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Note the exchange of women between Groups 11 and Ill. Although group 1 has always received women, it is not automatically the highest. Groups 1 and 11 use reciprocal generational terms, and Group 11 women marry into Group 1 as equals.9 j ' Group 11 explains its repeated loss of women by a rajalike decree by its past leader that Group 1 could receive them. (Its persistent provider role is explained by citing, the rule against a daughter marrying back to the place of her mother, to be discussed later.) By such cultural devices, egalitarian alliances are sustained. These multiple ' marriage connections are called mekilit - like a knotted thread.' This possible two-way flow of women, which some informants characterize as a modern development, again illustrates the secondary nature of hypergamous principles in Bali. It should not be inferred from the diagram that egalitarian ties across groups are always smooth and harmonious. An offshoot of Group 1, for example, living several kilometers to the north claims descent from Arya Batin Jero, an important noble line in the northern district Buleleng. Although the Dutch refused to recognize them as such during the colonial period, members of this group today still claim the elevated title Gusti informally. This policy divides them from Group 1 itself, which settles for the lower title Gde to facifitate strong relations with Group 11, their banjar associates and very influential backdoor neighbors. We shall later return to such matters of titles and status. Here it is important to emphasize that every beraya relationship has a complex history, and informants can state clearly both their advantages and their drawbacks. This fact can be illustrated by the recollections of a man from Group 11 above who had taken his wife from Group III: If there had not already been beraya feelings between my house and my wife's, 1 would never have been able to go around there to court her. People generally feel ashamed, reticent (sengan) to set foot in this Pasek courtyard (elevated Sudra administrators] unless for an important practical need. When 1 first began courting, my wife's 'father' told my father that if my father's uncle had not once sheltered him in public office, 1 would have been chased from there in rough fashion! Now, if I'm traveling
around Bali and come to a place like Busung Biu without any money, 1 will
quickly be received as if 1 were a pedanda priest, when the village leader
learns who my wife is [an offshoot of her group traditionally provides
leaders in Busung Biu . That's what counts in Bali: tracing you back to
your group to see what you are. If you make a good outside marriage it
is called 'broadening the houseyard' (melingahin nata), so that you have
a lot of beraya. My marriage was broadening indeed!
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we must point out a very important distinction which the Balinese make between
two clearly separate groups of ancestors. The first of these groups consists
of the dead who are riot yet completely purified. This group is in turn subdivided
in pirata, those riot yet cremated, and pitara, those already cremated. The
former are still completely impure; the latter have been purified, but are still
considered as distinct, individual souls. The second group consists of the completely
purified ancestors who are considered as divine. Everything Bali Indonesia |