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[–]This_Post_Is_Factual 716 points717 points  (236 children)

When he mentions entertaining his mother for affection, he wasn't joking. This man had a very sad childhood.

[–]Slipping_Tire 142 points143 points  (229 children)

This man had a very sad childhood.

More details on that here.

[–]prstele01 212 points213 points  (122 children)

For those of us that don't have an hour, can you TL;DR this?

[–]On-Snow-White-Wings 808 points809 points  (75 children)

Ex wives drove him to work harder than he wanted to due to having to pay them off past divorce. Work kept him away from family, and that made him very sad.

His father was generally rigid and non-responsive to robins.

His step mother raised horrible sons who stole from him.

He was physically and verbally bullied in school

In order to prevent bullies from hurting him and to get attention from his step mother.

He resorted to making people laugh.

"Robin Williams" wasn't enough for anybody

It was Robin Williams plus making people laugh

"Me plus" is a very bad thing to be subjected to.

[–]Silent-G 214 points215 points  (19 children)

I don't claim to have ever experienced a rough time growing up, I was bullied from time to time, but nothing out of the ordinary, but I definitely understand that need for attention, that need for laughter, that need to find something funny in every single moment. It tends to annoy a lot of people that are close to me, but it's almost like a compulsion, and I can see that a lot now watching so many clips of Robin Williams; you can see at every moment his mind is searching for anything even slightly funny, and if it's there he would say or do it.

[–]biglineman 54 points55 points  (4 children)

Wow... Saying that this hit too close to home is an understatement. It kicked down the door and bitch-slapped me right in the heart.

[–]Gamerchris360 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow. This. This is me. When I get on a good roll and people are enjoying it, I love it and often wish I could make it happen more often. Most times, yeah, I am just annoying.

[–]Gallifrasian 35 points36 points  (0 children)

This thread is hitting too close to home. I'm leaving.

Edit- I fucking did it again, didn't I.

[–]ImFuckingASophist 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Sidenote that the conclusion - apart from the hard facts - this video goes to is an opinion of one man, Stefan Molyneux, author, radio host, public speaker and (self-proclaimed) philosopher.

I'm not saying I necessarily disagree, but he even says why he thinks Robin Williams killed himself, which I find a rather big statement for not knowing him.

[–]svenniola 24 points25 points  (27 children)

The thing is though, that people that need (You and Plus) to like you, are not people that you should want to associate with.

Fuck em, seems appropriate even.

[–]sihtotnidaertnod 30 points31 points  (6 children)

I think his humor became a survival tool. He used it to disarm bullies and he used it to gain the affection he craved from his mother. While I agree that "fuck em" is appropriate, I think that it doesn't really apply to the mother figure for various reasons.

[–]svenniola 6 points7 points  (3 children)

Yeah, thats a very common story, though Robin is by no means a common man..

I dont know about the mother figure, i find family does not necessarily have to be blood and that blood does not necessarily have to be family.

Find happiness where you can.

[–]swinegums 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes. The mother figure, the idea of family, has some kind of mythological 'untouchable' status in society. What if they are abusive? What if being around them is damaging to you?

Sometimes it is better to cut and run, find people that love and accept you for who you are. Not all families of origin do that and it leaves the abused one in a double bind. Abused by family, misunderstood or rejected by society for treading on a sacred cow.

TLDR: Yes.

[–]AnxietyMan 19 points20 points  (17 children)

Any port in a storm. If no one likes you for you, you+ is the next best alternative. It's one of those horribly unfortunate realities of having evolved to be a social animal.

[–]Gamerchris360 2 points3 points  (1 child)

You+ also defeats the horrible social anxiety. "They don't like the +, I am still cool" is an easy place to hide. I'd a sad, lonely little hole to live in.

[–]TheOtherBlueMeat 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Sometimes, these are the only people around.

[–]bukojuice 147 points148 points  (22 children)

just some guy who read a lot of interviews and stories about robin williams..and he's selectively quoting them to paint a picture of robin william's life. mainly blaming his death on his absent parents and his bullying growing up. he said that being so lonely growing up made him depressed.

he likes making quick comparisons of himself with williams. the first, he talks about robin williams and christoffer reeve being the only two to be accepted into the advanced acting class at juliard. and he then goes on a little self promotion to say how he auditioned for the national theater school which only accepts 1% of applicants and that he got in..then went on a tangent about his audition..

he later notes william's social anxiety and lack of social skills, this guy then says, "i'm no celebrity but i when i go to conferences people want to ask me questions and i get nervous."

i had to stop watching at 25 minutes. who the fuck is this guy tearing apart the life of robin williams and pretending to know what the fuck was going on. he has zero first hand experience with williams or anyone in his life. he's so damn critical on absent parents and bullies and victimizes robin so much. he shames his first wife saying she "decided to marry him and have a child with him knowing he was on drugs and alcohol." and he looked up what happened to the wife after they divorced..and he says of her acting career, 'it doesnt look like much'

the guy's so sure of himself as he's talking. i would have preferred it if he only talked about william's life, without adding his own damn commentary and assumptions... if the last 30 minutes was much better..let me know..but watching this made me angry..

[–]mobileappuser 21 points22 points  (2 children)

Look at the comment section. He literally just praises himself in it.

[–]born_here 72 points73 points  (13 children)

His mother was mean.

[–]mrpunaway 112 points113 points  (9 children)

Thanks, Ollie Williams!

[–]Detektive7 23 points24 points  (6 children)

It's rainin' sideways!

[–]BlackGuyOne 29 points30 points  (0 children)

His mama mean!

[–]phaelium 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You want this dog?!

[–]montyburnz258 56 points57 points  (62 children)

I know multiple people who grew up through bullying and psychological abuse in their childhood, and despite having a great adulthood, still can't shake the depression that haunts them. :(

[–]FiannaBranigan 32 points33 points  (6 children)

I'm depressed on and off, but it's... manageable.

However, I had a great family. Terrible school life, lots of bullying, isolation. I have severe social anxiety to this day - I tend to assume everyone hates me.

It's not just families who fuck you up. Why can't people just be decent to each other.

[–]montyburnz258 22 points23 points  (1 child)

I love you.

[–]mookitwo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're a good person. :)

[–]anu26 56 points57 points  (26 children)

I'm one of those people. Honestly though, the adulthood doesn't feel 'great' to us. Just lumbering through the motions.

[–]suddenlyshoes 21 points22 points  (11 children)

Therapy man, trauma therapy. It's saved my life, I don't feel like life is one big fog you have to swim through.

Whatever path you take, best of luck to you.

[–]anu26 17 points18 points  (3 children)

My mother actually cussed me out because she overheard me tell my ex I was considering going back to therapy after finishing my thesis. Sigh.

