I can't face going home

Do I stay or do I go? I have been married for 20 years and there has never been much passion. My husband prefers his own bed and now his own room.

I think he still loves me but he suffers from severe depression. I want to leave as I no longer love him and I have fallen in love with someone else.

I am not having an affair and won't until I have made a decision. I dare not leave my husband as he is not strong emotionally but I am very unhappy.

I stay late at work to avoid coming home and when I do get home I still have to do all the cooking, shopping and housework. When I try to tell him how I feel he gets very upset and I can't cope with the guilt.

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