The woman who gets PAID to make men feel worthless: Professional 'humiliatrix' makes living by demeaning and shaming men 

  • Ceara Lynch, 28, is paid to indulge men’s fetish fantasies, which often include elements of humiliation
  • She began her career at age 17 selling used underwear online and has gone on to create web videos
  • Ceara now owns a minimum of $1 a minute for making custom videos 
  • She 'gets a kick out of' her job, which includes hearing the secret fantasies of thousands of men

By Carly Stern For Dailymail.com

Published: 15:34 EST, 13 April 2015 | Updated: 17:55 EST, 13 April 2015

A woman who works as a professional ‘humiliatrix’ has revealed how she earns more than one dollar per minute indulging the subservient fantasies of men around the world. 

Ceara Lynch, from Portland, Oregon, takes the more traditional dominatrix idea a step further, not just dominating her customers but demeaning, shaming and generally humiliating them. 

And the 28-year-old entrepreneur says that making money this way — which she has been doing since she was 17 — has been a dream.

Risqué business: Ceara Lynch, 28, says her career began when she realized how much money she could make from selling her used underwear online; her first pair sold for $70

Risqué business: Ceara Lynch, 28, says her career began when she realized how much money she could make from selling her used underwear online; her first pair sold for $70

In a recent interview with Salon, Ceara explains that she got started in the industry by accident.

When she was 17, Ceara was on a dating website when one particular suitor intrigued her; the meaner she was to him, the more interested in her he became.

She went on to seek out similar men, eventually finding a website called Ebanned where she could sell her used underwear. Her first pair sold for $70.

A tame entrance into the world of humiliating men for money soon escalated to selling more personal items online, taking provocative phone calls, and performing live webcam shows.

Taking control: 'Guys really like the idea of me ruining them in this way,' Ceara says

Taking control: 'Guys really like the idea of me ruining them in this way,' Ceara says

Real-life dating: Ceara says she's up-front about her job when she's dating, and she's had three serious relationships over the course of her career 

Real-life dating: Ceara says she's up-front about her job when she's dating, and she's had three serious relationships over the course of her career 

'I make most of my money from videos,' she says, adding that custom videos cost $1 per minute and subscribers pay a monthly fee of $39.99 for access to her site. 

'They are [point of view]-style videos, which means it’s just me and the camera, and I am looking at the camera and talking to the camera so that the viewer feels like I’m talking to them.'

'I just tap into various fetishes and they’re all just under the umbrella of [female dominance]. I always play a dominant role, and I tap into things like cuckolding, small penis humiliation, foot fetish, toilet slavery, giantess — which is this fetish where guys imagine this giant woman that’s going to come and crush them with her feet or swallow them whole — different stuff like that.'

Besides paying for subscriptions and purchasing the personal items that Ceara sells online, customers can also mail Ceara cash, buy her gift cards to Amazon, Southwest Airlines, or a massage parlor, or purchase items off her Amazon wishlist, which includes a $399.99 GoPro, $1,295 Giuseppe Zanotti shoes, and a $23 Pikachu adult cosplay costume.

No secret: Friends and family know what Ceara does for a living, and her dad thought she was a 'genius' when he learned how she was making money

No secret: Friends and family know what Ceara does for a living, and her dad thought she was a 'genius' when he learned how she was making money

While such interests might scare off some people, Ceara likes the fact that she is privy to intimate knowledge that her customers don't necessarily reveal in their personal lives.

'I think it’s fascinating and I think it’s also flattering, in a way, that guys are telling me things that they don’t tell anyone else,' she says. 

Ceara also isn't quite as excited about humiliating her customers as they are about being humiliated, which she says makes it easy for her to compartmentalize and separate her job from her personal life.

'I do enjoy my work, I think it’s really fun and I get a kick out of it ... But I definitely don’t like it in the same way that my clients like it.' 

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