I am really glad you're healing and feel better. <3

[–]ozarkprime 40 points41 points  (10 children)

35 and still lost

[–]KeepSmilingAmerica 27 points28 points  (7 children)

Staring down 30, still feel 13. We ain't alone which I guess is something.

[–]serenity_suppository 7 points8 points  (4 children)

oh man i'm 27 and felt like shit for almost 2 decades of that.

Time to start saving for therapy.

[–]KeepSmilingAmerica 2 points3 points  (3 children)

Talking to someone does help. Your employer's health insurance probably at least helps you with the cost. Do it if you think you need it.

[–]drjesus616 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's like I got left there and I'm still waiting for my dad to come pick me up and say, "it's all going to be ok".

[–]anu26 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Massive hugs.

[–]exorcyze 9 points10 points  (3 children)

I think it's important to consider that sometimes depression is not the symptom, but the cause.

[–]happyredditfool 26 points27 points  (7 children)

Another "adult" who had a shitty childhood here. Shitty parents made me extremely socially awkward, which didn't lead to bullying per se, but social rejection. No one wanted to hang out with me and I was actively left out of group events. I would have a group I would considered "friends" only to realize that they didn't really want me around. This happened again in college and three separate times after graduating. As a result, I have a pretty bad issue with social rejection. If I hear about a party I'm not invited to, I dwell on it for weeks wondering why I wasn't invited and end up depressed as a result. I just want to be loved :(

[–]AndrewWaldron 24 points25 points  (12 children)

Parents divorced when I was really young, like 4. Mom didn't stand a chance, dad was an alky and a dopefiend, eventually did a number of years in prison. I was always the smart kid in class, nerdy, glasses, scrawny, my god did kids love to pick on me, no support at home or school. Then mom left when I was 12, over the next 20 years I moved about 20 times (not foster care, just circumstances). School never really got any better until the end of my junior year, made a few friends my senior year. College was so hard, going to class, having to be around other students, impossible making friends, didn't make one friend in many years of college.

It makes relationships tough. Then when those relationships turn sour it's even worse. Started dating, oh boy. First one bitched all the time, put up with that (playing the victim) for two years. Next one was great for a couple years, then she called it off, started dating her BFF's boyfriends twin brother within a week, eventually find out years later she told everyone behind my back I'd raped her (what, for 2 years?) to make herself look like a victim as to why she wasn't a good little catholic virgin. A few years later, next girl was THE ONE!...until after 5 great years (never fought, not once, got on great) as soon as she finished college she decides she wants to go to masters school on her own, takes our cats, dogs and everything else from the apartment and moves it all out of state. Then immediately moves herself back, moves in with her sister (her whole family conspired against me) so she can be with the guy she'd been nailing for a while..while we were still together.

Sometimes, laughter is all you have.

tl;dr - Can confirm depression is a shadow that threatens even on the brightest of days.

[–]GoldenBeer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes, laughter is all you have.

Very true, I used to smoke a lot of weed because it was the only time I felt humor. It was the only time I didn't feel depressed. I eventually met a great woman who made it no longer necessary.

The things I used to get bullied for, I have found people who enjoy them as adults. I still have a hard time trusting people in general, but it has gotten easier over the years to make friends.

[–]BrazenBull 2 points3 points  (1 child)

Your story is why I feel depression is circumstance-based rather than a "chemical" unbalance.

[–]Dimensha 16 points17 points  (9 children)

Stefan Molyneux was on the latest Joe Rogan podcast and they spoke at length about this video. Stefan actually retracted, or at least partially anyway, his views that he expressed in this video. He realized that his view was pretty shortsighted because he didn't take into account a lot of other factors and he was somewhat presumptuous about what Robin Williams was really thinking when he chose to end his life.

[–]ImFuckingASophist 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For anyone watching this, as a sidenote: this video should be seen as a logical argument on why Robin Williams killed himself. Stefan Molyneux is an author, radio host, public speaker and self-proclaimed philosopher.

There is nothing wrong with the video per se (although he makes some big statements on Williams' reason for killing himself and more than one woman in his life is portrayed very badly and with assumptions), but don't watch it as a biography.

[–]xtramile1 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow first Stef link I have come across on reddit. That's pretty cool, he has helped me probably more than any person ever has.

[–]anu26 5 points6 points  (3 children)

I wish I hadn't sat through that. My childhood was almost exactly like that save for calling my mother 'ma'am' and my dad 'sir'. I call them 'mother' and 'father' though.

I'm not half as funny and don't have any talent or anything; but I went through the exact same thing.

Even fewer reasons to go on really.

[–][deleted] 7 points8 points  (1 child)

That "details" video is a bit affected and a lot speculative. Sounds nice when you dissect a mans psyche with an educated guess, but he wasn't there nor was he Robin. Also a lot of face touching and weird forced "I'm being thoughtful" fakeness IMO.

[–]nupogodi 2 points3 points  (4 children)

That's very depressing. The whole "dad was at work and mom was emotionally absent" thing resonates very deeply with me. And I drink heavily too and act like a goofball to make people laugh, although it's not my career. I also feel that people don't like sober-me very much, and I feel very disconnected from the world as a result. I drove away the one woman who ever truly loved me, and it just made me fall deeper into depression. I'm young and I'm relatively wealthy compared to my cohort but I'm not happy and I don't know what I'm going to do because it is going to kill me, sooner rather than later, but not by my own hand - I'm too much of a pussy for suicide and I want to see what happens to the world in the future. There's help out there I'm sure but I'm too proud for help, and too privileged to act like I had a rough life. There are people starving, you know. Oh mommy didn't love you, big deal, grow up.

This sucks.

[–]mroosevelt 251 points252 points  (16 children)

To me, he explained it in the first 15 seconds with the mom bit.

[–]abbotable 142 points143 points  (2 children)

But I think he builds off that. To make mother laugh, to be accepted by all, to be seen as intelligent, to "flow" or as he says, "respond to stimulus because that's what we're designed to do", and then "sometimes the mind isn't really working that fast because you actually know THAT, you cough, you breath, you come back," but "the ideal is to create something different!"

He then goes on to fuck around with all the different things he can do with that scarf.

[–]pc1109 35 points36 points  (1 child)

I agree totally. It's like he gave a window, and then spent the rest of the time covering it up.

[–]ruminajaali 10 points11 points  (2 children)

...Explain Like, to be accepted by his mom?

[–]Mcgriggles41 9 points10 points  (1 child)

Idk about accepted, but really is there anything better than seeing your mom smile? Perhaps that's what he was getting at

[–]Troof_police 597 points598 points  (167 children)

man, he reminds me of one of my friends. dude is insanely hilarious, quick witted and savvy, but his ex girlfriend recently told me that he's only like that away from home. at home he's really really depressed. threw us for a loop.

edit: changed a word because some of you guys are dicks.

