'You are a despicable bottom feeding wretched disgrace of a person': Bride to be is shocked to receive insulting email from wedding desserts company after she failed to answer their calls

  • Bride-to-be, Amanda De Pascale, received a shocking email recently
  • She had been looking to hire a dessert company for her wedding reception
  • However, she decided not to proceed as the quote was too pricey for her
  • Ms De Pascale said she was then hounded by telephone and later on email
  • The email she received from the company called her all sorts of names
  • Ms De Pascale, from Long Island, said it left her 'shaken and shell-shocked'
  • She has since received an apology directly from the New York company  

We constantly hear tales of Bridezillas. 

But what about when the caterers turn on an innocent bride?

That's what happened with bride-to-be, Amanda De Pascale, 26, from Long Island, who was left with a horrible taste in her mouth after receiving a shocking email from the New York-based events dessert company, Sweetery.

Confused: Bride-to-be, Amanda De Pascale, pictured with her fiance Joe Rea, received a shocking email from an events dessert company in New York called Sweetery

Shocking: Ms De Pascale had originally sent an email to Sweetery's trucks (pictured) from an email account specially set up to manage bridal admin - she did not check it religiously

Speaking to Fox News, Ms De Pascale, who is marrying Joe Rea, 36, said: 'My fiance and I wanted something a little different for our wedding and we thought it would be so fun to have a food truck for our guests to get little sweets'.

Sweetery describes itself as one of 'NYC's top experiential marketing companies' on their website - and after being inspired at a bridal expo, Ms De Pascale thought the truck would be perfect for their reception.

Ms Pascale then sent an email to the business from an account created solely for wedding planning, and was responded to with a quote.

Sadly, Sweetery said they would charge $2,900 for their service - something the bride said was beyond her price range.

Amanda said: 'My fiance and I wanted something a little different for our wedding and we thought it would be so fun to have a food truck for our guests to get little sweets'

Too much: After sending the email, Sweetery responded with a quote - USD $2,900 - and the bride decided not to pursue the offer

Deciding not to pursue the offer, Ms De Pascale didn't respond from the specially-created wedding email account.

 They kept calling me, multiple times an hour, then would stop for a few hours, then call back again

However, it appears Sweetery wouldn't take no - or indeed no response - for an answer.

'They kept calling me, multiple times an hour, then would stop for a few hours, then call back again,' Ms De Pascale said.

'I told them: 'I can't talk right now', 'I'm at work', and hung up. But he continued to call and call for about two weeks.'

Not normal: 'They kept calling me, multiple times an hour, then would stop for a few hours, then call back again,' Ms De Pascale said of Sweetery, after she didn't respond to their email

 Amanda - We have zero idea what type of warped sick games you are playing with us, but now it is time for us to have a say. What an absolute low life twisted miserable individual you have to be

Then, on November 8, Ms De Pascale received an email from Sweetery, which read: 'Amanda - We have zero idea what type of warped sick games you are playing with us, but now it is time for us to have a say.

'You are a despicable bottom feeding wretched disgrace of a person, who is as disgusting as they come.

'How many times have we called you to follow up on the proposal that we expanded time and effort to produce based on your request and each and every time you cowardly hang up the phone on us when we identify who is calling, what an absolute low life twisted miserable individual you have to be [sic].' 

THE EMAIL AMANDA DE PASCALE RECEIVED IN FULL 

Amanda -

We have zero idea what type of warped sick games you are playing with us, but now it is time for us to have a say.

You are a despicable bottom feeding wretched disgrace of a person, who is as disgusting as they come.

How many times have we called you to follow up on the proposal that we expanded time and effort to produce based on your request and each and every time you cowardly hang up the phone on us when we identify who is calling, what an absolute low life twisted miserable individual you have to be [sic].

We also send you multiple emails that you don't have the decency to respond to, who do you think you are, because we are here to tell you that you are a weak, meager [sic] spineless empty sack low life piece of trash.

We work very hard to do right by client [sic] both existing and perspective and although rarely do we come across a pile of dog sh*t like you, it is cowards like you that are not worth the gas that we pass. If you were not interested in our services that [sic] open your mousy measly trap and say so, but no not you, you would prefer to hang up on us countless time [sic] pretending that you cannot hear us to which we would normally say get a new phone but it is clear that you should get a life.

You are despicable and that is probably on your best day, on your worst day you are a complete waste of humanity, I know dogs when they lift their legs that have better manners than you do.

What kind of trash would ask a company to do work for them and then not have the decency and respect, or the respect for their own self, not to at the very least say thank you, or no thank you... That kind of a person is a sad, sorry douchebag [sic] in anyone's vocabulary.

We truly hope that your wedding bombs and turns out to be a complete and total disaster of the century why would it be anything but since you are a part of it. We could not even imagine the person that would marry you, pity the poor lonely soul whose life is doomed before it starts with you, we hope that he or she runs and saves them self from the mud hole that you are.

If for some reason you need further clarification on our thoughts let us know we are certain we can clarify those thoughts for you.

Source: Facebook 

The email continued along these lines, ending with the sentiments: 'We truly hope that your wedding bombs and turns out to be a complete and total disaster of the century'.

Ms De Pascale said that the email left her 'shaken and shell-shocked'.

After one of Ms De Pascale's friends posted screenshots of the email on Facebook, the Sweetery owner and supposed sender of the email, Grant DiMille, posted a public apology, also telling Fox News: 'Yes, it came from a company computer, but it was not sent by myself or any member of management.

'It's a terrible offense, yes, but everyone makes mistakes.'

Nasty: Ms De Pascale later received a shocking email (pictured left and right) from Sweetery, in which she was called all sorts of things - she said it left her 'shaken and shell-shocked'

Not normal: The owner of Sweetery, Mr DiMille, said he was not responsible for the email, and added that after much deliberation, he had decided to fire the employee who was

And after deliberating for a period, Mr DiMille said he had decided to fire the employee behind the email.

'I had a conversation with our associate who wrote to the client and told him that we had no choice but to let him go based on the pain that has been caused to Amanda.'

On Tuesday night, Mr DiMille sent an apology directly to the distraught bride-to-be.

'It does deeply matter to us that you were offended by what was written to you. 

'I know it will be difficult for you to believe this but our company's culture is not like what your experience has been, yet the experience that you encountered did happen.'

Ms De Pascale said she hoped such an experience never happened to a bride again.

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