Why Bad Boys Make Chicks Horny

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James Dean in Rebel Without a Cause? Marlon Brando in The Wild One? Fucking.Yum. Nice guys are completely baffled by how irresistible bad boys are to women; especially confident, well established, good looking women. Bad boy shows up and panties start dropping all over the place. There’s an obvious charm to the  bad boy persona..What is it and where can you get some?

Note to Readers: Bad boy does not equal loser. This article does not refer to the loser sleeping on your couch.

The Way the Bad Boy Acts

Whether he’s truly rebelling against society or he’s just pretending to get laid, the bad boy knows exactly what to say and when to say it to get a girl’s attention - and keep it.

  • Instead of the ‘smile-and-nod’ approach, he’s always got something to say to counteract the opinion of the masses.
  • He’s never there when you want him to be and always when you don’t. The frustration gets the ladies hot and bothered.
  • He’s witty, independent and mysterious
  • He knows how to flirt without sucking up – usually by poking fun and making you blush

Why it’s hot

Women dig a man who stands for something. Anything. Bowing your head and doing what you’re told is a sign of weakness – especially when you disagree. A man who can stand up for himself gives the impression he’d be man enough to do it for her, too.

If a guy was always available, the girl wouldn’t be interested. But if he disappeared completely, she’d have no choice but to move on; it’s the game of push and pull. What’s better than him showing up again? Showing up when you don’t want him to. That way he rubs you the wrong way, and gets you to devote more time and emotion into thinking about him. Smart move.

The trick to being a bad boy isn’t the leather jacket – though if you find one that fits, grab it. The secret is in the psyche. Wit, which I’ll be devoting an entire article to, is the number one way to grab a woman’s attention. Why? Because wit is unique and it presents a challenge. Second trick? Independence. It makes her wet. Seeing you have your own thing going will make her fantasize about you needing her. And all women need to be needed. And lastly, mystery. A guy who dishes it all out is about as boring as a soap opera rerun: you know exactly what’s going to happen, what’s the point?

And the last behavioral panty dropper? Knowing the art of flirting. (Yet another topic I’ll be devoting an article to in the near future). Flirting ties everything above together. The non desperate women worth being with need to be engaged and intrigued, and they need an indication of interest. Knowing how to flirt without sucking up and worshipping the ground she walks on is key. Stay tuned for the how-to.

The Way the Bad Boy Shags

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The game of pushing and pulling can only get a bad boy so far. Once he gets her in the bedroom, that’s whenit all comes to a halt: does he know how to touch her right? 

A bad boy is confident between the sheets. He picks her up, puts her against the wall and digs into her like he’s never needed anything more. But he knows to use strength without hurting her – or leaving her bruises. He knows where to touch, how long to tease and when to make her want more.

The secret? Confidence and passion. Knowing when to take control is key.

Why it’s hot

Women are used to holding the key to the bedroom. Meeting a man who switches the roles is really hot. Especially because women want to be challenged, constantly. Being manhandled is a sure way to switch shit up. If she’s into being the passive one, this is a dream come true. If she’s used to being on top, she’ll be willing to explore the other side. When it comes to a bad boy between the sheets, he can never go wrong – she’ll be dropping her panties before the door’s even locked.

You don’t need to be a black and white fictional character to embrace your inner bad boy. Take your inner Brando, introduce it to your inner Dean, don’t make excuses… and just do it. Because that’s the true mark of a bad boy: he doesn’t give a shit, he doesn’t think.. he just does. You don’t have to be a dick and you don’t have to be a loser.. you just … have to be. 

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Reach for the sky and when you reach it, keep going. In addition to being our CEO here at The IC, Chiara also does graphic and web design for bloggers, freelancers and start-ups. She believes in the power of the self, entrepreneurship, and giving yourself the life you’ve always dreamed of. Author of The 9 Mirages of Love, lover of teen dramas. Follow her on Instagram!

  • beatrice

    i love my bad boys! but when it comes to the ‘between the sheets’ moment, it’s an #EpicFail i guess my bad girl overpowers their bad boy lol

    • http://www.theindiechicks.com Chiara Mazzucco

      Hm, that’s just awesome. Just.. awesome.

  • http://www.fantasydatinggame.com/ Suzanne Casamento

    *sigh*

    I am now leaving the house in search of a very, very bad boy.

  • http://www.Talk2Q.com Q

    I’m far from a bad boy in regards to appearance, but I understand the mentality. I know how to take control of certain situations and I definitely know how to make a woman feel like a woman. Although, I don’t attempt to make myself unavailable like most bad boys, I do understand how that can affect a woman’s mind. However, I don’t necessarily play games like that. If she calls me and I’m not busy, then I’ll be available. And I’ll make her glad that she called.

  • http://www.youvebeenhooked.wordpress.com The Hook

    These days it seems most women want more than a mere mortal bad boy can provide. You have to be an undead, blood-sucking, wealthy vampire with fifty shades of sadomasochism running though your veins to really score!

    But on a more serious note, you’re absolutely right, Chiara, most men need to reach deeper and embrace their bad boy in order to really live.

    • http://theindiechicks.com/ Chiara Mazzucco

      An undead, blood-sucking, wealthy vampire with fifty shades of sadomasochism running though his veins sounds like the sexiest thing you’ve ever said, Hook. I’m in.