[–]ep1032 99 points100 points  (17 children)

One of the editors of cracked wrote an article on this when robin williams died. I'm not saying your friend is like this, i don't know your friend. Everyone is different, and this article is blatantly about this one writer's experiences. But you have a lot of response posts here, and I thought the article gave an interesting insight into something i didn't know existed.

http://www.cracked.com/quick-fixes/robin-williams-why-funny-people-kill-themselves/

It links to here as a source, which seems much more hopeful and scientific http://www.slate.com/articles/arts/culturebox/features/2014/the_humor_code/are_comedians_really_depressed_or_is_sadness_just_funny.html

[–]Rutthed 20 points21 points  (1 child)

Brilliant article. If nothing else, I'm glad Robin's actions have made this something we can talk about; especially with mental health issues becoming more of a thing that's actually acknowledged. Maybe his death will be the extra little push that's needed for depression to get the attention it deserves.

[–]usesunblock 13 points14 points  (2 children)

That was a really good read. I remember when I was in a dark place in late high school and college and I read this article by the same author, David Wong. It ended up making me laugh my ass off and suddenly I was able to reconsider and just truck on.

I've only done stand up comedy a few times (public speaking is a bit nerve wrecking and you don't get paid when you're new lol), but I can really relate to a lot of articles on Cracked.

[–]ep1032 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That was a really good read. If I were you, I'd copy paste the comment you just sent me into an email to that guy, it'd probably be great for him to hear, even if you send it from an anonymous / temporary email account. : )

[–]Si421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great article.. Definitely one of the best from Cracked in a long time..

Time for some reflection..

[–]TcHx 309 points310 points  (37 children)

I do this too and I dont know what to do. Its like when I'm out in public I feel like im performing or something and I dont care what people think and my mind is racing a million miles per hour and I feel so incredibly sharp and capable and then I have to crawl home and I feel alone and broken and dumb and dead inside again and I have to fill my emptiness with drugs.

Edit: shit guys, I logged in on my phone and saw I had 11 messages and was terrified "oh lord, what did I say to piss off the masses now?" but I find nothing but 11 messages of people who are either like minded or are here to offer help. You guys are so great. Thank you :') I've sought help, but I just don't know where to go with myself now. I don't know what to do with myself. I could go anywhere, I just don't know what I want. I feel like I just sit here and spin my wheels..

[–]zosobaggins 77 points78 points  (4 children)

Please look into some help. People need folks like you to bring the humour to a dark world, and you're part of what lights it up. I've battled sepression and use humour as a cover but since I've managed it a bit better I've actually improved the cknedy. I can't tell you any one fix-all answer, as no such thing exists, but just remember that the best thing you can be is you, and the best you deserve is to be happy. That much is simple.

[–]bigbabatoo 48 points49 points  (1 child)

I too have battled sepression. I use a megaphone so no one can sepress me.

[–]savemejebus0 25 points26 points  (11 children)

It sounds sarcastic, but stop doing drugs and seek help. In the mean time read up on how drugs effect the brain. Depending on what you do they are the worst thing for depression and before you know it they can seal your fate. They feel like a soothing shower to wash away your pain but liquefy the earth below you and when you take notice to your sinking it is usually too late to get out without help.

[–]silver_ghost 11 points12 points  (3 children)

Thank you for that insight. I'm drunk right now (ya know, cause I'm sad), but I'm definitely going to see this later and think about it. Seriously, thank you.

[–]KimJongUnstoppable 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't forget to look at this!

-With love from a stranger.

[–]tacodrake95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You've just described the exact same thing that happens to me. The only exception is when I'm doing something I love.

[–]bentappeal 14 points15 points  (1 child)

Hey bud, I'm with you. It used to be worse for me, but I can manage my highs a bit better now.

When I'm out in public, I am performing. I put so much energy into it, that I'm exhausted when I get home. That high that I feel when I'm out is amazing, but it does come at a cost. The crash. The lows can sometimes lead into a depressive episode for me.

I try to hold back my energy a bit more when I'm out now. I have let myself know that it is OK not to be the focus of the attention and always be on. I can turn down a bit when with others now. It allows be to be more consistent, and able to carry on longer. Generally, I am in it for the marathon and not the sprint. I don't get the major crashes after that sometimes lead to depression. A big part of this was learning how to meditate and be more conscious of my choices in the moment.

However, just know that you are lucky to know how to turn it on when you can. Not everyone gets those high-highs. You can use that energy for great good, when you choose to use it more wisely. Choose your moments. It does come at a cost.

[–]TheEvilGerman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat as you. Right now actually.... If you want to talk im here! :)

[–]a233424 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's a post-modern plague. Irony of everything, everywhere, everytime is at fault, we seek it like a drug, it shells us away from stuff, but it ultimately makes things, everything, slide off of you, bad, but good as well. Everything is a joke, so nothing gets you deep connections.

There are many articles on that on /r/postpomo if this idea seems to interest you a little.

[–]grewapair 79 points80 points  (26 children)

I have a friend who is exactly the same way. He uses the fast humor as an escape, the same way mentally ill people use drugs - it takes them away from their depression so they perfect it.

[–]aesu 64 points65 points  (2 children)

Humour often comes from acute observation of what's going on around you. Unfortunately, knowing what is actually going on around you can be very depressing. People build walls, they build fictions and tune out any conflicting truths, allowing them to live in a reality of their own creation. Often a comforting version of reality.

Without that ability, to hide reality, you must address it. And no one actually looking at the nitty gritty of reality, dispensed of its benevolent forces, natural justice, external meaning, or soft landings, could feel very good about it.

Whether that's the cause of the depression, or it's simply that people with more depressive tendencies are more observant, I don't know. But there is definitely a connection between observation, comedy and despair.

[–]Kornstalx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Damn man, that was deep. Philosophically, I think you hit the nail on the head.

[–]jemyr 22 points23 points  (2 children)

I dunno, everyone I know with fast minds that take in all the input at once end up living a kind of manic life. You're either riding the wave and harnessing all that energy or drowning under it.

[–]blowhardcomic 97 points98 points  (16 children)

I'm a pretty depressed person and I tend to make people laugh hard - even for me its weird how I can go from feeling so terrible to suddenly making a group of people explode laughing...its like an instinctive reflex...something I feel almost obligated to do

[–]ghostwarrior369 68 points69 points  (4 children)

you don't want them to feel how you feel

[–]Snooterbaggs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'll have what she's having

[–]Gallifrasian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

...dude

[–]AwkwardKitten 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, is it time to start drinking? Guess so. D:

[–]liketoparty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fuck that hit me hard

[–]blueasclepius 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I didn't really get it either. I mean, I empathize perfectly with you, but I didn't understand why it happened until I read an article David Wong wrote about that very thing following Robin Williams' death. I found it fantastically insightful.

