Indian girls fight back against child marriage
KOLKATA, India |
KOLKATA, India (Reuters Life!) - Fourteen-year-old Ahalya Kumar lives on a single daily meal of starched rice and has never been to the movies, but the girl from a dirt-poor Indian village packed enough power to reject her arranged marriage in June.
One of four children in a family that earns a pittance rolling bidis, or cheap handrolled Indian cigarettes, her elder sister was married off young and forced to bear children before she turned 18, the legal Indian marrying age.
But when it was Ahalya's turn, she said "no" after hearing about a 13-year-old girl from the same area who had shot to national fame by stopping her marriage.
"I want to be educated first and live healthy. Marriage can wait until I am 19," she said.
In Oldih village of Purulia, one of the poorest areas in the eastern state of West Bengal, about 300 km (190 miles) from the bright lights of the state capital Kolkata, Ahalya had to fight poverty and parental pressure to stand up for herself.
But times are slowly changing. The government supported by aid agencies is setting up schools for child laborers to make them aware of their rights to break a rife but outlawed custom.
"Girls are gradually saying 'no' to child marriage," said Anil Gulati, a spokesman for the United Nations Children's Fund (UNICEF), which works with authorities to fight child marriage.
Gulati said girls have become bolder by encouraging each other and getting media publicity for their refusal.
"This has a slowly growing momentum which will take some time, but it will have a lot of value."
Impoverished families often use early marriage to get rid of the financial burden of a daughter, and the law can be slow to react. Ahalya's father, Nimai, repented his decision.
"I was making a mistake. I now want my daughter to study further and then get married when she attains the right age."
MESSENGERS OF CHANGE
Ahalya's inspiration was a girl called Rekha Kalindi. Though Kalindi still lives in a mud hut in Purulia, she became a celebrity when she resisted early wedlock and was congratulated on her courage by India's president.
"The president was very happy to know that these girls are revolting and she encouraged them a lot," said Prosenjit Kundu, a government official working with girls in Purulia who accompanied them to the meeting in India's capital.
"She said these girls are messengers of change."
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