On our most recent road trip to the Bay Area, we took Hwy. 101,
which
is largely coastal and adds about 30 minutes to the trip, instead of
the I-5, which goes through the Central Valley and is fairly boring and
smelly in some parts. The decision was based on our
desire to stop at a few of the California Missions
for Jade's class project, but also on the fact that it would be easier
to get to a hospital should Jade suddenly cough up a throat scab and
begin to hemorrhage all over the backseat of the car. (The mess would
have been less of a concern had we listened to the kids and rented a minivan, their preferred mode of travel. But we know far too many people in the Bay Area to risk our reputations driving a minivan
in broad daylight.) As Bell had armed us with a list of hospitals and
their phone numbers and we had packed the cooler with lots of ice cold
water for Jade to gargle in the event we needed to stop the bleeding,
we felt pretty confident defying doctor's orders. (For those of you who
think us foolish and cavalier, the risk of Jade bleeding at that point
was about 1% and decreasing with each passing day. It was probably
even less for her specifically because we constantly made her hydrate
and prohibited any physical activity or remotely hard foods--all
factors that increase the likelihood of a big bleed. Sometimes you
just gotta live on the edge.)
For those of you who visit here exclusively for the pictures of our
adventures (and by this I can only be speaking of relatives), this is your lucky
day. For the rest of you, I suppose it's just your ... day.
As with most adventures around here, we begin with the fresh face of our driver and co-passengers before the sun has come up:
Dad Mode.
It's well-nigh impossible to get a flash-picture of Kai in which he is
not mid-blink. They look happy and excited about the possibilities
ahead here, but don't think for a minute that Kai wasn't already
setting the stage to throw up all over those new fleecy pajamas. Yay!
Jade and her classmates had each been assigned one of the 21
missions on which to do a report. Happily for all concerned (that is
to say, everyone of us) she got Mission San Buenaventura, located in
the bitchin' little town of Ventura,
which is near where my sister used to live. Now I know surfy beach towns aren't for everyone,
but we at sunny side up love them. Love them. That's why we live in one and hate to venture out for very long except to go to other coastal towns.
Before arriving at Mission San Buenaventura, we asked Jade to give
us
the skinny on the place. She shared her favorite fact, which was that
in 1818 a French pirate named Hippolyte de Bouchard had
raided other missions along the California coast. He was spotted near
enough to Ventura that
the missionaries moved themselves and their Chumash neophytes to a
temporary location, thinking
that if Bouchard happened by and found it empty, he would move on without incident.
Turns out Bouchard never actually stopped in Ventura, and he did go on to
sack the jewel of the missions, San Juan Capistrano. But everyone at Buenaventura returned unscathed, if a little shaken.
As it happened, upon hearing this story I realized that my hair was
thrown back in a headbandy thing with little skulls all over it. I
considered removing it so as not to terrorize our fine Catholic friends.
I didn't want them to think I was a descendant of Bouchard returning to
claim some golden chalice and bread loaves. (ARRRRR!) But since my hair
looked like crap without the coverage, I kept the accessory and decided to go into the church coughing the word
"Bouchard" into my fist. Sadly for me, it was Christmas Eve so no one
was really around. I would have to keep my immature antics to myself.
And now, highlights from the mission.
Again with the Bells. They're everywhere.
Jade learns about Catholic guilt as she bows before an early
confessional. I tried to convince her to tell me some real sins, but
her lips remained zipped. Drat!
Like, a virgin.
Since I grew up with the Catholic church, and mostly old-fashioned ones
at that, this place, with its vivid images and colors and smells was
very familiar and comforting to me. The only thing missing was an
accessible balcony where I could bite off little pieces of missal book
and form them into spitballs to be dislodged onto the heads of
parishioners lined up for communion. Ah, good times.
The only significant picture missing from this collection is one of
the unsupervised teenaged boy we saw hanging around the Virgin Mary.
He appeared to be doing something sneaky every time we looked over at
him or passed him by. Bell asked him if he was setting things on fire
and he knew enough to say "no," but it was clear that some sort of
hooliganism was afoot. It was only after we got in the car to drive
away that I realized I could have put the fear of God (or at least the
police, or maybe his parents) in him by openly taking his picture. He looked still young enough to be scared of my capturing him on camera and using the evidence to have him thrown in jail. Besides, how much of a true delinquent could he have been? He was at a church in broad daylight. The hardcore criminals his age were doing their dirty work out on the streets. Amateur.
