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[ - ] French President wants to ban homework because it gives an unfair advantage to students whose parents help them. http://www.washingtonpost.com/blogs/answer-sheet/wp/2012/10/15/french-president-pushing-homework-ban-as-part-of-ed-reforms/ 8 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:10 AM Flag
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Yeah, nobody should get ahead if there are those left behind. Hmmm....sounds familiar. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:12 AM Flag
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The Democrat Party's mantra [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:47 AM Flag
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np: no one should get ahead on the merits of their parents. it's enough that children of educated parents have a huge leg up in the early years of life and in the environment in which they live. there is no need for the extra bonus of getting better grades bc their parents are good at 6th grade math hw. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:57 AM Flag
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Sorry to break it to you, but if you have involved and loving parents, it will be an edge you will never lose in life over those who dont- Elementary, middle, highschool, university and beyond. No goverment can take that away- no matter how "fair" we try to make things. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 06:27 AM Flag
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I think it's a great idea. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:43 AM Flag
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I can't tell if you're being serious or sarcastic. If you're being serious I'd relaly love to have a deeper conversation about this because I just cannot see your point of view. Don't you think that by eliminating homework that will only make the divide even greatter? Don't you think that the involed parents will make homework for their child themselves? Buy workbooks, enroll in supplementary study sessions, make up homeowrk, assign the kids problems from the book and go through themwith them (since the teacher isn't) and that it will only further the separate the kids. At least with homework assigned there are somekids with uninvolved parents who are doing it on their own, they may be getting lower grades, but they are (due to their own desire to succeed or conform or follow the rules or whatever it is that motivates them) doing homework without the prompting of their parents. Without the assignement these kids will not be doing homeowrk and will therefore be in a worse learning environment than they were previously. Can you explain your POV tome? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 07:52 AM Flag
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Gotta level the playing field. Yup. We are all in this together. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 06:07 AM Flag
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Again, not sure if you're being serious or sarcastic, be really? You really think this? Can you please explain your POV because I cannot wrap my head around how anyone can think this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 07:53 AM Flag
[ - ] Would you ever shave your legs right before a pedicure? Supposed to be bad idea because makes skin vulnerable to bacteria. 4 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:52 AM Flag
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I usually do the night before...never "right" before. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:58 AM Flag
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this is so weird. i shave my legs, not my feet and the only thing they do to my legs is massage some lotion in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:42 AM Flag
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yes, but part of your leg is in the gross water, and if they take those "salt scrubs" from the jar there could be loads of bacteria in there. I find most salons really nasty. I only go to the ones where the tools are autoclaved (so come out in sterilization bags), but the whole foot tub thing is really gross, they just empty the water inbetween, but I've never seen themclean one. yuck. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 07:55 AM Flag
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The bacteria is in the foot whirlpools, go to a place that has sterilized bowls instead. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 07:51 AM Flag
[ - ] Eva Longoria under fire for controversial retweet | Fox News Video. http://video.foxnews.com/v/1910303792001/eva-longoria-under-fire-for-controversial-retweet/?intcmp=obnetwork The Democrat Party is ugly and low.............................. 2 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:46 AM Flag
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boycott these irresponsible hollywood ideologues. Longoria should resign .......... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:48 AM Flag
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The DNC was wrong to involve her in any major way with this campaign. She is an embarrassment on so many levels. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 06:09 AM Flag
[ - ] I think my house just went on the market. I mean it's MY HOUSE. Thing is we can't move until June. Would it be crazy to try and buy it now? I'm worried someone else will buy it if we don't. But it did just go on the market, would you wait? I don't know what to do. 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:05 AM Flag
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Buy it [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:06 AM Flag
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you can buy it and make the closing date in june. it's not so far off. give it a go. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:20 AM Flag
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but you should be open to the possibility that the house might not be all you think it's cracked up to be. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:21 AM Flag
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OP: this is true, I haven't even seen it in person, just online. Do you think a seller would be open to closing in June? I'm anxious because it appears to fit every one of my criteria, I can't tell how universal my criteria are. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:25 AM Flag
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2 to 1, i'd say you'll see it and not be so in love with it. but go see it anyhow. sure, why wouldn't he be open? my neighbor sold a place in december and closed in august. a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush. soon, he'll be facing the holidays, supposedly a very slow time for real estate. then he'd have to do the spring market which is traditionally june closing for when the kids finish school. he'll negotiate that with you as long as everything else (namely price) is good. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:36 AM Flag
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Personally, if I loved it I would try, but wouldn't start out saying June. Maybe March, then build in delays. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:39 AM Flag
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that's too long. no later than mid april. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:07 AM Flag
[ - ] Which is the lesser of two evils: Princesses or American Girl 6 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:54 AM Flag
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AG are really not bad. Well made, the girls use them for imaginative play and they have history books to go with them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:57 AM Flag
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AG. Not so evil if you stick to basics. Dolls and the books that go with them. The evil is the thousands of dollars people waste on the crap. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:55 AM Flag
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You can get cheaper crap at Target for them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:57 AM Flag
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Japs [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:57 AM Flag
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AG [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:59 AM Flag
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depends on how you introduce princesses to your child. ag can be evil. it's not the product it's how you play them with your girl. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 06:27 AM Flag
[ - ] How do you forget someone? I am so pissed at this guy... he made an emotional connection with me - meaning he made the first moves - and got under my skin and has now disappeared. I want to forget him, having trouble. Ideas? 97 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:52 AM Flag
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Did u sleep with him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:52 AM Flag
