October 19, 2011 8:32 AM

Understanding the human need for gossip

(CBS News) 

We've all at one point or another participated in a juicy gossip session. It's only natural, right? According to a new book, gossiping is exactly that -- natural, for women at least. In fact, according to the author, it is part of the evolutionary process.

Whether it's sharing secrets on television or dishing dirt in magazines, gossip is big business, generating $3 billion a year annually on TV, print and online.

According author John Locke, it's part of human evolution.

"If there are women behaving promiscuously or they do things that don't reflect well on the women of the community, then women have a perfectly good right to police the neighborhood, and that's frequently what they're doing when they gossip," he told "The Early Show" contributor Taryn Winter Brill.

In his new book, "Duels and Duets," Locke explores the different ways in which men and women communicate among themselves.

"Men tend to be aggressive, competitive, jokey, he said.

Locke said women, on the other hand, "Are trying to forge relations with a close friend, in part because that will enable cooperation."

Should we feel guilty about gossping?

Locke says, "Should we feel OK, then, about the need to gossip? We should feel okay about it. As long as people aren't trying to hurt each other, there's no reason why they should avoid gossiping."

Psychologist Dr. Michelle Callahan, a contributor to Women's Health magazine, and Bonnie Fuller, editor-in-chief of Hollywoodlife.com stopped by "The Early Show" Wednesday to talk about gossip and the sexes. Check out their interview in the video below.

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by AlFranken October 19, 2011 5:42 PM EDT
gossiping is as natural as lying and having promiscuous sex.

It distorts peoples character and promotes envy among just a few.

Ultimately, it can be used to control others, to turn many into tools against their own loved ones.

It can destroy relationships willingly on unwillingly.

I can't see how an author would want to put a positive spin on it.
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by formerusmcsgt1 October 19, 2011 5:41 PM EDT
I don't buy it.

Some have a need to talk trash about others. Some don't.

I've always felt that truly happy, well-adjusted people find no thrill in talking trash about others as so many do.

I've even heard women gossiping about fictional soap opera characters for crying out loud.
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by usunus October 19, 2011 3:07 PM EDT
John Locke should next write a book on " Understanding the Human Need to Get in Trouble ".
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by Forty-Four October 19, 2011 1:02 PM EDT
I can see it. I just can't see obcessing over celebrities lives and what not. Sports, depends on what you are talking about. Trades and who is on the team and on the practice squad: yes. But I don't care who Reggie Bush is married to, or if he is getting married, or what not. It isn't my business
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by todaypost October 19, 2011 11:20 AM EDT
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gossip

"We should feel okay about it. As long as people aren't trying to hurt each other"

Gossip may not hurt the teller and listener, but how about the third party and the subject of the gossip?
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by Sloughfoot October 19, 2011 10:45 AM EDT
Like gossip, this article is tabloid bs and should have remained in the manure pile.
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by 1notrub11 October 19, 2011 10:26 AM EDT
As usual, no data. Incredibly weak.
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