Love him or hate him, the homunculus Father Junipero Serra
is a looming figure in California history for having established many
of the missions, including Mission San Buenaventura. (But let's be
honest here: he was not a pretty man). There are several statues of
him, but none so large or so artistically hideous as the 26'
monstrosity at a rest stop off of the 280 Freeway in Hillsborough.
I've driven by this thing a million times but only ever looked at it
from the freeway. Often vandals have taken liberties with the statue, most
commonly hanging a paint can dressed up as an oversized beer in his
right hand.
Father Serra points west, some say directing us to the path of
enlightenment. I used to believe this story until recently when I had
the opportunity to inspect the statue closely. Here's what I
discovered when we walked around to the other side:
Look closer.
That's right, rather than directing you to enlightenment, the padre is
actually trying to draw attention away from the itch on his left cheek
so he can sneak a scratch. It's a classic, "Hey, what's that over
there?" move.
Point. Counterpoint.
And finally,
The toes on this statue reminded me of an old woman in my
neighborhood when I was growing up. Mrs. Russo had disturbingly ugly
toenails. They were actually big thick square chunks of toenail
material, 3D rather than the 2D sheets of toenail the rest of us were
blessed with. Worse, it seemed Mrs. Russo always wore open-toed shoes
when she walked the neighborhood. I think she did this to upset our
appetites and haunt our dreams. And it usually worked. I
hadn't thought of Mrs. Russo's toes for years, until I saw Father
Serra's honkers.
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Unfortunately, we didn't make it to the San Francisco Zoo this year. After a tiger attacked a trainer during a Friday feeding (with about 50 horrified visitors looking on), my favorite exhibit, The Lion House, was closed. I saw no point in going. Instead we went to the Exploratorium and the California Academy of Sciences Steinhart Aquarium, both of which are always amusing. Kai usually took off as soon as we arrived and Bell followed, and I hung out with Jade. That's why most of the pictures are of her. (Incidentally, I've noticed that when we go to museums Jade runs from exhibit to exhibit looking at every single thing while Kai often stands and looks at/plays with the same thing for long stretches, like that time at the Vancouver museum when Kai spent a full hour and a half damming--not damning--water. This is contrary to how they eat candy: Jade will savor the same little piece of jelly belly for an hour, whereas Kai will eat as many as possible in a minute.)
The Exploratorium has some awesome exhibits on perception and the mind. Here Jade's looking at the girl in the mirror. (Ooh!) /She's asking her to change her ways. (Ooh!)/ No message could have been any clearer. / If you want to make the world a better place, take a look at yourself and make a change.
Or not.
Most of the kids, including Jade, were squeamish about drinking from the toilet-shaped water fountain. Me, not so much. It's probably because my head has spent too many long nights inside a toilet bowl. It practically felt natural.
The kids begged to go over the Golden Gate Bridge on a stormy day. She's a lovely lady, no?
Back at Ocean Beach, we checked out the waves. "The sea was angry that day, my friends. Like an old man returning soup at a deli..."
The next day we visited Steinhart Aquarium's temporary quarters. Here we happened upon the ugly tank. I could not stop staring at the horror that is the giant sea bass and the moray eels. I returned to their tank twice. I could not bear to look, yet I could not turn away.
Likewise, these alligator snapping turtles were hideous but I couldn't stop watching them while Jade played with anemones.
Pardonez moi, les seahorses! Didn't mean to interruptus your coitus(es).
Jade's beloved Humuhumunukunukuapua'a.
I know a bunch of skulls may seem out of place at an aquarium, but the aquarium is only one part of a comprehensive museum that includes a huge natural history section. All are temporarily housed with the fishes while the renovation of the building in Golden Gate park continues through 2008. If you are at all interested in this sort of thing and are in San Francisco, the Academy of Sciences is a must-see.
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On our road trip home we hit traffic in Santa Barbara, so we stopped at the mission there. It had just closed so we were left to walk the grounds. Here Jade poses with a more respectable statue
of Father Serra, one in which he is not scratching his butt (query what she is doing with her hands).
The setting was beautiful, especially at sunset. Santa Barbara rocks. Unfortunately you can not tell from this picture.
We made it home safe and sound, if a bit cranky after having sat in so much traffic in L.A. Hamlet was a little hoarse from all his meowing in our absence, or at least that's what he wanted us to believe. I sort of think he was faking it since we had friends taking care of him at the house.
Nevertheless, it's good to be back home again. Thanks for sticking around.