screwing it up. |
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How to manage your anger in
conflict situations so that you react more
thoughtfully than pig-headed in times of stress and
arguments. |
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How to calm down in times of anger when
you get yourself all worked up. I have personally seen this
one skill be responsible for the dramatic
turn-around of dozens of marriages. |
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You'll learn how to respond to
criticisms and attacks from your partner. You are
probably reacting in a way that is constantly eating away at
your marriage. Find out how to react so that you can
communicate with your partner and diffuse the situation before
it gets out of hand. |
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Follow my 4 practical step-by-step
exercises for gaining back love and respect for your
partner. |
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A major cause of marital discontent is
when a partner sacrifices his or her identity in an attempt to
compromise and avoid conflict in the marriage. You're about to
learn some indispensable strategies for
conflict resolution and effective communication. |
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What to do when your or your
spouse's career has put a large strain on
your marriage. This is an incredibly important issue, so I've
devoted an entire chapter to resolving it, including practical
exercises. |
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One of the biggest causes of marital
discontentment and stress is the birth of a first
child. You'll learn how to get through this difficult
period and how to get the love back into your relationship and
your new family. If you are going through this right now, and
don't get it sorted out IMMEDIATELY, you WILL PROBABLY regret
it for the rest of your life. |
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Do you or your spouse sometimes
compare your marriage to past relationships?
Find out how to treat these thoughts so that they aren't
destructive to your marriage. |
Once you learn all of the above, I promise you,
you'll notice dramatic transformations in your marriage and
partner's behavior immediately! Best of all, you'll understand the
root of many marital conflicts and be able to take practical,
immediately-beneficial steps to minimize or eliminate them entirely.
Why leave it to chance?
And You'll Also Discover Powerful Insights
On...
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Did you know that "hard work" on your
relationship isn't always the answer? Learn how to
change the momentum of your relationship
fast! |
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Want to know how to re-introduce
passion into your marriage? Learn powerful strategies
for re-igniting the intimacy in your relationship - no matter
how long you have been married! You'll also learn specific
techniques for re approaching sex and intimacy after an
affair. |
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Discover how to repair your
relationship and heal the pain after an affair.
Understanding how an affair occurred and deciding what happens
next is an enormous challenge. You'll learn how to deal with
the emotional aspect of the affair, others who may know what's
going on (friends, relatives, etc.), how to deal with the
kids, how to deal with the "other man"/"other woman," and much
much more! |
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Learn the specifics about how to deal
with personal attacks. Find out the best response for
dealing with an angry spouse. |
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Does your marriage require a marriage
counselor? Find out how to get the best out of them so
that they actually do help you build a stronger
marriage. |
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Learn exactly what is involved in a
successful marriage and how to keep it that
way. |
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Raising
children? We teach you how to deal with
parental responsibilities to make it enjoyable rather than a
chore. You'll also learn what the various danger zones are,
with regards to children and your marriage. |
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Learn how to
deal with infidelity, and how to tell your
partner, children and loved ones. |
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Discover the differences between the
way men and women view sex in a relationship ... and
how to navigate tricky questions about physical intimacy with
ease. |
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Find out how to resolve problems involving
marital inequality, including gender roles
and imbalances in income. |
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Why power is so
destructive to relationships and how to change
it. |
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Find out what the top 7 mistakes
people make when a marriage crisis arises, and what
YOU SHOULD be doing instead! |
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Learn how to assess what stage of
a crisis you are in (there are 5 stages)... And how
to address any of these stages and turn your situation
around! |
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Got problems involving sex or
money? Discover powerful techniques for dealing with
these. |
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I show you how to become a team in
your relationship... even if you feel like you are on
opposite sides! |
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Why marriage counseling can be
extremely dangerous to the future of your
relationship. |
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Over 30 exercises to get
your marriage back on track! Do them yourself OR with
your partner. They're uncomplicated, quick to do, and ... most
importantly ... help you save your marriage! |
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What turns a relationship unhealthy? Learn
how to deal with it and turn it back around. |
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Find out why a lot of marriages fall
apart during retirement, using our information find
out how you can stop this from happening to your
marriage. |
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Have you heard all the myths about
in-law relationships? Don't believe
everything you see on tv. Understand why a good relationship
with your in-laws is very important to your marriage. |
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If you think your partner is having
an affair. Use our detailed list of
signs to look for to find out the truth. Also
what leads a partner to stray and have an affair. Also we deal
with the big question - Should you leave your partner
after an affair? Examine our list of factors that you
should be able to answer before you make that decision. |
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How to improve your sex
life. The four simple steps that can have you in the
mood--without having to hide anything from the kids! |
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Need your own space? Discover
how to get it without offending your partner. |
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Marriage killers that you
need to think and talk about before it ruins your marriage
including financial planning, unrealistic expectations,
alcohol and drugs, over commitment to others. etc.
