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QUESTION: Internet marriage agencies publish photo of models to receive
money for the false addresses from lonely Western men. How do I know that
your women are real?
ANSWER: Since the day we started our service we received many letters
with questions and concerns about how men can be sure that our ladies
really exist, that they write letters back themselves, not our managers
and etc. So we decided to set up a LIVE web camera in our office so that
you could see ladies come and go, take their letters and writing you the
answers. We hope that this will be a powerful instrument to increase your
trust in our service. All the girls on this site are actively trying to
find a foreign partner for marriage or a long-term relationship. We ask
all of our ladies, on a regular basis, if they wish to be removed from
our database so we only list the girls who are actively looking for a
partner.
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QUESTION: There are a lot of free dating services, why should I pay
you for e-mail exchanging with the person I never met. Corresponding with
a Russian woman is just a scam to make me send her money.
ANSWER: Your risk to be scammed by a woman advertising herself at a free
site is huge. We are a legitimate and professional agency and always screen
the ladies. If there are strong proofs that a lady is dishonest, we remove
her immediately. Anyway you won't get a wife for nothing. If you prefer
to correspond with ladies in order to establish an effective contact before
visiting them, you must also be ready for some expenses. Probably, you
would like to send a gift to your lady, or a book about your city/country.
But do not send money to a lady herself.
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QUESTION: How can I get lady's address and phone number:
ANSWER: If you are a member then you can retrieve lady's contact information
FREE OF CHARGE if you click on "retrieve address" button on
the lady's profile page. You will be directed to another page where you
may enter your e-mail address and password. If you data are correct you
will receive lady's address and phone number shortly. Members allowed
to get up to 5 addresses per month. Any additional address must be paid
according to our price. You can find it our on "SERVICE" page.
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QUESTION: How can I send a letter to lady?
ANSWER: To send a lady a letter, simply go to her profile page and click
on the button that says, "Send me a letter". You will now be
prompted to enter you email address and password. If you have never used
our service, register as a new member and follow the instructions. Once
you have logged in, you can type your letter into the letter box and attached
pictures. When we receive your letter we will forward it to the lady,
translate it, if translation is necessary.
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QUESTION: I'm wondering if you could keep me updated when new ladies
join to your agency?
ANSWER: We regularly improve and add more information to the site. We
get new ladies joining us all the time. When we have a sufficient numbers,
we update our database.
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QUESTION: Why do the ladies on your site want to find
a foreign guy?
ANSWER: There are some reasons. For instance, the hard drinking of Russian
men is not a myth. Also you may know that recently we've had a census
in Russia. The results are really interesting for us. Perhaps, you're
going to get another fact explaining the desire of Russian women to marry
foreign men.
According to preliminary data we have 1000 men per 1147 women. In comparison
to the previous census the number of ladies is growing while the number
of men is falling.
The turning age point when the number of women starts to exceed the number
of men is 32! Thus, young women simply lack men. The reasons are wars,
drugs, illnesses…
Actually, Russian women are just forced to broaden their bounds in search
for the husband! And there is nothing amazing in that.
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QUESTION: How many ladies should I write to, to ensure I get a response?
ANSWER: You should start with about ten ladies you like, write to them
by postal mail if your in no hurry for a reply, or via our mail forwarding
service, if you would like to get a reply more quickly, or can't be bothered
to address and post ten letters in one go. Remember to include a good
photo of yourself. Then sit back and see how it goes, and the number of
replies you get. If you don't get many replies, revise your letter or
expectations accordingly and try again.
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QUESTION: I am 53, does this matter?
ANSWER: No, it is not a problem, if only you are not looking for a young
wife. In Russia the marriages with great disparity in years are not accustomed.
So if you don't want to find a girl who will use you as a transport for
crossing the border, then look for a woman close to you in age!
Start your search beginning at least from 40 years old women! These women
look well and have an idea of family life and wisdom. They are unpretentious
and can do a lot about the house. Finally they are closer to you inside,
than 20 years old ones and your family life will not be clouded by misunderstanding.
So, age is not a handicap, if you are wise enough in the choice of your
life soulmate!
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QUESTION: Marrying a Russian woman is a difficult
and costly exercise, and one barely will succeed.
