'She is only putting in 60%!' Married at First Sight star lashes out at his wife of one month after she tells him she was too busy working to write her vows for their wedding anniversary

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Trouble is brewing for a Married at First Sight couple who can't keep their hands off each other as one of them grows increasingly frustrated with the other's inability to prioritize their relationship over work.  

On Tuesday night's episode of the FYI reality series, Tom Wilson, 28, becomes upset with his wife Lillian Vilchez, 24, after she fails to write vows for their one-month anniversary.

'She's not showing a 100 per cent effort, and I feel like I am putting in 100 per cent and she is putting in 60 to 70 per cent,' he tells the camera in a preview clip from the episode. 

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Trouble in paradise: Tom Wilson grows frustrated with his wife Lillian Vilchez after she admits that she didn't have time to write vows for their one-month wedding anniversary 

Passing time: Tom, 28, can be seen waiting for her to arrive at their anniversary dinner on Tuesday night's episode of the FYI reality series Married at First Sight 

Tom's irritation with his wife starts when they decide to run errands together because he clearly expects to chat with Lillian while driving her to her real estate showings for work.

'We want to get a lot of stuff done, and I thought let's just run around together and get everything out of the way for the day and spend some time together in each other's company,' he explains.

However, Lillian is working on both her phone and computer, essentially ignoring Tom while he talks about getting blood work done at his doctor's office.   

Tom stresses to the cameras that he things 'communicating is really important', but it is clear that Lillian isn't listening to a word he is saying, especially after he casually mentions the doctor looking at all the 'little wizards' and 'bugs' in his blood stream to see if she is paying attention. 

Upset: Although the two have amazing chemistry, Tom is growing irritated with his wife prioritizing her work over their marriage 

He continues to test her by jokingly talking about the time he spent on a ranch.  

'I got to learn about being a gay cowboy. You know what I'm saying?' he asks, and Lillian simply replies: 'No I don't.'

'I appreciate how hard she works, but that to me just shows that she's not listening to me, and it's really frustrating. It's irritating,' he tells the cameras of Lillian's response. 

Lillian apologizes and admits she wasn't actually listening to him, but she doesn't stop working. And according to Tom, this is a regular occurrence.   

Romance: When Lillian finally arrives, she gives her husband a sweet kiss on the lips 

Too busy: Lillian, who is pictured with a friend, tells Tom that even though she wanted to write vows like they discussed, she didn't have time 

'A lot of times she is on her phone, busy with work, and I'm talking with her and [she is] not even paying attention, he says. 

'The biggest mistake that we can make as a couple is not listening.' 

Pastor Calvin Roberson, one of the show's three relationship experts, also believes that the couple should be working on their communication skills because they don't have any issues with physically intimacy. 

'From the wedding day to the honeymoon, they haven't taken their hands off each other,' he tells the cameras. 

'On one side you would think that's a little to much, but they're married and if that's where they found a connection that's great. 

Preoccupied: Tom is also frustrated that Lillian rarely listens to him when he is speaking to her 

Not listening: While Tom is explaining that he needs to get blood work done, Lillian is busy working on her phone and computer 

'The one thing they don't have to worry about is physical intimacy. Now they have to work on some of the other things like communication and being patient and being empathetic with one another.' 

On the night of their anniversary dinner, Tom is looking at his cellphone and reading the menu as he waits for Lillian.

When she finally comes in, she is carrying a large present wrapped in gold paper, and she stops to give him a sweet kiss before sitting down.

However, things take a turn for the worse when she admits that she was too busy to prepare her vows like they discussed. 

Being honest: Tom, who believes communication is essential for their marriage, says that he feels like he is giving 100 per cent of himself while she is only giving 60 per cent 

Personal opinion: Pastor Calvin Roberson, one of the show's three relationship experts, also believes that the couple should be working on their communication skills

'I wanted to have my vows ready for you today, but I did not have time,' she says. 

Unsurprisingly, Tom is peeved that his wife once again put work and her other priorities ahead of their marriage. 

'This is not just an experiment anymore; this is marriage,' he tells hers. 

Meanwhile, Nick Pendergrast, 32, wants his wife Sonia Granados, 33, to move back in with him after their explosive fight in which he called her unattractive. 

On last week's episode, Sonia accepted his apology and they both admitted that they have had sex more than once and were hiding it from the show's experts. 

Looking forward: Meanwhile, Nick Pendergrast, 32, wants his wife Sonia Granados, 33, to move back in with him after their explosive fight in which he called her unattractive

Standing her ground: Nick, who apologized for calling Sonia unattractive, has realized that he misses his wife. However, she wants him to prove that he is willing to work on their marriage 

Although Sonia seems to be ready to move forward with Nick, she has yet to move back into their marital home. 

The two are driving in the car when Nick says he doesn't understand why she is hesitant to stay at their home.

'I don't think I have to be in the house for there to be effort on your part,' Sonia says, pointing out that he was the one who hurt her. 

'It's like I am fighting with what my gut says to do and what my hopeless romantic part of me says,' Sonia explains to the cameras . 

Reunited: Derek Schwartz, 35, will also speak to his wife Heather Seidel, 32, in person for the first time since she asked him for a divorce on Tuesday night's episode 

Heartbroken? Derek, who is pictured with expert Rachel DeAlto, is still wearing his wedding ring and appears to be having trouble moving on

Neither Nick nor Sonia seems convinced that they have a future together, but it looks like he is really starting to miss his wife. 

In a clip published by Us Weekly, Nick reveals that he finally realized how much he cares about Sonia after they had dinner together. 

'I miss my wife,' he says. 'She's a great person, she's got a great heart and she is very attractive. Whenever she feels willing to move back, then she is welcome back.' 

On Tuesday night's episode, fans will also see Derek Schwartz, 35, speak to his wife Heather Seidel, 32, in person for the first time since she asked him for a divorce. 

Derek, who is still wearing his wedding ring, appears to be having trouble moving on, and it will be interesting to see what he has to say to his wife.