Here it is

[–]ernestborgnine2013 10 points11 points  (1 child)

One of the writers at Cracked wrote an article about this phenomenon. How he considers funny people to be among the most depressed. They never feel loved for the person under the act and put the act out there to avoid being rejected.

[–]TheSecretMe 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You've seen how quick his mind is how easily it jumps from one thing to next. Imagine how good it is at ceaselessly running a parade of all his self perceived flaws, regrets, mistakes, reasons why you're not good enough.

I know how he feels. It takes energy sucking effort to be that quick in a positive way. But when you rest, your mind doesn't sit still. It starts doing that with every negative thought you ever had.

[–]greywizard77 44 points45 points  (5 children)

When you're the brightest star in the sky, you see a darker universe than the other stars do.

[–]ninetyn0ne 13 points14 points  (1 child)

"the greater you build the fire of understanding, the greater the volume of darkness that is revealed."

[–]TwoThreeSkidoo 16 points17 points  (6 children)

I like Robin Williams, but he has always seemed to have a sadness to him, even when he's laughing. Didn't notice it as much when I was a kid, but when I got older it seemed to really stand out.

[–]ultimomos 5 points6 points  (2 children)

I think you can see that in some of his more serious work as well. Like world's greatest dad. Just the look in his eyes as he's delivering some of the lines..it's like he's not really in the scene but in a memory, saying the things he wishes he could have heard.

[–]atriaventrica 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not that Ray Romano is a bastion of comedic brilliance but he said "I wouldn't even be a comedian if my father hugged me more." A lot of comedy is developed as a defense mechanism or attention seeking behavior. It's unfortunate but those people often turn their suffering into happiness and light for people who would have been lost to similar circumstances. And in fairness none did that more than Robin Williams.

[–]kabbotta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember reading that Quentin Tarantino will sometimes call up friends at 2am and beg them to come over because he hates spending time alone so much. I think some people are built in such a way that they essentially need the constant stimulation of others to either avoid what is going on in their own head or to feel fulfilled.

Which is strange how different people can be, because I know the opposite exists. I like people, but I absolutely cherish every second I get to spend alone thinking and working on things.

[–]KeepSmilingAmerica 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Being funny/entertaining/charming takes energy. A lot of energy. I work at a job where I have to be "on" 9-10 hours a day. I get great reviews, but I get home and I can't have fun with my girlfriend. She sits in an office all day and smacks away at a keyboard and craves human interaction while I just want some peace and quiet. Just a few precious hours where I don't have to hear another person's voice.

And I'll bet your fried feels some kind of obligation to be the cut-up of the group because he feels like that's his contribution. Every time he gets the room laughing he's justified his otherwise unjustifiable presence in the room. But then he gets home and he's wiped and what does he have to show for it? A dimly remembered moment where he held the room in his hand for 3 seconds.

Not that I'm speaking from experience or anything.

[–]lydocia 8 points9 points  (4 children)

My biological father is like that.

When I reconnected with him, all he could do was telling jokes or making fun of things, never a serious conversation. At first I thought it was, you know, just to fill the void, overcompensate, make a good impression or just because he was nervous or awkward, but months later, we hadn't had a serious conversation yet. Serious conversations were what I needed and wanted at that point, to work things out, to understand things. I don't mind being stupid and witty and funny and having fun, heck, I am almost never serious myself. The difference is - I can be serious when I need to. When someone needs to talk, when I'm working, when I'm studying; I am serious when it matters. This man, no. He never said anything serious at all. He made promises he wouldn't keep, as simple as "I'll call you next week". Never called, ran into me weeks later and said "oh, I forgot" and makes new promises. He piled gift onto gift onto gift, all while being jobless, showing me a very poor example of financial management. (I appreciate the thought but I don't need a new phone when I just bought one myself, no matter how hard you insist or try to prove anything).

It took him half a year to snap. He called me from a mental hospital, verging on suicide, depression. He opened up in a way I've never seen anyone open up: he started crying, he talked about how he still loved my mom after all these years, how his next wife was pregnant when she met him so my "half-brother" isn't even his, how he had had an alcohol problem, and so on. Unconveniently, around this time, people in the family started telling me things - about him. How he sexually abused a mentally handicapped girl (wtf?), how he drank and hit my mom when she was holding me, how he sexually abused me as a baby (I have no recollection of this, but the possibility drove me nuts - I will never know for sure).

I took the low road, and cut him from my life.

This is a relationship I couldn't salvage, and something I couldn't deal with it. Not at the time - I was sixteen - and not now, ten years later.

[–]pickledpigfeet 2 points3 points  (1 child)

How do you know he was in a hospital?

That sounds like an awful lot. Sorry :(

[–]inexcess 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are very different at home with their closest loved ones than in front of their friends.

[–]Maverickki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I used to be just like that too, ofcourse i don't know if i was funny or not, just that i made people laugh and it was the only way i felt accepted. When i wen't home, all i did was get drunk alone and play videogames.

I don't really do that anymore, but i'm happier at home now, infact i lost almost 45 pounds, don't drink that much and only hang out with friends who make me feel accepted no matter what i do. I'm not quite sure what or how i changed my life, but i know that this is the way i want to live from now on.

If there is someone who feels like i used to, you can talk to me about it, but like i said i'm not quite sure even how I got better.

[–]Fuckyousantorum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You just described my ex. I ended up wanting to be his friend not his partner.

[–]ccxxv 235 points236 points  (28 children)

the whole time he was at the actor's studio he would stray away from questions and start doing something funny. it's true what he says, he feeds off of others and himself. you'd see him react to a word or a phrase and instantly go into a new character or joke. it took like 10 minutes to get to question 1.

man is a double genius. first, he has really quick and witty thoughts. many people can have this but very few have the ability to express them in words so quickly. i bet he would've been a fantastic writer too.

EDIT: why not add the link to the full thing: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IDy5GlUuf8

[–]Calimhero[S] 95 points96 points  (21 children)

it took like 15 minutes to get from question 1 to 2.

It was the best and messiest actor's studio. That man was unstoppable.

he has really quick and witty thoughts. many people can have this but very few have the ability to express them in words so quickly.

He was the fastest I've ever seen. He will probably be remembered for that, well into the future. Sometimes he was piling joke after joke so fast that my poor brain didn't have time to process all of them. This video is a perfect example of that.

[–]Homerpaintbucket 37 points38 points  (0 children)

It was the best and messiest actor's studio. That man was unstoppable.

The only one that came close to being that entertaining was the one with the cast of The Simpsons. The entire cast of the longest running sitcom in history was almost as entertaining as that one man.

