Carolyn Hax

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Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and tackles your problems.

  • Aug 28, 2015

A woman who knows exactly how badly she wants marriage and family wonders if her boyfriend does.

  • Aug 23, 2015

A little planning can go a long way for an expecting mother who is grieving after her spouse’s unexpected death.

  • Aug 22, 2015

A social experiment could help determine if a couple moving at different speeds are compatible.

  • Aug 21, 2015

A controlling and presumptuous nature and his overbearing mother are red flags a woman can do without.

  • Aug 20, 2015

A woman might need to consider counseling when her husband loses interest while she’s expecting.

  • Aug 19, 2015

A woman’s discomfort reaches the threshold. Is avoidance the only way to keep her marriage on track?

  • Aug 18, 2015

Her boyfriend reached out to an ex. But her crackdown left her with no reassurances of trust to show for it.

  • Aug 17, 2015

A woman hoping to take in a baby dismisses the birth mother’s right to decide who will become the parents.

  • Aug 16, 2015

She sucks up to each of her five grown children while bad-mouthing the others.

  • Aug 15, 2015
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Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997, after five years as a copy editor and news editor in Style and none as a therapist. The column includes cartoons by “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis — Carolyn's ex-husband — and appears in over 200 newspapers.

Besides the daily column, Carolyn has a weekly live online discussion (noon Fridays), the Hax Philes forum and a Facebook page. She also has a policy of saying yes when NPR calls but avoids TV like something forgotten in the back of the fridge; the feeling appears to be mutual.

Carolyn lives in Massachusetts with her husband, three boys and medium brown dog, Billy, but sees D.C. as "home."  

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