'I'm sorry, Topper': Tinsley Mortimer apologizes to ex on RHONY reunion show as Bethenny Frankel cracks jokes

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Tinsley Mortimer admitted her ex-husband was furious at her for discussing intimate details of their sex life on The Real Housewives Of New York City.

The 42-year-old former It Girl during the third and final part of the RHONY reunion Wednesday revealed she apologized to ex Robert Livingston 'Topper' Mortimer.

Tinsley during season nine of the Bravo reality show informed viewers that she had anal sex with 'my husband who was huge.'

Intimate details: Tinsley Mortimer during Wednesday's final RHONY reunion show revealed that she apologized to her ex-husband for sharing intimate details about their sex life

'That's why I cried,' she told the women during one boozy night.

Tinsley seemed genuinely mortified during the reunion, insisting: 'I just apologize to my ex, former husband. That was just something that was private that should never…'

When host Andy Cohen, 49, asked if she heard from Topper, 41, about it and she made it clear he was upset when she said: 'Yes. And then some, yes.'

Bethenny Frankel, 46, tried to downplay it, reminding everyone that they were playing Truth Or Dare and joking: 'You enter at your own risk — no pun intended. That's what you told your ex-husband!'

Quip machine: Bethenny Frankel kept the quips coming as Tinsley confessed her regret

Together again: Andy Cohen hosted the reunion show that was broadcast in three parts

She was also quick to tease Tinsley when she said she thought she was admitting 'this cute little story,' with Bethenny quipping: 'That adorable anal sex — you're so cute!'

But Tinsley seems sincerely regretful, saying 'I'm sorry, Topper' and adding: 'Just shut me up. I talk too much.'

She also admitted that her ex had every right to be angry, saying: 'I'm no longer married to him. I didn't need to bring him into the mix of this.'

Cute story: Bethenny teased Tinsley for sharing her 'cute story'

Too much: Tinsley admitted that she shared too much information and apologized to her ex

Sonja Morgan, 53, also defended herself from rumors that she shared a similar intimate experience with someone she picked up who everyone joked looked like a pirate, complaining: 'I didn't say I had butt sex! Carole said that.'

'Yes, you told me that you had had sex in the back with the pirate,' Carole Radziwill smiled in response.

'Really, I'm not a prude and I don't care,' Sonja insisted, with Bethenny again joking: 'We cannot cry over spilled anal sex stories.'

Sex talk: Sonja Morgan was dragged into more sex talk

Pirate incident: Carole Radziwill told her version of Sonja and the pirate

She was also asked about her claim that she was allergic to ex Harry Dubin's sperm, insisting she would 'have this burning sensation' and blaming it on the condoms.

'Maybe it's because he's banged every single woman in New York City,' Bethenny shot back.

But Sonja was more forthcoming in discussing her interest in the other women on the show, especially during their drunken night in Mexico where she and Bethenny had stripped naked and she tried to kiss the Skinny Girl mogul after calling her 'so f***ing hot' and 'sexy.'

Real friendly: Sonja talked about her interest in the other women during the Mexico trip

The host: Andy kept the reunion show moving

'I always start with Luann, but now that she's married I knew that I had to get new victims,' Sonja smiled in the interview taped before Luann de Lesseps's split from husband Tom D'Agostino.

After admitting that she briefly tried it on with Carole — saying 'I did try, I sideswiped you' — she said: 'I was really counting on trying to get to Bethenny.'

After joking that it was 'like putting your head in a lion's mouth,' she smiled: 'But after a couple more tequilas I was like, 'I'm going there.' I love this b****.'

Mexico trip: The ladies rehashed the fun trip to Mexico

Andy seemed obsessed with her interest in women, getting her to talk about previously kissing 'Radzi'.

'I think she gave me a hickey,' Carole recalled. 'She was like sucking on me.'

As the other women joked about her having a thing for brunette women, Sonja smiled: 'I have my type I guess.'

