EXCLUSIVE: Police were called to Tamar Braxton's Calabasas home after ANOTHER altercation with her husband, as friends say she's been living in a 'private hell' since she was fired from The Real and she lands in hospital

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After R&B star and reality TV personality Tamar Braxton and her husband Vincent Herbert had a dust up at the Ritz-Carleton Hotel in Atlanta in August, rumors of trouble in the marriage have run rampant. 

Tamar declared on an Instagram video on September 23, in which she appeared to be in an LA  hospital for undisclosed reasons: 'Just because somebody says something does not make it law and I'm not finna defend my relationship to anybody. Ever. This is a marriage. This is not a baby daddy, this not my boyfriend. We don't live together. This my husband for 13 years so everybody else, have several seats.'

'But her family fears that 13 may be their sister's unlucky number and that if things don't change with Tamar and Vince, she could end up like Rihanna after the Chris Brown altercation or worse,' a  source close to the family tells DailyMail.com.

According to the source, Tamar's sisters Toni, Towanda, Traci and Trina are actually happy that the real dynamic between Tamar and Vince is getting out.

R&B star and reality TV personality Tamar Braxton revealed in a now-deleted Instagram post that she was in a Los Angeles hospital and was on pain medications on September 23

In the post she dispelled rumors that her marriage to Vincent Herbert (pictured together in 2012) was on the rocks following abuse allegations 

DailyMail.com has leaned that several of the sisters were on hand when an altercation between the couple took place at their Calabasas, California, home a few months ago and Tamar's older sister, Grammy winner Toni Braxton called the police.

When authorities arrived, they took statements from several of the other family members on hand.

'Again, since there were no physical signs of battery, Vince was not arrested,' the source revealed. 'But these fights are happening more and more.'

DailyMail.com contacted authorities in Calabasas for a copy of a police report of the incident, but the local authorities refused to cooperate requests. Tamar Braxton's reps did not respond ro our request for comment.

Tamar published a lengthy rant on Instagram where she revealed she was hospitalized and denied talk that her marriage is in trouble.

Braxton, who later deleted the Instagram post which featured a hospital bracelet from Los Angeles' Cedars-Sinai Hospital, also said she unfollowed her friends, Toya Wright and Monica Brown.

Her Instagram post comes after sources close to Braxton claimed she has been suffering financial problems and living in a 'private hell' with her husband of eight years Vincent Herbert despite years of attempting to present their union as the perfect marriage.

In the post published on September 23, she dispelled rumors that making her Instagram private had anything to do with her marriage to Herbert, amid allegations of domestic abuse following an August altercation in the Ritz-Carlton Hotel in Atlanta.

'Sites reporting that my Instagram page being private has ANYTHING to do with my marriage can SUCK it,' Tamar captioned the snap, according to The Jasmine Brand, referring to the August 21 incident, when a huge blowup occurred in the hotel lobby and allegedly resulted in Vincent biting his wife's finger.

'Why don't you report on FACTUAL stories such as what is actually happening in North Carolina, the Debate on Monday, my new album coming out SOON and it's Its HOT like a perm on your head sitting too long!!?…I mean DAMN!! my a** was in the damn hospital? (if you must know) along with my let you tell it soon to be "estranged husband"??' she added.

Though Tamar didn't reveal her reasons for being at the hospital, she said she was 'tired of waiting and not feeling well'. She added that she was on pain medication.

She later made her Instagram public again on September 26.

She also touched on her relationship with Brown and Wright, who she unfollowed on the social media app earlier this month. They both appeared on Tamar's talk show The Real in the months after she left.

'Like why does it have to be "Houston she has ANOTHER problem"… she's throwing shade cause WHILE I don't feel well I don't want to see certain s*** on my page?' said in the post. 'But that means I'm petty cause according to you ALL… unfollowing folks means DRAMA!'

'Some people post too d**n much!! And I will and do unfollow they a** cause I don't feel like seeing your 147,997,886 zillion posts,' she added, apparently denying a feud between the women. 'Or I'm petty???… Chile? #gtfoh #takeoff or… oh… She's having one hell of a year. But if I tell you what is none of anyone's business.'