[–]AnxietyMan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He was one of a very few people who ever made someone laugh so hard they had to be taken to a hospital.

[–]Fuckthisuser 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It bothers me a lot that he can't slow down and talk seriously about these matters. Sure he answers eventually but all that joking is a hint of what he is actually experiencing.

[–]plutosgodfather 2 points3 points  (2 children)

I went through a binge of watching a ton of these. When I got to his, it was fantastic and hilarious, but one thing I noticed, which saddened me, was that he did what you said: he strayed away from questions. One of the coolest things about that show is getting to know the person behind the actor, and the way he avoided serious questions made me, in a way, see how he felt about himself and his life. He didn't want people to see him, he wanted them to see his characters.

[–]Bouncing_Thermos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, all of him is a defense mechanism, that spirals quickly in to feeding of the audience, be it 1 or 1,000.

I think that if you spent some serious time with him, it would become apparent pretty quickly that he in fact is not funny and happy, he is depressed and the funny is the way he hides it.

[–]brodishatva 106 points107 points  (10 children)

One part of this, in particular, stands out to me -- early on in the improvisational segment, where he's made a burka out of that woman's scarf, and he's just standing there and people are cracking up -- what he was doing wasn't really THAT funny. It was a cheap joke, and he knew it.

And yet, people were beside themselves, nearly pissing their pants -- imagine being so hilarious, and then so universally beloved and recognized as hilarious that anything you said or did fit that schema that the world had built around him -- could you imagine the kind of prison that must be like?

Robin Williams was a once-in-a-lifetime talent, and yet, it must have been hard for him to "turn it off" for this reason.

[–]hagbard_celine 13 points14 points  (1 child)

I imagine as well the constant references to him being a genius - looking at that clip, I don't think that sat comfortably with him. And I think understandably. He had a manic energy, for sure, but genius?

That's a big statement and a hard thing to live up to. The desperation in which he attempts to do so in this clip are, at times, excruciating.

While he has enjoyed obvious success in his career, in any other context other than the limelight, Williams would've simply been "that guy" (in his comic persona, that is). You would hate to work with a Robin Williams; I think he'd even be seen as obnoxious at a party (if you didn't know who he was). I'd be surprised if he wasn't aware of that and those thoughts didn't eat at him sometimes.

Helluvan actor in serious roles, though.

[–]mrbaryonyx 82 points83 points  (7 children)

Only Robin Williams can insult all three major religions with just a scarf.

[–]Xenc 15 points16 points  (2 children)

He really pissed off the Traditional Chinese, Buddhists and Quakers with that one

[–]Krazy8s 2 points3 points  (2 children)

not really insulted, just teasing.

[–]L00k_Again 247 points248 points  (37 children)

I dunno if there's something wrong with me or what, but I don't get why that's so funny. I loved Robin Williams in all his more serious roles where opportunities to interject humour presented themselves. I was never a fan of his stand up, though. And I always hated interviews with him when he'd jump into characters and not speak as himself. I was far more fascinated by what he as a human being had to say than watching him transition from character to character. I absolutely loved this interview with him: http://youtu.be/DyctIk4YwZk

[–]article134 14 points15 points  (0 children)

when i see robin williams stand up i see a man trying to be funny, which doesn't make me laugh. Just not my type of humor i guess. But all his serious roles in movies are fucking awesome.

[–]OhAyGee 84 points85 points  (5 children)

I'm with you, I love Robin, but most of this is just racial stereotypes. Not that it's necessarily offensive, but it's sort of tired and easy comedy...not witty, just relying on the audience thinking foreign people are funny just for being foreign.

[–]jedinatt 45 points46 points  (5 children)

Yeah I don't get it either. It all seemed more random than witty to me. Like what I'd sometimes do alone in the car when bored/in a weird mood, talking in voices and random conversations with myself. The kind of thing you'd be embarrassed to death if overheard.

Is that his talent? Not being embarrassed? (besides being a good actor--I just don't get his stand-up)

[–]antholagnia 8 points9 points  (0 children)

He sounds crazy in the video. It made me feel disconcerted.

[–]Toaka 20 points21 points  (10 children)

It's ten parts funny to ninety parts impressive. You have to understand that most "improv" comedy is at least partially rehearsed or plotted out beforehand - Robin legitimately was only 2-3 seconds ahead of himself at any one time, and yet he always found a place to take the joke, without so much as a pause. The only person I know of that does the same thing is Adam Carolla, although I find Robin more funny whereas Adam is more consistent and cohesive. Of course it isn't as funny as a 90 minute standup routine that has been written and rewritten over the course of 100 shows and countless hours of practice - if you want it to be, you've missed the mark.

[–]L00k_Again 6 points7 points  (2 children)

I get improv, I understand that it's meant to be "on the spot". I just never enjoyed Robin Williams' impr ov or stand up. I can appreciate that he thought quick on his feet, but what causes others to double over in laughter often leaves me feeling 'meh'.

I remember watching a stand up routine of Robin's back in the 90s with some high school friends and they were dying laughing and even then I just didn't get it. But then Dead Poet's Society came out and I fell in love (despite enjoying him in Happy Days post jump the shark era and Mork and Mindy).

Edit to correct myself: Good Morning Vietnam was actually the movie that made me snap back, followed by DPS.

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    [–]fundayz 521 points522 points  (50 children)

    Wow, anyone who cares to understand Robin Williams should watch that video. It provides a huge amount of context behind this scarf improv routine, as it is a reference to Robin's idol and long time friend, Jonathan Winters.

    Link, cause ^ this guy ^ changed it

    [–]TheEternalWoodchuck 198 points199 points  (31 children)

    One one thing I noticed from that video above all the other things was that every single time Robin's eyes fell on Jonathon his eyes seemed to light up a little, because I think he never stopped being his hero. Every time he looked at him was probably much like the first.

    I can't help but envy that feeling, it must have been a wonderful sense of belonging.

    [–]SW1 122 points123 points  (22 children)

    I didn't know Winters passed away in 2013. Apparently devastated Robin.

    [–]turgid_wang 32 points33 points  (17 children)

    What? I swear he died like 20 years prior. Wow.

    They were great on Mork & Mindy together.

    [–]JoyousCacophony 13 points14 points  (16 children)

    Yeah. I coulda sworn that Winters died in the 90's.

    [–]helium_farts 19 points20 points  (14 children)

    Nope. It was April 11th of last year. He was 87.

    [–]JoyousCacophony 8 points9 points  (12 children)

    Oh yeah. I went straight to wikipedia after reading the statement. Then I went to IMDB to confirm.

    Seems I'm not the only one that thought he died a ways back, so I wonder who we're all thinking of.

    [–]SnatchAddict 16 points17 points  (0 children)

    Winters is such a classic comedian. I was introduced to him via Mork and Mindy and the tonight show and he never failed to make me laugh. I don't mind expletives but clean humor is a challenge. Winters had chops.

