Tori Spelling looks frazzled during grocery run with kids as it's revealed there 'is NO prenup with cheating husband Dean McDermott'

Her hands were full: Tori Spelling looked like she needed a nanny as she picked up a cart full of groceries with two of her children - Liam and Stella - in LA on Wednesday

Reprimanded?: The Co-Ed Call Girl actress appeared to be reading the riot act to her kids while in the dairy aisle of Ralphs

Ringing in the new year: The Smallville Guest star was seen with her wedding band on Tuesday

Maybe they can work it out?: Tori and Dean are said to be fighting for their marriage amid reports of infidelity on his part

Family values: Tori has yet to publicly address the cheating rumours surrounding Dean, focusing instead on her children; the mother-of-four posted this snap on her blog Christmas Day

'He was romantic and very complimentary. He was telling me, "You're so beautiful,"' Emily told the magazine.

'And he told me he and Tori had a sexless marriage. I believed him.'

The one-night-stand allegedly took place after a group of friends met up at Pravda Vodka House in the Canadian city, where Dean was on a promotional tour for his hosting job on the show Chopped Canada.

Emily was a friend of a friend and the two were introduced. Her occupation was not disclosed.

The father invited the beauty back to the Fairmont Royal York Hotel where they had sex, according to UsWeekly.

'He seemed like a cool guy,' Emily said. 'I thought he was handsome.'

They became friendly over an eight hour meal at Pravda, sitting side by side. 'We were just having fun and hanging out,' Emily added.

When heading toward the bar at his hotel, 'he was flirting,' she added, and she explained she was attracted to him because his personality was 'very charming.'

Oversharing: Dean reportedly didn't like it when his TV star spouse spilled their financial issues in her new book Spelling It Like It Is

The 5'8" looker explained she felt she could 'trust' him because he opened up to her and was 'talking about his kids and his work.'

She also said they knew a lot of the same people, 'so we had that in common.'

During drinks at his Fairmont hotel, the 6'3" former hunk did not openly flirt with Emily as there were other friends with them.

But later the two exchanged phone numbers, then he slipped his card key with his room number into her purse. 'We just looked at each other,' Emily said.

After slyly leaving with friends and making it seem as if she was going home, Emily instead went to Dean's hotel room. At first he wasn't there but then she texted him and he showed up within seconds.

'He wanted to make me feel good,' she explained after he flooded her with compliments. 'Then the time for talking was over.'

Emily, who insisted they used protection during their encounter, said Dean gushed about his famous wife.

'He said, "I love my wife, I love her so much. But she won't sleep with me,"' Emily recounted.

Once a cheater, always a cheater?: He stepped out on his wife of 12 years, Mary Jo Eustace (pictured in 2003), when he made 2005's Mind Over Murder with Tori

She then said she had to go home to get a good night's sleep and he asked that they 'cuddle' first.

The next day both worked but texted each other.

The next evening - December 7 - she visited the TV star again at the Fairmont Hotel, but this time he had a male pal there.

And instead of taking off his clothes, he took out his computer where he showed off photos of Tori and the kids. At one point he even bragged about the sex tape he made with his author spouse.

Emily, who has never seen Tori's hit TV series Beverly Hills, 90210, said she did not want to see the tape.

At 3am they shared a club sandwich and fries then fell asleep. This time there was no hanky panky, just cuddling.

'It felt cool that I had this connection,' Emily told the weekly.

'Neither one of us said anything about seeing each other again. It was, "Nice to meet you. Crazy that there was this chemistry. I had a great time,' she added.

Emily is now feeling bad about the hook up. 'I f***ed up,' she told UsWeekly.

Before the drama: The former actor reportedly told Emily he never had sex with Tori, but in September the married twosome looked happy as they grabbed coffee in Calabasas

Meanwhile, on December 7 Tori was talking glowingly about Dean.

'We do date night once a week,' the Lifetime favorite said.

'We're into public displays of affection.'

The weekly points out that Tori has expressed insecurity about Dean in the past because he left his first wife of 12 years, Mary Jo Eustace (with whom he had a son and a newly adopted girl) during their 2005 affair on the movie Mind Over Murder.

In 2012 there were reports he cheated with two women which almost led to a split. Later she admitted they were 'fighting a lot.'

Cracks also showed when her book Spelling It Like It Is came out and unveiled their financial troubles.

'Dean felt like it made them look like idiots,' a source told the magazine.

The timing couldn't be any worse. They have their new reality show Tori & Dean: Cabin Fever coming out in 2014 on HGTV. She also is starting a new TV series Mystery Girls with 90210 alum Jennie Garth, 41.

She also has her lifestyle web site to plug. 'Tori is the breadwinner,' added the source.