School's out... forever! Former teacher lets her son ditch tests and classrooms so he can educate himself by having 'life experiences'

  • Kim Houssenloge’s son Lewi is 16 years old and has never been to school 
  • Former teacher believed that mainstream education was not right for him 
  • In un-schooling there are no classes, teachers, tests and classrooms 
  • Children are expected to acquire skills through their everyday life 

The world of un-schooling seems pretty radical for many parents today but one advocate of the method has put forward a persuasive case for it.

Un-schooling blogger Kim Houssenloge’s son Lewi is 16 years old and has been free from classrooms since he was five years old. In fact, he has never been to school.

After her experiences as a teacher, when Kim became a parent she was naturally more particular about what she wanted for her son and didn’t think a mainstream education was right for him.

Kim Houssenloge (right) didn’t think a mainstream education was right for her son Lewi (left)  

Kim Houssenloge (right) didn’t think a mainstream education was right for her son Lewi (left)  

Instead she used un-schooling to provide Lewi’s environment with resources for the things he’s interested in such as wood work (pictured)

Instead she used un-schooling to provide Lewi’s environment with resources for the things he’s interested in such as wood work (pictured)

‘When I was online doing my research this un-schooling method just gelled with what I wanted for my son,’ she told Daily Mail Australia.

‘I just thought that this was a perfect extension to the parenting I’d already done. It’s a chance to embrace all that every day has.

‘My job as an un-schooling parent is to facilitate Lewi’s environment so I can provide resources for the things he’s interested in.’

Unlike home schooling which is conducted by a parent or tutor on a specifically devised curriculum, un-schooling is exactly what it says it is – there are no classes, no teachers, no tests, and no classroom.

Un-schooling for Lewi (pictured) meant there were no classes, no teachers, no tests, and no classroom

Un-schooling for Lewi (pictured) meant there were no classes, no teachers, no tests, and no classroom

Lewi is 16 years old and has been un-schooling since he was five years old

Lewi is 16 years old and has been un-schooling since he was five years old

He has never been to school, but his mother said he has flourished by because of this 

He has never been to school, but his mother said he has flourished by because of this 

According to the Sydney Morning Herald, more than 50,000 Australian children were home-schooled last year but there are no accurate figures on how many kids are un-schooled each year.

Un-schooling does not mean they don’t learn the basics like reading and arithmetic, but instead of learning these in a classroom, children are expected to acquire these skills through their everyday life.

Many parents will be shocked that anyone could give their children control over their own education, with no specific curriculum to follow, but Kim had been a teacher for six years, so knew all about children working within a set curriculum.

Lew has acquired skills and learned thanks to his passions and interests in life 

Lew has acquired skills and learned thanks to his passions and interests in life 

Lew's life is about embracing all that every day has to offer, says his mother 

Lew's life is about embracing all that every day has to offer, says his mother 

‘I did a fair bit of work with kids who had learning difficulties and I could see that these kids didn’t have learning difficulties they just weren’t connecting with the material and with the work they had to do,’ she told Daily Mail Australia.

‘I felt that the curriculum was designed to fill kids’ days than to really ignite their learning. I could see in the kids that when they were passionate about learning they just bloomed.

‘Most of the time though they sat there bored, going through the motions and a waste of the day.’

Kim, who lives on the south coast in the Bega Valley, also believed that this form of education did not mean that her son did not have a good foundation in the basics like English and arithmetic.

More than 50,000 Australian children were home-schooled last year but there are no accurate figures on how many kids are un-schooled each year (stock image)

More than 50,000 Australian children were home-schooled last year but there are no accurate figures on how many kids are un-schooled each year (stock image)

The un-schooling method is based on children acquiring skills through their everyday life (stock image)

The un-schooling method is based on children acquiring skills through their everyday life (stock image)

‘It happens really naturally. I’ve never taught him to learn to read traditionally. He’s learnt to read by being read to and getting a love for stories when it was exposed to him,’ Kim said.

‘When children want to read they also want to write. It goes hand in hand. He used to love writing stories and he’d use a dictionary. And the more you read and write the better you get.

‘He didn’t become a big reader until he was 10 years old. But the reason for that I think was because he didn’t have the pressure of focusing just on those things.’

Lewi’s interest in arithmetic also came when he started handling money and did things with his mum like cooking, so measurements and weighing came into play. T

Some parents will be shocked that anyone could give their children control over their own education (stock image)

Some parents will be shocked that anyone could give their children control over their own education (stock image)

The un-schooling method used by Kim tries to encourage the inherent skills children have by making the most of the kids’ interests and passions.

‘It’s not about leaving kids to their own devices. But it’s also not about having English or mathematics drilled into them,’ she told Daily Mail Australia.

'If Lewi wants to learn something mathematical for example he’ll learn it in five minutes because he needs it and he wants it. It’s very different to just having information poured into you need for it.’

Un-schooling encourages the inherent skills children have by making the most of the kids’ interests and passions (stock image)

Un-schooling encourages the inherent skills children have by making the most of the kids’ interests and passions (stock image)

 

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