    [–]mrmrevin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

    Welp.... That was only last year. It must have really hurt him :(

    [–]Two_Inches_Of_Fun 160 points161 points  (4 children)

    This pic gave me goosebumps.

    I think the end of that video shows the student passing the master, as well.

    [–]fundayz 63 points64 points  (2 children)

    I agree, Winters almost couldn't keep up by the time he got to the mime part.

    [–]das7002 53 points54 points  (1 child)

    I love how you could see Winters holding back laughter at that point.

    [–]GIVES_SOLID_ADVICE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I take it with him also letting Robin take the stage and giving him a lot of credit in public. After that bit, in the last few seconds, Winters composed himself immediately and made a crack that the whole crowd laughed at. Maybe it was more like a passing of the torch.

    [–]Compumerk 21 points22 points  (0 children)

    "Even Darwin's going, 'I HAD HOPES!'" - Robin "Hood" Quilliams

    [–]Stiltskin 29 points30 points  (6 children)

    The link has been turned into a dickbutt gif. Here's the actual video.

    [–]fundayz 5 points6 points  (4 children)

    Thanks, dunno why the guy changed it...

    [–]PoliticalBeaver 14 points15 points  (0 children)

    the edit referenced something about grammar nazis and users being dicks... before dickbutt. i would assume either this comment or this one and from what i've read in the thread, there's /u/turgid_wang who's on a rampage against /u/storytalesdan

    shit be cray, call /r/SubredditDrama

    [–]beta_recognize 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    I think he did an impromptu TED standup as well, when they were experiencing technical difficulties

    [–]MonkPreston 157 points158 points  (14 children)

    OH, FUCK YOU FOR THAT EDIT. I was one minute late.

    Actual video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9yVOd9TXNks

    Edit: Grammar

    [–]Lurking4Answers 10 points11 points  (4 children)

    Now that the comment was deleted, care to share what transpired here?

    [–]turgid_wang 27 points28 points  (6 children)

    Yeah, he's a douche. Here:

    "The World is Open for Play" (link /u/StorytalesDan edited out with weird racist rants and ever-changing links: like to childish memes. He must be all of 14). And now it's back. And he deleted his account.

    [–]REJECTED_FROM_MENSA 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    He deleted his account? Why? The World is Open for Play is a classic...

    [–]Durbee 28 points29 points  (31 children)

    I think it was always clear that Winters greatly informed Williams' work, but it was so fun to watch them together. Fantastic.

    [–]im_not_smart 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    Wow, that really was great. I remember seeing his show 'Live at the Vet' (on tv) when I was like 13, hearing that bit with the punchline Mickey Mouse to a 3 year old is a 6 foot fucking rat! and laughing my ass off. It's amazing how something can remain with you for, oof it pains me to think about passage of time.

    [–]unknamed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    The episodes of Mork and Mindy with Jonathan Winters as Mork's son were highlights of my childhood television experience.

    [–]gabrielcrim 19 points20 points  (11 children)

    Almost seems like they've never lost their capacity for Divergent thinking. Especially when you see the stick and cashmina sketches.

    [–]stillworkin 36 points37 points  (40 children)

    "The world is open for play"

    My life has been changed. I love this quote and philosophy. I've had similar thoughts and conclusions over the past few years, but that bridges them together in a very nice, succinct way!

    [–]heroescandream 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    Damn you

    [–]asharwood 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    That was way too precious. I need to compile all the things filmed of him big and small. He broke all boundaries to make us laugh but to draw us out of our comfort zone.

    [–]mooshooter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    My grandmother was manic depressive. The moments she suffered from mania were very similar to this, albeit not as funny :(. She spoke faster and than any of us could think, jumping from one subject to another based on connections that only she observed. It was really something to witness.

    She was also an english teacher with an incredible grasp of language. With this she was able to describe what would happen to her. She said she was inspired, which etymologically stems from the root of having another spirit inside you (she loved to explain the etymology of words). Mania to her was being inspired in it's truest form - being possessed. Imagine an extra spirit inside you, exhausting your faculties at the same speed you are. Everything was moving twice as fast but physically you can only support one spirit. In the moment she's up and witty and eloquent, but once it all ends it's terrible. Her whole body aches. It's as if she was awake for two days straight in only 24 hours, firing on 8 cylinders when her body is accustomed to 4. She would spend days in bed recovering. And emotionally it was just awful. She unfortunately lost her life too soon for different reasons, but her years on this earth were an unbelievable rollercoaster. I can only think of Robin after all of his public appearances just sitting at home on a couch nursing him self back to health. I hope he's found peace now. And I hope he knows he brought so much joy to others like my grandmother. She once printed out a sheet (driven by her mania) of all the famous/succesful manic depressives in the world and Robin was at the top of the list. He of all was a symbol of pride for her and I can't thank him enough.

    [–]bullnado 17 points18 points  (1 child)

    This video is very inconveniently cut before he actually explains it a bit more. Encourage you all to watch the full bit, its much deeper than you get from this slice.

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IDy5GlUuf8

    [–]Blue_crayons 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    ITT: Robin Williams wasn't that great of a comedian but he was genuine so he's a great comedian

    [–]03856056087650356 6 points7 points  (1 child)

    I think about 10 to 20 percent of the material is excellent. The remainder ranges from good to beyond my taste range. But it's admirable that he's going for an extreme improv that most performers don't dare. I have great respect for that.

    [–]whozurdaddy 19 points20 points  (8 children)

    His speed was incredible, even after the drugs. He could take you into a scene in his mind in a split second. I noticed too that he would mix things that normally dont go together as a pattern to his humor. He would also run at 100 miles an hour, then take you to a sudden stop. In this respect, his improv was really good. Watching him and Jonathan Winters was great. I would have loved to see him do more with Colin Mochrie and Ryan Stiles from Who's Line.

    [–]SpeedLimit55 9 points10 points  (1 child)

    What I love is how he scatters the 'cheap' stuff around. Almost like a pause for a normal improv comedian. He goes with a brilliant bit, a dick joke, then launches into another bit. The dick joke is hilarious, but almost seems like a way for him to keep speed while gathering the next bit.

    [–]poohster33 37 points38 points  (1 child)

    "Not an explanation, but a bizarre exploration."

    -Robin Williams

    [–]irrationalee 989 points990 points  (254 children)

    I didn't laugh at all. He's a brilliant mind, but I mostly see a guy who's gone nuts.

    [–]BeHereNow91 12 points13 points  (0 children)

    Going nuts was a big part of his comedic style. I found the whole thing pretty funny, but certainly everyone has their tastes.

    [–]turgid_wang 23 points24 points  (2 children)

    When he said "KHELP ME!" I couldn't hold it.