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No, it didn't get that far. We're both attached, me more than him. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:55 AM Flag
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You married [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:55 AM Flag
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y [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:58 AM Flag
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Do you want to sleep with him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:58 AM Flag
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Sounds like you just need to get laid [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:59 AM Flag
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I do. But with someone who connects with me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:01 AM Flag
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You should go out of town and connect with someone for one night [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:05 AM Flag
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Gross. A one night stand? That's not what I'm looking for. I'm not even sure I would let things go beyond emotions. I'm just so pissed that he got into my heart and then bolted when it started to become apparent to us both that something was happening. He made me feel things, good things, and now he's gone. Fucker. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:08 AM Flag
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I am sure he got scared [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:18 AM Flag
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Scared of what, do you think? He has a girlfriend. Scared of connecting? I just got this funny feeling that he is in the exact same boat as I. And that it was our connection that scared him. Why do people run from that? I think part of me could have been satisfied to know that it was real. I think I would have stopped it, but I could live the rest of my life knowing that connecting wtih someone like that was possible. Even if I could never have it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:25 AM Flag
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Because the next step is all in. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:32 AM Flag
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And I can tell you from this one conversation, there is no way you would have stopped him [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:33 AM Flag
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Yeah, I see your point... he was scared, you're right. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:33 AM Flag
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Um of course you could fall in love with another man [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:43 AM Flag
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The emotional connection was strong enough that I may have wanted to eventually. That doesn't mean I would have acted on it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:01 AM Flag
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Have you cheated yet [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:01 AM Flag
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No, unless you consider connecting with someone outside your marriage cheating. Some do. Not sure I do. Why do I think you are a man? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:04 AM Flag
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Don't know [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:10 AM Flag
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Are you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:11 AM Flag
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No [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:24 AM Flag
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No I don't think connecting is cheating but it leads to that in the end [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:11 AM Flag
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WEll yes, and as I said, I am afraid of that... the issue at hand is that he touched a big nerve and I'm having trouble shutting that nerve down. I don't know what would happen if we saw each other again. I don't know if we will. I'm just so pissed at him getting to me and then bolting. He's a coward. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:12 AM Flag
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You know exactly what would happen. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:18 AM Flag
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How old are you and how long married, kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:58 AM Flag
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That would be TMI, don't even want to take the slightest chance of outing myself. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:03 AM Flag
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Ok how abut yes kids and 40 to 50 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:03 AM Flag
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Sorry, not taking the bait... :) I'm curious, why did you put those stats? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:06 AM Flag
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Just curious, seems like you are unhappily married [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:07 AM Flag
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And no I am not your husband [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:08 AM Flag
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Didn't think you were. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:11 AM Flag
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Sometimes I am, yes. But why would that make me 40-50 with kids? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:09 AM Flag
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Just a question. For what it is worth, staying married or for that fact cheating is less risky if you are either older or younger and without kids or older kids. You have one life.... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:14 AM Flag
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I am trying to decide if I can handle leading a life of quiet desperation, to tell you the truth. I am not a whore. I am a role model to the best thing that ever happened to me. I would not jeopardize that for the world. Sometimes I have been wondering if I could go through with something if I knew no one would ever know. But I am too honest, I don't think I could live with the guilt. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:18 AM Flag
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On the other hand... if you know that someone is 100% incapable of giving you what you need, and has shown no desire to make an effort, in spite of all your attempts to communicate to him... is it really wrong to get what you need? It's very confusing trying to sort all this through in your head. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:19 AM Flag
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No but the why not try to find someone that will. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:25 AM Flag
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If you love your husband and think he can, men are animals, let him know he is losing you and he will change [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:34 AM Flag
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That is the sad part. I've let him know. It doesn't seem to change anything. I've even told him 'I am vulnerable to other men with things being the way they are...!!!' No effect. He claims he doesn't know what to do. I said read a book, get help, get therapy. He seems to forget so easily that it's a problem. I almost feel like I'd have to leave to get him to acknowledge that this is something he needs to work on. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:41 AM Flag
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I think that would be a good move. If you want it to work, men are cavemen. You don't have to move out to get to this point. Simply tell him you need some time and you are considering seperating [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:46 AM Flag
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I have come to that point several times. I have threatened him. And then I can't go through with it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:54 AM Flag
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You have to or he will not take you seriously, you should google the five steps of men's emotions while losing their wives [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:05 AM Flag
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Sometimes people can fall back in love. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:21 AM Flag
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I can tell you this, if you act on this desperation, it is better to avoid a full blown affair, you will get caught then it will not be on your terms [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:23 AM Flag
