Oklahoma man is forced to pay child support for baby his cheating wife conceived with her lover 

  • Thomas did not think his wife was cheating on him when she became pregnant
  • He asked for a DNA test when the child turned three which proved he wasn't the father
  • Oklahoma law says someone must ask for a paternity test within two years or be forced to pay child support 

By Kaileen Gaul For Dailymail.com

Published: 09:21 EST, 13 January 2017 | Updated: 10:28 EST, 13 January 2017

An Oklahoma man is being forced to pay child support for another man's child because he ordered a paternity test too late.

Thomas, who did not give his last name, asked for a paternity test for his three year old son when his marriage fell apart. 

He and his ex wife married after she got pregnant in high school. Thomas said at the time he had no reason to assume the baby was not his. 

On the hook: Thomas, pictured, is being forced to pay child support for his ex-wife's baby with her lover because he failed to order a paternity test within two years of the birth

Realization: Thomas took a paternity test twice proving he was absolutely not the father when the child was three

When the couple's marriage fell apart around the time the baby turned three, something led Thomas to ask for a paternity test.

He took the test twice and both showed he was absolutely not the father. But it did not matter because in Oklahoma a man has to question paternity within two years. Legally, the non-biological child he was raising was his. 

Thomas said: 'I wish I was telling a lie. I wish it wasn’t the truth but it is.'

'That’s what makes it so crazy. Everyone I talk to about this can’t believe where the court system is coming from.'

News On 6 reports a judge initially ruled in favor of Thomas. But after revisiting the law, the judge ordered the duped dad to pay $500 per month in child support plus $15,000 in back support plus interest.

Thomas was in shock that the child he raised for three years was not his biological child

While Thomas is working to change the law, he accepts his fate.

However, he thinks DNA should be a determining factor for whether or not a man must pay child support rather than the child's age.  

He told the station: 'At this point, there's really nothing I can do to get out of the $15,000 or get out of the child support, it's done, it's the law.' 

According to the Oklahoma law, the child's mother and biological father could decide to let Thomas off the hook. But without their approval Thomas will be liable for child support for the next 15 years.

The paternity law in question

Oklahoma law states Thomas would have had to take legal action before the child turned two years old

The part of the law that Thomas wishes to change essentially states a father who has cared for a child for two years has financial responsibility if he did not question the paternity.

It comes down to the phrase 'presumption of paternity.' 

The summary of the law reads: 

'In conclusion, there is a presumption of paternity for a child born of a marriage. A biological father of a child born outside of marriage must take affirmative action to establish a legal presumption of paternity.' 

'Once established, the presumption is rebuttable until the child’s second birthday. After that time, the presumption is not rebuttable unless the presumed father, mother and biological father all agree to adjudicate the paternity of the child. If there is a doubt, the father should take legal action before the child’s second birthday and request genetic testing to prove the biological connection, otherwise it will be difficult if not impossible to overcome the presumption of paternity.' 

 

 

 


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