Trip organizer: Bethenny organized the trip to Mexico that included plenty of tequila

But she seemed horrified when Andy asked if 'you and Ramona make out,' quickly stressing: 'No! That's disgusting, I would vomit!

'Because we're like sisters,' Ramona Singer, 60, quickly stressed.

The women all laughed at highlights of their drunken escapades on the trip to Puerto Vallarta, Mexico, with Dorinda Medley saying her fight with Bethenny came when 'I'd had like 20 glasses of tequila at that point!'

Getting emotional: The  reality star made fun of herself while watching a clip

As for when she cut her own hand, she recalled: 'I woke up the next morning and there's blood everywhere and I'm like, ''Oh my God am I getting my period again at this point?!''

Bethenny was proud at how none of them got sick on the trip despite their excessive drinking, bragging: 'We've been training for this sport our whole lives.'

And they all seemed to think the highlight came when Luann, 52, drunkenly fell in the bushes, with her admitting: 'I didn't even want to get up I was having such a great time.'

Fell down: Luann de Lesseps took a spill in Mexico that was fondly remembered

'I've never seen you happier,' Andy told her, adding: 'You were as happy as your wedding day!'

It was not the only poorly timed comment from the reunion for Luann, who once again gushed about her life with then-husband Tom who unbeknown to her she would soon be divorcing.

'As you can imagine the highlight of the season for me was getting married. Gotta say that because it's the truth,' she said.

Season highlight: The ladies stated their highlight from the past season and Luann named getting married to Tom D'Agostino 

As for the worst part, she said: 'Probably all the talk about Tom because I love him, so it was tough.

'But I got through it and I appreciate all of you being concerned about me and looking out for me and having my back.'

Bethenny meanwhile admitted that the highlight of her season was 'feeling personal freedom' after her trip to Vermont — the same time her ex-husband Jason Hoppy was arrested for allegedly stalking her.

Personal freedom: Bethenny said her highlight was the 'personal freedom' she gained

'You seemed much lighter the second half of the season,' Andy admitted, with Bethenny adding: 'Yes, so how I was after Vermont is I guess who I really am now.'

The women most avoided angry exchanges, although Bethenny made it clear she felt bad feelings towards Ramona following their season-long feud.

When Ramona ended the exchange by saying that she was 'really happy that we're in that place,' Andy cracked up the other women as he pointed out: 'She's not saying you're in that good of a place.'

Season feud: Ramona believed her feud with Bethenny was over but the feeling wasn't mutual

'She's talking to me — that's good!' Ramona insisted, adding as Bethenny smiled: 'She's not icing me out. To me that's good.'

Tinsley and Sonja also went over their falling out while Tinsley stayed at what Andy called 'Sonja Morgan's home for wayward It-Girls.'

But even while she was still convinced her friend went to the press calling her a bad houseguest, Tinsley struggled to hold bad blood, saying: 'It was the worst time of my life, honestly the worst, and you let me into your home, and I will be forever grateful.'

Bad houseguest: Tinsley was still convinced that Sonja called her a bad houseguest to the press

On her part, Sonja agreed that she acted like an 'overbearing mama' and was 'very hard' on her friend, and admitted she gave 'too much tough love to my friend Tinsley.'

'It really did come from my heart but I should have just backed off and let you live your life,' Sonja said.

They ended on a high note, with Bethenny insisting: 'There was a lot of drama but we all laughed so hard. This is the funniest season I've ever seen in 10 years on television.'

Tough love: Sonja admitted that she may have been too hard on her friend Tinsley

After referring so much to their tequila sessions in Mexico, Andy ended the reunion by getting the girls to all take a shot together.

'I have as much hair on my chest as Sonja did on her bush,' Bethenny quipped.

Andy smiled while declaring: 'So we end the season on that note.'

Tequila time: The reunion ended with the ladies taking shots of tequila together

Good one: Bethenny finished the season with another nicely timed quip