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Hostess Etiquette

Here is a guideline on the do's and don'ts of hosting a party. Simply keep your guest's comfort in mind.

Do's:

bulletSend invitations in a timely manner. Always give enough time for guests to RSVP.
bulletInclude directions in the invitations
bulletGreet all guests at the door as they arrive.
bulletProvide name tags if you have a large attendance
bulletIntroduce guests to one another at the beginning of the party. If you have a seating arrangement, sit people together who know each other or have something in common.
bulletProvide tables for your guests to sit and eat if a meal is planned. Please don't expect them to eat with their plate in their lap.
bulletBring the gifts to the mom-to-be as she opens gifts. She shouldn't have to carry anything - especially anything heavy.
bulletWrite down which guest gave a certain gift. This will help the mom-to-be when it comes time to send thank you cards.
bulletBe sure to have enough party favors on hand. A little extra is good just in case!
bulletGet the party started on time and keep events moving at a good pace. You would be surprised just how long it can take to eat, open presents, play games, talk and eat cake.
bulletWalk guests to the door as they leave.
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Don'ts:

bullet"Attend" the party - meaning: you should run the party, not sit back and relax.
bulletEat before your guests do. Serve the mom-to-be first, then guests, then yourself.
bulletLeave first. Just plain rude.
bulletExclude inviting guests that the mom-to-be wishes would be there.
bulletForget to thank guests for coming as they leave.

Who Hosts the Party?
Traditionally, the host of a baby shower would be a close friend of the mom-to-be. Now, just about anyone can host the party. Mothers, co-workers, friends, sisters, cousins and so on.

When should we have the party?
Baby showers are normally given anywhere between the seventh and ninth month. You don't want to have the party too close to the due date just in case she delivers earlier than expected. But, at the same time, its fun when she has a large belly at the party, so don't host it too early. Check with the mom to see what works for her.

Where should it be held?
Most baby showers are held in someone's home. But, restaurants, churches, and parks can all be nice places to hold the party. It depends on your budget and how comfortable you feel having the party in your home.

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Written by Audrey Cowan, party planner and proud mom of two children. Visit MommyParty.com, online baby showers and resources.
 
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