In the middle of prayer ministry at TACF one evening Carol Arnott felt tired and decided to have a lie down. After a couple of minutes she was about to pull herself back to her feet when she noticed that there was a slight tingling in the tips of her fingers. “Lord if this is you, please continue,” Carol prayed, trying to push away the sense that she really ought to be up and working, praying for others. The tingling moved slowly up her hands. Carol stayed lying down as very slowly she felt the Holy Spirit move through the whole of her body. Eventually, she says, all her tiredness was gone, she was “buzzing with the power of God.” She had been on the floor for three hours.
“I know, Lord, you could have done that in an instant. Lord why did it take three hours?” Carol asked She thought Jesus replied, “Carol it wasn’t the empowering, it wasn’t the feeling that I was after. I just wanted you to spend time with me. I was lonely for you.” Carol explains, “He wants just our presence, not our prayer lists, not our need to’s – that’s important to Him too, but He just wants us to come into a love affair with Him – what we call soaking in his presence.”[i]
TACF are now encouraging people to set up ‘Soaking Payer Centres’ in their own churches and homes. Make the room comfortable and inviting. Provide a variety of places for people to sit or lie. Play a CD of quiet worship music. Encourage yourself and others to focus on Jesus. Say ‘Come Holy Spirit.’ Then, as Carol Arnott teaches, “Wait in a receiving mode, not praying, not speaking in tongues, not helping in any way, just relaxing and waiting and receiving from Him.”
It is this expectation of receiving which is the main difference between soaking prayer and classic contemplative prayer, in which ‘union with God’ is the aim.[ii] John Arnott says: “soaking is more than just waiting, it is receiving the presence of the Lord.” In soaking prayer, particularly as taught by TACF, there is a strong expectation that people will receive some refreshment, healing, empowering. The leader does not themselves ‘soak’ but prays over the ‘soakers.’ In Leamington Spa there is a small team moving round, watching over people, praying intently, making, as they see it, a circle of protection over the ‘soakers.’
Soaking prayer is not welcomed by all. A few years ago Jim Packer wrote a book warning against what he called ‘hot tub religion’ – a Christianity which encourages people to be spiritual consumers.[iii] Soaking prayer could be criticised for encouraging people to seek more and more blessing for themselves. Stephen Sizer sees this as “narcissistic self-centredness,” evidence that the whole Toronto Blessing takes people “into the realm of the cultic and heretical.” Stephen is an Anglican Conservative Evangelical who sees the key Charismatic practice of praying to receive the Spirit as “quite fallacious.”[iv]
For Stephen and others soaking prayer has too little mental or Biblical focus. The worship music played usually has words to listen to, but in the teaching from Toronto there is no expectation that a Bible passage would be used in a session. There are traditions of contemplative discipline, of using Bible passages to focus the mind and of stilling exercises, but TACF does not refer to any of these. Peter Hocken, Roman Catholic chronicler of Charismatic Renewal writes, ‘… a key question is what message is being preached. Where ‘soaking’ is being practised as a surrender to the Lord for Him to do what He wants with us, then for those who are steeping themselves in the Scriptures it can have significantly positive results. But if the focus is on self, and soaking becomes a technique to get blessed, then it begins to be problematic.’ [v]
This lack of focus can also be seen in TACF’s use of the phrase ‘the presence of the Lord’ described as something that Jesus sends. Instead of looking to see Jesus with us as we sit or lie quietly, people are led to expect that Jesus will send from heaven a special atmosphere called His ‘presence’ - the presence or coming of the Holy Spirit in a palpable way. This is hard to focus on and is open to criticisms of emotionalism and subjectivity.
For many Christians, however, soaking prayer has brought much benefit. Paul Maconochie is a leader of St. Thomas’ Crookes, Sheffield. “As a staff at St.Tom's, we have thought long and hard about the challenge that is raised by the prominent fall from grace, usually over sex or money, of many church leaders from our tradition (Charismatic Evangelical) over the years. Our conclusion as we reflected on this together was that we have a kind of approach which attracts those hungry for intimacy, and then only really teaches them how to engage with God in the context of communal worship. This can result in a 'full, empty, full, empty' pattern in how they feel, and may even result in the development of addictive practices. The scenario would be that someone has a great time at church, then comes home, feels 'empty' and hits the fridge (or their favourite sin...). As a church, which chooses to stay connected to our historical heritage, we looked together at the different traditions and spiritualities through church history to try and find a way of countering this, and decided that contemplative practice, with its focus on constant fullness and unbroken fellowship with God, was the most appropriate… Against this background, we found it interesting when, a few months after we had gone through this process of reflection, TACF started to talk about 'soaking', which to me seems like a very similar practice but with the trappings of American Charismatic language and culture”[vi]
Mark Stibbe of St. Andrew’s Chorleywood writes, ‘I personally love to soak. My main emphasis is on ‘being so filled with the Father’s love that we cannot resist giving it away, especially to the lost (our church's vision). You have to freely receive before you freely give!’[vii] Anne Hibbert also emphasises the need to receive God’s love, not just for ourselves, but so that we can give love to others. “There are too many dried up Christians not excited by our Father’s love. When you do receive it’s very hard to keep it to yourself.”
Rebecca is an older member of an independent charismatic church. She writes: ‘Our leader opened up his front room and put on a CD of quiet worship. He invited the Holy Spirit to come and I sat quietly in a comfortable chair.
Once I was sitting very relaxed when I sensed God say “Martha.” I knew just what He meant. I hadn’t chosen the better part as Mary had. Then I saw I was tapping at an old farm house door. I walked in, to the back scullery where the servants would work. The walls were stone, glistening and running with cold dampness. I said, “Why am I standing here?” “That’s you.” God said, “You let the cares and anxieties stay with you until they seep into your innermost being.”
‘I was then led out of the scullery. There was a beautiful room with a large table spread out with every kind of food. God said, “This is always there for you to come to, but you choose the back kitchen.” We moved on to a sitting room where there was a tremendous sense of peace. I drew back. The voice said gently, “I’m always here, waiting for you.”
‘I thought that was the end. But there was another room, even larger, with a bright crystal chandelier reflecting in the polished wooden floor. As a girl I had never been allowed to go to dances; that was something we Christians didn’t do. Now I was dancing in the ballroom with Jesus and it was amazing. I’m 78 and enjoying life more than ever”.’
Taking it Further
TACF have produced a ‘Soaking Prayer Center Kit’ with instructional videos, a Manual and 3 worship CDs. Available from www.tacf.org – Catch the Fire Ministries
For an introduction to Contemplative Prayer see Richard Foster Prayer – Finding the Heart’s True Home (Hodder and Stoughton 1992) and Streams of Living Water (Fount 1999)
For an exploration of the call to learn to be receivers of God’s love see Henri Nouwen The Return of the Prodigal Son (Darton Longman & Todd 1994)
Joyce Huggett recommends Coming to God by Jim Borst (Kevin Mayhew 2004)
[i] Video ‘How to Start a Soaking Prayer Center’ available from TACF
[ii] Richard Foster “Prayer, Finding the Heart’s True Home” p167f
[iii] J. I. Packer ‘Laid-Back Religion’ IVP 1989
[iv] S Sizer www.christchurch-virginiawater.co.uk/articles/toronto4ea.htm
[v] Peter Hocken private correspondence
[vi] Paul Maconochie private correspondence
[vii] Mark Stibbe private correspondence
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Roger Harper has worked for 18 years in Church of England parish ministry and is now part-time chaplain of Douglas Macmillan Hospice, Stoke, and a freelance writer.