Escorts Etiquette

Preparing to Meet your Escorts

Escorts are women and they like to be treated like women.  The happier you make them, the happier they make you. I have found that escorts are some of the finest and most interesting women you'll ever meet and it's a real treat to get to know them. I recommend that you prepare for your escort's arrival the same way you would for a date. After all, escorts offer more than just sex. Often you can get good conversation and personal companionship as well. And you get these other services by being as nice to them as to any other woman you date. These escorts are, after all, women and they like all the things that any other woman would like. And it's a good way to keep in practice in getting ready for other dates.

Make sure you turn the porch light on so that escorts can find the house. You don't want her to waste a lot of time locating the place. Be sure to put your valuables away. Don't leave your wallet out on the table, because there's no point in putting a stranger in a situation that tests her honesty. But do have the fee and the tip out and laying on the table when escorts arrives.

If the escorts is more than half an hour late, call the agency to check on escorts status. They might say that she's on her way and tell you when she will get there, but sometimes they will have to page her again. Many times agencies promise that the escorts will arrive at a time that isn't realistic. Sometimes the escorts just doesn't call in and they have to get someone else.

 When the escorts arrives, treat her like a blind date. Tell escorts she looks nice. Smile, be friendly. Invite her in.  If you smoke you can let her know she can smoke. If you don't, then let her know she can't.

If this is your first time with escorts, she will probably go into a script. Escorts needs to know you're not a cop or a violent weirdo or someone who's going to be trouble.

Generally the escorts will start out asking something neutral like, "Have you used the service before?" Escorts trying to determine what you know and what she's going to have to tell you about. If you've used other services before then let her know that so she knows that you understand the rules.

If you don't know what to do and it's your first time, just say so. That way escorts can give you the information you need. If you're embarrassed or nervous, let her know it's your first time and that you feel a little awkward. This helps escorts to help you relax, talk a little more, and allow you to get comfortable. Everyone has a first time for calling an escorts service and part of the escort's job is to let you know how to do it.

Eventually she will ask you, "What do you want to do?" When she asks you this, you are expected to tell her what you want. This is usually an awkward moment if it's your first time. What you want to get across is whether you want to get laid, just want head, or both. And you can just say it if you want, and that's fine. These women aren't shy and you can be comfortable talking to them about your sexual interests. That is what they are there for and they aren't bashful.

This is the time to start getting relaxed with the escorts, time for a little small talk. She may ask what you do; you might ask how long she's been working in this field and what she likes. If you're having personal problems, you might want to talk to her about them. I find it's easier to talk to an escorts than a psychologist and the advice is just as good. Escorts are an anonymous person, who is a woman, and you can ask her anything about women that you would be afraid to ask other women you know. Most escorts love to answer these questions and they are glad to fill you in on the secrets that hardly any guys know about what women really want. In fact, although most men think they know women, they really don't. According to many escorts I've talked to, the average guy doesn't have a clue about what women want. If you ask a few questions you might find that you can learn a lot of things you didn't know.

Relax and enjoy it.  This isn't a woman you have to impress. Escorts's been with a lot of other men who are a lot better looking than you, and a lot worse looking than you. As far as comparing yourself to other clients, if you are clean, sober, and nice to her, and made her laugh, you're already in the top 10% of all clients and you're doing just fine.

During foreplay, touch her softly like you would do with any other lover. Be romantic. Even though she is a escorts, she is also a woman and her body responds like any woman's. If you know what you're doing, she is going to have a very good time too. Women enjoy sex and if the situations is right, they like to get their rocks off, just like you.

You want to be sensitive to what she wants. Some escorts don't like you to put your finger in them. Others just love it. If she says don't do something, don't do it. Most escorts don't do anal sex, so if that's what you want, you should say so when you call and get an escort that will do it. Also, kissing on the mouth is generally a no-no, so don't even try without asking first.

A condom is required. Don't ask if you can skip it because VD is real and the woman doesn't want to get it, or give it to you. However, many escorts don't buy the best condoms, so if you have a brand you like, buy your own and offer to use your condoms. It will save her from having to use one of hers. It will also avoid an awkward delay if escorts forgets to bring one and would otherwise have to leave and run to the store to get one. This actually happens more often than it should.

Lubrication is good. Escorts may be wet enough already, but often she won't be. There are several reasons that a woman may not get wet, even when she's hot. These include where she is in her monthly cycle, if she's just douched, etc. So after putting the condom on, grease it up good.

Being clean is a big turn on for escorts. Women like guys when they just got out of the shower. All women like candle light. Escorts are no exception.

Escorts are women too and have the same instincts as other women, often more.

Foreplay is mental as well as physical. Besides getting her ready physically, she also has to be ready mentally. And it's not just a matter of arousal. Must of foreplay involves developing trust. Women are more vulnerable during sex than men are. They are physically weaker than men, generally weigh less, and they are the one being penetrated. Women need to feel safe. So when you are touching women your touch should communicate to them that they are safe and that they can feel secure in enjoying themselves. In fact, generally the only limit to how much a woman can enjoy herself is how comfortable and safe she feels in how far she can let go. So a few candles, soft touches, and the right grin tell her she can drop her barriers and enjoy herself as much as she wants.

Even if the sex isn't all that great the first time, remember, it is, after all, your first time -- and like anything it will get better with practice. Your escorts has been with a lot of men worse than you. She has done angry drunks who can't come and don't want to pay. She has done weirdoes who've threatened to hurt her. So if you are clean and polite, she's happy and she will look forward to seeing you again. You don't have to impress her with your manhood. Take the opportunity to learn -- and the education is worth the price. And chances are, escorts will enjoy teaching you.

After it's over, it's time to clean up and say good night. It's nice to have a towel next to the bed to wipe up. If you really want to impress a escorts, have a pan of warm water with a warm wash cloth by the bed. After sex, reach down and get it, ring it out, and hand it to her. Nothing feels better than a nice warm wash cloth. Otherwise, have some wash cloths in your bathroom for her to clean up.

If you find an escorts you like and you see her many times, the sex usually gets better. You get to know each other better and know what each other likes. Like any relationship, the more time you spend together the better you get at it.

After a few sessions with the same person you become what is called a "regular". Escorts prefer to see regulars because they know what to expect, know your not a cop, and know you're not a trouble maker.