    He just confuses your brain into compliance eventually.

    [–]genveir 9 points10 points  (1 child)

    So it's like crossfit but for humor?

    [–]ZippyDan 49 points50 points  (4 children)

    I didn't laugh either, but I think it might be a situational thing. I think watching it on youtube we are removed from the unexpectedness of the performance. I think if you had been there in the audience you would have found it much more entertaining.

    [–]Not__Sure___ 9 points10 points  (0 children)

    The audience in this video was hysterical.

    [–]Caminsky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    It's just one of those things that feel different through a video than when you are live next to him. He was catering to a live audience not to us. Sometimes live events feel different but they still feel awesome

    [–]Divest1987 627 points628 points  (102 children)

    I didn't laugh either. It reminded me of a child just blurting out the first thing that came to mind. I couldn't understand half the shit he was saying.

    Maybe he's just too witty and quick for me, I don't know.

    [–]MrShortPants 646 points647 points  (55 children)

    I've had the same frustration with him in the past. Just too much going and no direction.

    For some reason with this video I really latched on to what he was doing. Just how quickly he progressed with the scarf from one subject and impression to the next. He was incredibly fast.

    I think you may be over thinking it all. Take the joke for face value and admire how he progressed through it, all as a demonstration, an abstract explanation, about how good he was at what he did.

    [–]OfficialGreenkid 182 points183 points  (25 children)

    He started out satirizing the question posed... "where do you get your quick wit from?", so I thought he would stay grounded in the question.

    After that, though, he just seems to spin into an improv maelstrom that only he could deliver.

    [–]mememyselfandOPsmom 117 points118 points  (19 children)

    he just seems to spin into an improv maelstrom that only he could deliver.

    and that is his brilliance, nobody could delivery what he did. Just the same with John Candy, John Belushi and Bill Hicks, etc. They have a unique brilliance that can be attempted, but never replaced.

    [–]RSJi 61 points62 points  (9 children)

    Sure when he blurts out random things hes brilliant, when I do it I'm crazy.

    [–]FourAM 135 points136 points  (3 children)

    Robin knew how to make small enough jumps for slower minds to just make the connection. Instead of firing off things that sounded disconnected, he put the pieces together for us.

    Regular crazy leaves the explanations behind and just assumes we can all make the same conclusions.

    [–]bigbeau 15 points16 points  (6 children)

    It's the same kind of thing as Vince Vaughn. Not that I'm saying he's that great of a comedian but people with shticks can't be easily replicated. Some of Vince Vaughn's rants would be so boring if said by anyone else. That's the talent in these comedians that makes them amazing. Sure, they had to practice to be better but they have that unique cadence that makes listening to them more interesting.

    [–]swissarm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    You motorboating son of a bitch! You old sailor, you!

    [–]FriboR 83 points84 points  (12 children)

    As someone who has a really deep love for humor soaked in cleverness and depth, I sometimes get short of patience with humor that's overly simplified... that has it's laughs at face value. Sometimes I also feel like these things are like kids just blabbering out the first words that come to mind...

    But with Robin I never experienced that. I mean, I see how rudimentary, blunt, and straight-forward some of his jokes can be... saying exactly what the joke is, or doing an impression and basically laying out what he's doing verbally. Going right at the subject with no finesse. I always found him hilarious, though.

    The way he delivers is just unmatched. If you really listen, you can also hear some really mind blowingly witty stuff he came up with on the fly just buried under all the manic talking. Stuff that went over everyone's head because they're trying to keep up. You dont see it til the second or third watch. I saw a comment on the youtube vid that said he was unfunny and nobody cared about him til he died. I disagree with that vehemently. He was an absolute genius as a comedian and a good actor. I thought that 15 years ago, and I do now.

    [–]geekygirl23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    I've loved Robin since I was a kid, got enough of his jokes then and plenty more now. People are generally dumb.

    [–]BiffWhipster 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I agree completely, excepting the fact that you used the adjective 'genius' for his comedy, but only 'good' regarding his acting. I would point out that he was nominated four times for the academy awards for acting, one of which was a win. Not many comedians can say that.

    [–]DifficultApple 34 points35 points  (4 children)

    I really don't feel like quick wit is the right word when most of his jokes are throwaway and not that funny. I think he was unique in how confidently he delivered those lines however. I'm biased I suppose because I was never a big fan of his stand up, it seems to rely too much on stupid accents.

    [–]andelas 17 points18 points  (1 child)

    My admiration for him comes with the knowledge that what you explained is pretty spot on. The reason I loved him was because he was like that and wasn't afraid to be like in front of an audience. As we get older we quiet down and we cringe at the idea of making a fool of ourselves. He thrived on it. It wasn't all gold, but his willingness to try and fail and keep trying until he hit something was what I loved about him.

    Whenever I saw him start going loose on an interview, I expected some silliness that might fail, but he often found little gems of absurd ideas that made the whole thing worth it.

    I think of it the same as how some people only want to see a comedians stand up special. Fewer are interested in seeing them in a small club the first time they try new material and figure out what works. Even fewer want to see improv. Robin did that in front of a camera because he didn't have the outlet he learned through stand up back in the day. I loved seeing how his mind came up with the crazy shit.

    [–]frickin_lahey 71 points72 points  (10 children)

    That's because most of us are familiar with very polished performances of his in film or stand-up. This is just him spit-balling, which works fine in small doses, but not for ten minutes.

    [–]LETT3RBOMB 38 points39 points  (6 children)

    Eh, I like seeing him spit-balling and working with very little. The longer he can go with little to work on the more I'm impressed. Though there does come a point where even Williams knows it is time to end the bit. Just interesting to see how long he keeps it working.

    [–]obelus 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    As a kid watching Mork and Mindy, I remember thinking he never was really in character. He was captivating because he wasn't bound by a character or whatever flimsy plot device the show would grind out. It was clear that he was a standup who was permitted to go off script and it was enthralling. People didn't know what he would say next. Now, I'm beginning to see that he didn't perhaps know either. He followed a simple command of "make something happen!" and he was so committed that the audience would oblige him. He got the audience to fill in half the humor. With a whole bunch of people in a room roaring with laughter, it's hard not to get swept along. His is not a writerly Seinfeld type of humor. It is making something large out of perhaps little. It's done with force.

    [–]being_no_0ne 25 points26 points  (1 child)

    There is brilliance in his playfulness. It reflects a philosophy that Picasso nurtured as well, reflected in this quote:

    "It took me four years to paint like Raphael, but a lifetime to paint like a child." - Picasso

    You get a lot of intelligent comedians that put together thoughtful well composed sets, and they can make you laugh. But it might not relate to everyone. However, we all have a playful nature, and I think this is what Robin was so good at capturing. He was sharp enough to create a focused set and compose an intelligent joke if he wanted. But he could also do more than that.