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"We are so much happier now, god
bless!"
"My heart has healed and I am back
to my old self... we are so much happier now, god
bless!" --Pauline Thomas, (Charleston, SC)
"...You really opened my eyes to
what has been happening... my relationship is now back on the
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These secrets have been to work for hundreds of
couples around the world. So what's the catch? You have
to actually do it! Most people who fail, do so because they never
take action because they fear its already too late or worry what
their partner and others may think.
They don't have the patience and passion to save
their marriage. They give up and divorce like many other couples,
rather than take on their marriage problems and achieve immediate
results with these solutions
If you really truly want a fun-loving partner who
will work with you as a team throughout your marriage - if you want
to be respected by your friends and your partner as someone who
takes great care of your family and your marriage - then there is no
doubt in my mind this will work for you.
If you are fed up with your unhappy marriage, then
rather than just complain about it, take action! Millions of people
out there are living their entire live either in a miserable
marriage or divorced. Don't be one of
them! |
You Can't Afford To...
...waste another moment on ineffective save
marriage methods that cause your relationship more harm than good.
There are already 2 million divorces a year. You don't want
your marriage be part of this statistic!
You can't afford to be following a marriage-saving
plan that isn't getting results immediately.
You've had advice from expert marriage counselors,
you've tried their plans, you've spent numerous amounts of money on
their services, you may have even tried a trial separation... and
now you're reading this because all your hard work, time, and money
has done you no good.
You're still stuck with the same
old unresolved arguments and problems in your marriage.
Most people who try to help you with your marriage
base their methods on myths that usually end up causing more harm
than good.
They never reveal proven strategies that show
exactly how to make each partner understand what you are
communicating to each other, without forcing you to pull your hair
out!
They don't discuss the most vital part of getting
your marriage back on track!
Anyone who tells you that all you need is love for
your marriage to work doesn't know what they're talking
about.
Just because you have love for your partner
doesn't mean you can stop the arguing and disagreements, because you
don't know how to deal with built-up anger. Don't forget the painful
words said to each other in the heat of a fight. Once they have been
said, they can never be taken back, not even with a sorry!
In fact, relying on love in such a way will frustrate you both and
end up putting more stress and pressure on your relationship, making
it impossible to make changes!
You may not
believe this but ...
You should NEVER beg or plead with
your partner to get them to return. Begging or
pleading just shows your partner what depths you will go to in
order to win them back. You'll then feel humiliated when they
don't respond to your pleas. When your marriage is in crisis,
don't show your partner that you're panicking.
Desperation will cause your partner to feel suffocated and
will push him or her even further away. Collect yourself and
gather your thoughts before doing anything you might regret.
For example: Imagine that
your partner has left you. You feel alone, desperate, and will
do anything to get them back. You call your partner
continually, do things that you know they like, and ask
everyone you know to help you get your partner back. What you
don't realize is that, in the process, you've given away any
bargaining power you might have had. You've shown your partner
that you want to accept 100% responsibility for the marriage
... and your partner doesn't have to do anything except come
back to you.
You may not believe this, but very few
marriages reach the point of separation or divorce without
being pushed along that path by both partners. Both
of you influence each other in ways that may not even be
visible. That's why it is so crucial that you look at why your
marriage is in crisis. Even a tiny change in your attitude,
actions, or lifestyle can completely change the dynamic of
your marriage. You have enormous power ... but only if you
know how to use it.
Begging and pleading gives away that power.
Clear-headed communication and complete honesty intensifies
it. You are an adult; don't let your partner's actions turn
you back into a child. If your partner needs space, give them
space. Spend time doing those things that make you feel
strong, capable, and nurtured. Spend time with your family and
your friends; talk about your feelings with others. Do
whatever it takes to make sure that the next time you speak
with your partner about your marriage crisis, you are calm,
collected, and in control of your feelings so that you can
talk honestly.
Before you talk with your partner next, ask
yourself these three questions. Are you feeling defensive? If
you are, take a step back. You may not be ready to speak to
your partner. Are you feeling desperate? If you are, take a
step back. You may not be ready to speak with your partner.
Are you feeling resentful and angry? If you are, take a step
back. You may not be ready to speak with your partner. Just
remember: the ball is in your court. How you react to your
partner's separation may determine the course of your
marriage. |
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Many of you could learn how to save your marriages
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Now, stop and look back on today. Considering that you've
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With that in mind, I've decided to make Save My
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IMPORTANT
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Success Story: Jeff Wann "I applied a
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"Amy, I am from
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