Vanderpump Rules star Stassi Schroeder reveals she's reconciled with mother after eight-month estrangement over THAT cruel relationship advice

Vanderpump Rules star Stassi Schroeder has revealed she has reconciled with her mother following an eight-month estrangement. 

The 30-year-old stopped speaking to her mother Dayna Schroeder following cruel comments she made about her new romance with Beau Clark. 

In a sad scene that aired on Vanderpump Rules earlier this season, Dayna was shown telling Stassi. 'I don't want you to be yourself and mess it up.' 

Stassi revealed during the Vanderpump Rules reunion on Monday that the pair fell out for almost a year following the unsolicited advice, but have since reconciled.  

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The air is clean: Stassi Shroeder revealed on Monday that she had reconciled with her mom Dayna, after she told her to 'not be herself' when dating boyfriend Beau Clark, or she'd 'mess it up'

The air is clean: Stassi Shroeder revealed on Monday that she had reconciled with her mom Dayna, after she told her to 'not be herself' when dating boyfriend Beau Clark, or she'd 'mess it up'

Speaking with Andy Cohen, she said they reconnected at her younger sister's bridal shower that they chatted and her mom apologized for her comments.   

'It really sticks with you where I'm thinking that I have something totally wrong with me, like why is my mom saying don't be yourself?' Stassi told Andy. 'That's the worst advice.'

'We didn't speak for like eight months,' she added 'And it was only until this past weekend that I went to my sister's bridal shower.'

Bad advice: Her mom, Dayna Schroeder, told her to 'not be herself' when she started dating current boyfriend Beau Clark, otherwise she'd 'mess it up'

Bad advice: Her mom, Dayna Schroeder, told her to 'not be herself' when she started dating current boyfriend Beau Clark, otherwise she'd 'mess it up' 


Reconciled: 'We didn't speak for eight months,' she said, adding: 'It was only until this past weekend that I went to my sister's bridal shower' (pictured: Stassi on the far left, mom Dayna on the far right)

Reconciled: 'We didn't speak for eight months,' she said, adding: 'It was only until this past weekend that I went to my sister's bridal shower' (pictured: Stassi on the far left, mom Dayna on the far right) 

The bridal shower took place at the end of March with the show's taping taking place earlier in the month.  

'We finally talked, and she apologized for everything and took responsibility and ownership for everything, and we both cried, and it was awesome, and I'm really happy about it because I've really missed my mom. So that was really, really nice.' 

Dayna had also said on-camera at the time that she hoped her daughter would become 'half the woman' Kristen Doute was - although Kristen had previously slept with Stassi's now ex-boyfriend, Jax Taylor.  

Reunion! Stassi appeared on the reunion show with her boyfriend Beau and host Andy Cohen

Reunion! Stassi appeared on the reunion show with her boyfriend Beau and host Andy Cohen 

During the reunion, Stassi also revealed that she had stopped taking Adderall, something both herself and Beau had wanted from her. 

After the episode in Mexico that saw her alter ergo 'dark passenger' come out, she wanted to rethink her partying ways.  

'I think it's old stuff and her insecurities combined together with alcohol and it all comes out, and she just needs to trust in herself and trust in us,' said Beau when asked by Andy what he thought were the triggers to the fight.  

They've come a long way: Dayna had also said on-camera at the time that she hoped her daughter would become 'half the woman' Kristen Doute was - although Kristen had previously slept with Stassi's now ex-boyfriend, Jax Taylor (pictured 2016)

They've come a long way: Dayna had also said on-camera at the time that she hoped her daughter would become 'half the woman' Kristen Doute was - although Kristen had previously slept with Stassi's now ex-boyfriend, Jax Taylor (pictured 2016) 

No longer pill popping: During the reunion, Stassi also revealed that she had stopped taking Adderall, something both herself and Beau had wanted from her

No longer pill popping: During the reunion, Stassi also revealed that she had stopped taking Adderall, something both herself and Beau had wanted from her

'But I don't think it's some deep thing that it's her persona. It's not Stassi.'  

Stassi agreed, continuing: 'I want to figure out what it is that's making me like this.' 

'And I hurt my friends, I hurt him, I hurt myself, and that was a moment where I was like — and I didn't want to like full-on come out and say this, but I'm not gonna take Adderall again. Like, I'm not gonna do that.'

When asked if she was just taking less or had completely stopped, she confessed to the latter. 

Stassi and Beau both agreed that her behavior has changed since she stopped taking the prescription medication.   

It's over: I hurt my friends, I hurt him, I hurt myself, and that was a moment where I was like — and I didn't want to like full-on come out and say this, but I'm not gonna take Adderall again. Like, I'm not gonna do that'

It's over: I hurt my friends, I hurt him, I hurt myself, and that was a moment where I was like — and I didn't want to like full-on come out and say this, but I'm not gonna take Adderall again. Like, I'm not gonna do that' 

He's a lucky man! When asked what she thought of Beau, Lisa Vanderpump, 61, had great things to say, while adding he was very lucky to be with Stassi. 'I love Beau,' Lisa noted. 'But I think that Beau is very lucky to have Stassi… she is bright, and beautiful'

He's a lucky man! When asked what she thought of Beau, Lisa Vanderpump, 61, had great things to say, while adding he was very lucky to be with Stassi. 'I love Beau,' Lisa noted. 'But I think that Beau is very lucky to have Stassi… she is bright, and beautiful' 

According to WebMD: Adderall is a medication designed to help with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD). 

However, in recent times, Adderall has been misused by many and used as a recreational stimulant. If taken in high doses, it can become very addictive. 

When asked what she thought of Beau, Lisa Vanderpump, 61, had great things to say, while adding he was very lucky to be with Stassi.   

'I love Beau,' Lisa noted. 'But I think that Beau is very lucky to have Stassi… she is bright, and beautiful.' 

'So often, her insecurities are like, 'I'm going to screw this up,' but,'—she said, looking at Stassi—'I want you to get that out of your head.'

Reunion! (L-R): Lisa Vanderpump, Tom Sandoval, Ariana Madix, Stassi Schroeder, Raquel Leviss, James Kennedy and Sheana Shay

Reunion! (L-R): Lisa Vanderpump, Tom Sandoval, Ariana Madix, Stassi Schroeder, Raquel Leviss, James Kennedy and Sheana Shay 

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