    [–]SnatchAddict 4 points5 points  (2 children)

    Taken out of context, that sentence could be on his tombstone.

    [–]party-mcfly 5 points6 points  (2 children)

    I dunno about that he uses his natural stand up style through "Good Morning Vietnam" and it's hilarious and works so well since it suits the Radio DJ persona.

    [–]steevrock 33 points34 points  (1 child)

    No laugh from me either. Hes not not funny but is entertaining to watch. Theres a difference.

    [–]Divest1987 13 points14 points  (0 children)

    That's very true. I felt the same way while watching it. I didn't laugh, but I was entertained.

    [–]epileptic_bear_fur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Yeah I thought I was the only one noy laughing.. I was thinking well maybe it's because I'm not American. But I really appreciate his mind and quickness of improvising, that's really brilliant, but the way the audience were laughing their asses off, I just don't think it's that funny.

    [–]shiftighter 87 points88 points  (15 children)

    I think family guy summed it up pretty well, "Scattered stream of references! Lots of energy! One good one for every ten!"

    [–]RedditAuthority 282 points283 points  (12 children)

    One good one for every ten

    Kinda like Family Guy

    [–]ForgotmyPWasalways 51 points52 points  (1 child)

    Those are high marks.

    [–]41shadox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I enjoy Family Guy

    [–]AlwaysDrunkLiterally 109 points110 points  (33 children)

    Glad someone said something. I never found his "humour" funny. But his movie roles were always 10/10! If he has no direction he's just going to blurt out the first thing he thinks of... Too manic.

    [–]jbaker1225 53 points54 points  (7 children)

    Strongly agreed. When he died I saw tons of people calling him one of the greatest stand ups of all time. I was a bit surprised because I'd always viewed him as a pretty awful comedian but an amazing actor.

    [–]arcademachin3 36 points37 points  (5 children)

    Kindof a sad aftereffect of his passing is that it's hard for me to laugh at his jokes. I know how the movie ends :\

    [–]sunburn_on_the_brain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

    Laugh at his jokes and don't feel bad about it. This is his legacy. We will all pass from this earth someday, and we tend to hope that we will leave some sort of legacy that makes the world a better place. The laughter, the enjoyment, this is what he would want to be going on after he's gone.

    [–]stixy_stixy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Same... I want so badly to laugh but it's difficult. I hope as time passes, I can let go of the sad feelings that are now associated with him, and once again be able to fully appreciate his brilliance.

    [–]T-157 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Spoiler alert. We all die.

    [–]personalmessage 3 points4 points  (1 child)

    True story, one woman in the audience of this got a hernia from laughing too hard

    [–]totaljeanius 35 points36 points  (1 child)

    His utter humility is so fucking endearing

    [–]Gittinitfasho 7 points8 points  (0 children)

    I knew I'd idolized Robin. I grew up with him and Jim Carrey teaching me how to be funny, how to be liked, how to be entertaining. I'm 26. I never really grieved for a celebrity before, but having dealt with depression for more than half my life,I suspected robins death would hit me hard. I suppose I was pretty shocked, though numb, when I heard what he did. Funny, cause the next way I'd thought I might try to go is the same way he chose. I felt a little kinship there. People throw around the term "father figure" but, my dad was a goofy man too, so robin acting essentially the same, I identified with him. I knew this was what I was supposed to grow up and do.

    I've seen a few memorial videos, and the first chips into highs is iceberg was the minute long montage of the jack quote over his other films; most memorably, Hook, as he soars above the clouds. I'd never seen this clip before, and only. One joke had I heard him tell before, so it was all fresh. It hit me hard. I sat there, following along with his train of thought just jiving with him, feeling out the space and trying to guess where he'd go next.

    I wasnt disappointed. In both his delivery and reception he was golden. He was a uniquely gifted man, and the world is less flavorful having him gone. I love his erratic physical comedy,and his impressions. He shows a level of empathy that's hard to contest. I love his weird, wide smile, and his nut brown eyes. I broke down during this clip. Laughing and sobbing simultaneously, he let me live in his shoes for a second, and I reconnected to a masterful comedian who had influenced the shaping of my personality, if its not too much to say.

    I truly never had a friend like him.

    [–]JakeonJake 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    This man was funnier with a shawl than I've ever been in my life. Watching this makes me so happy, yet knowing how his story ends, it makes me so sad. Even now it's hard to accept that such a great shining light puts itself out. I understand more than most the burden of depression and if you're depressed and reading this now, please know that the sadness will pass and that you mean as much, if not more, than Robin and if you push for one more day or a day after that or a day after then you'll see it for yourself. Your experience in this life is your own and no one else's. No one in the history of the world will know the people you know the way you did or have the same experiences the way you did. And when times get tough know that even when it feels like no one loves you someone does.

    [–]PrincessFred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I think this may have been the segment that gave that woman a hernia. That is damn impressive in its own right.

    [–]zline34 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Wow, my best friend has been through a lot of similar stuff Williams has went through. He can make a group of people laugh for hours. His parents are both on television, but are now divorced. He recently went through a divorce and turned to alcohol and weed. His ex wife took the house. When we hang out alone it's me that does the majority of the talking, but once we hit a group of people I shut up and watch him perform. He cheated on his wife, and crazy bitches are very attracted to him. He fought in Afghanistan and acts like it didn't affect him, but I can tell deep down the shit he did really eats at him. We're Bros and never talk about emotional shit, but I think it's time we do. I do not want to lose my bro.

    [–]Benjammin123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Thanks OP, great clip.

    [–]Norwegianmoustache 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0IDy5GlUuf8

    The whole thing is worth every second to watch, it show just how versatile he really was. He was a true genius, a master of comedy. He cared for all those around him. He was truly one in 7 billion. Rest In Peace Robin, may you find happiness in the afterlife.

    [–]ultimomos 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I don't know if it's just me or not but everything Robin did seemed so genuine and so sincere. I loved his comedy but I so very much loved his more serious work as well. What Dreams May Come will always be a favorite movie of mine and it was all because of this man's talent to convey a message. I will truly miss him, and I hope that wherever he is, he finds the happiness that he so very much deserves, the happiness he spent a lifetime giving to others.

    [–]monkeyfullofbarrels 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    I often wonder:

    People say that autism is a disease where sufferers are not able to filter everything coming in.

    It's almost like he was working, every minute of every day to keep all of that from coming out. That can't even be all of it. That's only the stuff that he's decided has a chance of being funny. Obviously, over time, you get to the funny more quickly, but, his mind is definitely going ten times the speed that the most of ours are going.

    [–]aura3lux 1 point2 points  (1 child)

    Man this was such a treat. Thank you.