ANSWER: Really, it is so: it costs a lot to marry a Russian woman. And
probably, you can't imagine how much it is. First you pay money for the
correspondence and presents, then you make a few trips to get to know
her better. Every day you call her from over the ocean to wish her 'good
night'… Then you undertake obligations in front of your country that
you will supply her with all necessary things, marry her, spend money
for her adaptation in the country, learning the language. Probably, you
even move to another town so that she could find a job or good courses,
give education to her child…
This enumeration can be endless. But let's stop! Just think what you
are choosing: it is not a college, not a house, not a work of art, not
a piece of jewelry… You are choosing more - a life partner! A person!
A person to spend the rest of your life with. A person who will be with
you in grieve and joy, in sickness and in good health. A person who will
make your life cozy.
But why is it worth to seek exactly a Russian woman? Not only because
Russian women are very beautiful, like all Slav women. Not only because
they are well-educated. Not only because they possess strong character.
Russian women are first of all family-oriented! For them the word "feminism"
sounds like a swear-word. And they will never place career higher than
family values.
If you need such a woman, then welcome to Russia! :)
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QUESTION: I'm interested in a membershp and also want to order one
additional address. Can I pay by registered mail? What are your alternative
method of payment.
ANSWER: For customers who are unable to pay by credit card, we can make
alternative arrangements, including Western Union payments, money order
or check.
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QUESTION: I have been surfing your excellent web site and figure the
ladies have an orientation to European and American men, as a single Australian
male will this put me at a disadvantage due to Australians location.
ANSWER: Most of these women don't have any great preference regarding
citizenship. I am sure many would like to be close to home in Europe.
Many are just looking for the right man in which case, location is just
not all that important. I have come across some ladies who expressed a
dislike for American men, just as I have met ladies who have a dislike
for German men, or any other race you care to mention. It's really down
to what sort of guy you are, and what the lady in question is looking
for. Living in one western country provides fairly much the same sort
of opportunities and life style as any other western country, be it America,
England, France, Germany or Australia. You will have no problems as an
Australian.
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QUESTION: I am getting ready to write to some of your ladies, Do they
have to pay to write back to me?
ANSWER: No, the ladies are not charged for replying to you.
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QUESTION: What is the point of me sending a letter if I do not know if
she understands English?
ANSWER: The ladies English (German, French etc.) ability is shown on her
profile page (5=Excellent, 0=Poor). If she doesn't speak English, and
you write to her in English she must either translate the letter using
a dictionary, or ask a friend to translate it, if she knows one who can.
This means it takes far longer to get a reply, and she may not even reply
at all. This is why we provide a translation facility with our email forwarding
service. This service is free and does not need additional payment.
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QUESTION: What about having the girl I choose come to visit me in Arizona
instead of me going there?
ANSWER: You can only ask her, you have nothing to loose. This is very
unlikely because you will have problems obtaining a visa and the lady
is unlikely to accept if she has never met you.
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QUESTION: I have visited your website and am very impressed by your
services. I am VERY interested in working with you. I have learned about
the problems of modern American relationships the hard way, having been
twice married to modern women who were too involved in their careers and
my bank accounts. However, I have not given up on the hope that I will
one day find a woman who will really love me and care for me forever.
ANSWER: One of the reasons why a lot of guys look elsewhere for love.
The thinking in the former USSR is still that of twenty or thirty years
ago, ie you marry your husband for life and look after him. Most Russian
are not really interested in working, but in raising a family.
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QUESTION: How do I know if you have letters translated for a lady?
ANSWER: Each lady is given an English ability, from 1 to 5. Only ladies
with ability 4-5 can reliably write and translate their own letters. The
abilities are defined as follows Level 0 - No knowledge. Level 1 - Some
forgotten knowledge from school or university. Level 2 - Understands written
text with help of dictionary. Level 3 - Understands written text with
some help of dictionary can write a little or speak on the phone a little.
Level 4 - Understands written text, can write and speak on the phone (almost
no communication barrier). Level 5 - Fluent language ability.
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QUESTION: I would like to arrange a live webcam conference chat with
your client. What it takes?
ANSWER: Send your e-mail with request to livechat@chanceforlove.com and
tell us what time is most suitable for you to be online. We will contact
the lady and arrange it for you. We allow two chat sessions per month.
Each chat session duration is 1 hour. You may order an additional session
if send your request to the address we gave above. We charge $1 per minute
for live webcam conference.
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