- Paperback: 320 pages
- Publisher: Gallery Books; Original edition (September 1, 1999)
- Language: English
- ISBN-10: 0671041576
- ISBN-13: 978-0671041571
- Product Dimensions: 7.8 x 0.6 x 9 inches
- Shipping Weight: 1.8 pounds
- Average Customer Review: 94 customer reviews
- Amazon Best Sellers Rank: #514,277 in Books (See Top 100 in Books)
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Deal with It! A Whole New Approach to Your Body, Brain, and Life as a gURL Paperback – September 1, 1999
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The birds and bees have never been so hip, thanks to Esther Drill, Heather McDonald, and Rebecca Odes, creators of gURL.com and authors of Deal with It! A Whole New Approach to Your Body, Brain and Life as a gURL. As their Web site blossomed in popularity, the gURLs noticed that today's teens have the same questions about sex, love, and growing up that they had as teens. "Hearing what they had to say convinced us that there was a need for a new kind of book about being a girl, one that's smart, funny, approachable, and tuned in to the things girls really want to know." With chapters such as "Boobs," "What's Up Down There," "To Do It or Not to Do It," and "Those Sucky Emotions," the gURLs have got everything covered--with the frankness, humor, and style frustratingly absent from the majority of similarly themed books. All topics are fair game: zit remedies; a dazzling array of hair removal techniques; masturbation methods; sexual positions and orientations; what to do if you are raped; how to deal with anger, depression, and anxiety; the physical effects of different drugs; how to get along with friends and family; and more. In addition to a cooler-than-cool, color-drenched layout and loads of detailed info, Deal with It includes a ton of questions, comments, and personal advice from teenage girls who frequent gURL.com. Reading page after page of these earnest, confused, and curious young voices drives home the need for a book like Deal with It and makes clear that the women of gURL.com have met that challenge with resounding success. (Ages 12 and older) --Brangien Davis
From Publishers Weekly
Following a recent trend, Web gurus Drill, McDonald and Odes have translated their highly popular Web site, gURL.com, into print, taking a holistic approach to those perennial teen concerns: changing bodies, emotions, desires and lives. In a frank, nonjudgmental tone, they discuss topics and details that more conservative guides might skip: lesbianism and bisexuality receive respectful and thorough treatment that is remarkably well-integrated into the broader discussion of sex in this happily nonphallocentric book; the section on illegal drugs is evenhanded; and the discussion of treatments of eating disorders, other mental illnesses and suicide are honest and informative. Each section ends with a comprehensive list of topical resources: Web sites, hot lines, books and organizations. In addition to the authors' valuable commentary, a good deal of the text is made up of outtakes from girls' online dialogues culled from the site, revealing a thoughtful and supportive cybercommunity able to respond unflinchingly to the many issues covered. Young readers, liberal parents and educators will welcome the authors' openness and lack of boosterism . Full-color illustrations throughout. Agent, Julie Merberg, Roundtable Press, Inc.; 5-city author tour. (Sept.)
Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.
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I only wish there had been a male version for my son. Thankfully there is a section on males and we've explained the book to him now that he's entering puberty. It's a book that sits on the shelf and can be utilized and looked without question.
Above all else, this book taught me what my friends, family, and school failed to. It taught me about the importance of consent, that all the things I was experiencing were normal, how to handle depression when it came on for the first time, what to do in some of the worst case scenarios we find ourselves in as women.
Please note: this is not the kind of book that will tell your child to abstain from sex or utilize religion or shame to teach. This is a 100% honest book for teenagers that discusses the worst and best, gives sexual tips, the acceptance of all body types, self care, std's, illness, masturbation, and overall how to be healthy and responsible about sex.
I understand some women may think its inappropriate and uneasy to tell their princess about masturbation and oral sex. Or you may think she doesn't know or need to know until the right time. Its never the right time! And honestly if only my sisters mother knew just how much my little sister knows! Well, would you rather her learn from you? Or her friends/peers that knows about as much as she does? And news flash kids talk about sex! Kids have sex! Nobody likes to think it could be their child, and nobody wants to think of their child as sexually active BUT they know more than we think they do. So why not give them the tools to make a proper decision vs them winging it on their own. Some people's concern is it encourages them to have sex. That is ridiculous! These could be the same ones crying when they find out not only is their daughter sexually active, but she's pregnant. Give your child the tools they need to make it out here because if you don't, someone else will!