She also explained why unfollowed her friends, Toya Wright (left with Tamar) and Monica Brown (right with Tamar), on the social media app

She later added: 'So I make my page private cause i simply feel like it AND cause y'all think y'all know EVERYTHING!?hell Jesus even needed a break from his friends ( for you unsaved ones.. the disciples) by going to the rock to pray to be BY HIM SELF WITH GOD!!' 

Tamar appears to be recovering in the days since her Instagram rant, posting a number of snaps outside the hospital.

Just two days after she made her comments, Tamar hinted she was working on new music by posting a video of herself in a recording studio.

Despite authorities being called to the Ritz-Carlton Hotel in Atlanta where they were staying on August 21, where Vincent allegedly bit his wife's finger, the pair have put on a brave face and presented themselves as a happy couple to the media.

But sources close to Braxton tell DailyMail.com that Tamar and Vincent are combustible, always arguing and sometimes getting into physical altercations like the one that occurred in Atlanta back in August.

Tamar Braxton and her husband, Vincent Herbert, have had multiple violent altercations, sources say

Authorities were called to the Ritz-Carlton Hotel in Atlanta where they were staying on August 21 after a huge blowup in the hotel lobby, where Vince reportedly bit Tamar's finger

'What's going on with Tamar and Vince is business as usual for the couple and the public is learning what their family and friends have always known,' the source said. 

The star of WE TV's Braxton Family Values with her sisters was an original co-host of the daytime talk show The Real. 

DailyMail.com previously reported that the singer was fired from the show after bad behavior behind the scenes - poor focus group research and her costing the show advertisers made Warner Bros ditch her.

While working on The Real, the 39-year-old singer hired Hayley Lockwood-Shore from the show's staff and made her the couple's personal assistant.

In a Facebook post, Hayley commented on the domestic incident with the couple.

'It just won't stop. Thank god I got out. I seriously felt unsafe,' she wrote on her social media page.

DailyMail.com previously reported that Tamar (left) was fired from The Real after bad behavior behind the scenes

Toya Wright (center) also appeared on the talk show's third season in recent weeks

Sources say hings have been tense with Tamar and Vince because her termination from The Real has further exasperated the couple's mounting financial woes.

It's already been reported that Vince has an outstanding tax debt of nearly $5million, in addition to their recent lawsuit from Crystal Clear Audio & Video, that is suing the couple for failing to pay for the custom wiring installed at their home.

'That's only the tip of the iceberg. Their house has been in foreclosure several times as well. They're living high on the hog, but just not paying for the pig,' the source explained.

The couple did find enough more to pay for Vincent to undergo weight loss surgery two months ago.

'He had gastric bypass surgery to lose weight. His size has caused him to have numerous health challenges,' the source said.

Additional tension in the relationship has been caused by Tamar's desire to seek new management.

Even before she was let go from The Real, Vince learned that Tamar had been taking meetings with various talent managers like Steve Harvey's former manager Rushion McDonald about new representation.

Sources close to the Tamar and Vince (pictured in 2014) tell DailyMail.com exclusively that they are combustible, always arguing and sometimes getting into physical altercations

They caused Vince to go 'ballistic' and she pumped the breaks for a while.

'In her heart of hearts, Tamar believes it was actually Vince who caused her to lose her job at The Real,' the source said. 'He ran interference and botched the negotiations moving into season three and ultimately, they dropped her because of that.

'So now, she's been talking about getting a separate manager again and that pisses him off.'

DailyMail.com previously reported that Vince knew for two weeks that Warner Bros had fired his wife, but waited to tell her.

Tamar has apparently hired Steve Harvey's manager Gerald Washington as her co-manager. It was Washington who convinced Harvey to sign Tamar to a production deal.

While she, her sisters and mother were being honored by Dr Barbara King at Hillside International Truth Center, Inc, Church in Atlanta, Tamar announced that she will launch her own daytime talk show, The Tamar Braxton Show in September 2017.

No details on a network affiliation or syndication company was disclosed.