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What will not be on my terms? Not following you here... and also, have you gone through something like this? And are you a man or a woman? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:27 AM Flag
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Yes [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:37 AM Flag
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okay, forget the last part, you clearly don't want to answer...lol... but you've gone through something like this? what happened? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:38 AM Flag
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You have a huge void now, it is not this guy that is special, it is you. You have two choices [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:47 AM Flag
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thank you for saying that, and thank you for talking to me... it is really helping, I am crying, this was more upsetting to me than I was even letting myself feel... and the choices are? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:49 AM Flag
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First, most have gone through this. If he go one step beyond where you are now with anyone, I promise you will not have the power to turn back [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:54 AM Flag
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So if you believe you need something else, you need to see if you can take care of this need and go back to your life without all the fall out or if not make the next step. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:57 AM Flag
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I don't think it is this guy but that you are unhappy, I am just saying, maybe you don't have to have an affair to get yourself happy again [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:38 AM Flag
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I don't think this is about me 'loving myself' enough... I love myself plenty. This is about connecting with another human being, a man, in this special way. I've never had it, and I know it's out there, and I want it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:41 AM Flag
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I understand that, you have said if your husband changed he could make you happy.. So you are not where many women in your state are... No interest in making it work [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:59 AM Flag
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Maybe you just need to get out somewhere for a few days to get the attention you so desire... Maybe you will find that it is really not what is missing not judging just saying [ Reply | More
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Maybe you just need to get out somewhere for a few days to get the attention you so desire... Maybe you will find that it is really not what is missing not judging just saying [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:00 AM Flag
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It isn't this one man that is the connection, it is that you have decoupled from your marriage. Don't worry about this one connection, there will be others [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:16 AM Flag
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I wouldn't say I've decoupled. I make an effort still. Quite a bit of effort. What is true is that I feel very vulnerable. I feel like some day, somewhere, some man is going to want me and won't run away and I will not be able to say no. That is what really scares me. What also scares me is that this One Guy who wants me above all consequences... is not going to show up. And I go to my grave the way things are now. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:23 AM Flag
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Honey it is not this one guy, there will be others, what you are afraid of is that at some point you may not have other opportunities [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:27 AM Flag
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You need to get grounded, get therapy, then if you still feel the same, you will eventually act on it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:28 AM Flag
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I don't think I need therapy. I think I need someone who has more balls to show up. And then I can see how far I want to take this. I'm pretty sure I will stop. For some reason, I just need to know that that connection is possible. It is too lonely without it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:31 AM Flag
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I mean stop before it becomes a full-blown affair. As I said, I don't want to hurt people. But I feel like I need to honor myself as well. I don't know how many people could understand that, unless they have been in my shoes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:32 AM Flag
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Listen a connection is possible stop bs yourself. You know the answer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:39 AM Flag
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You are not going to stop you know that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:42 AM Flag
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Well, I'm not sure. It's hard to say. I don't know, maybe you're right... especially if it was a man who was not afraid... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:45 AM Flag
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Afraid of what [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:02 AM Flag
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of pursuing me all out [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:09 AM Flag
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Honey it is not this one guy, there will be others, what you are afraid of is that at some point you may not have other opportunities [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:27 AM Flag
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He disappeared, sounds like if you would have slept with him he would have really broken your heart [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:29 AM Flag
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I think we might have broken each other's hearts. Not sure. Beginning to wonder if he is a lout who does this all the time. He is divorced, has a girlfriend. How much do you want to bet he divorced because he had an affair... and yes, I see the irony of me pointing that finger...! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:34 AM Flag
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How long have you connected with him? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:40 AM Flag
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And by connection you should say physically [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:41 AM Flag
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not following you here... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:43 AM Flag
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with who? Mr. Runaway? all summer [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:42 AM Flag
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It is you want the attention to still fel desirable... Most men will see that as wanting to get laid and ... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:01 AM Flag
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I wonder if he thought it was *me* that was coming on to him, you're making me wonder now... I am in excellent shape for my age, most would think I am at least 10 years younger than I am. I'm pretty too and I like to socialize, and he and I hit it off, maybe all of that just seemed like a come on to him...? It wasn't really for me. I didn't even think he was cute when I first saw him... it was our little conversations and how protective he was of me (can't explain that, would give me away) that really got to me... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:13 AM Flag
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Of course he knew you were interested in him... Women can't hide that twinkle... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:17 AM Flag
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Hard to say if he really disappeared... without giving too much away, his work situation changed such that we don't see each other any more... and with that, we haven't really spoken... but on the last day, as we were saying goodbye, I found myself wanting to kiss him on the cheek (he'd been very kind to me this summer) and I reached out just to touch him on the arm, and it was at that point he said 'I'll be around...' and then we texted later about getting together at Thanksgiving or Christmas, or possibly getting together with our SOs... and it just felt like it was all under this pretext of 'oh yeah, let's be friends' when actually it was he and I dying to see each other again... but I haven't heard from him since those texts and I am feeling like he disappeared... and I feel humiliated, like I showed him that yes, he got under my skin and when I did, he bolted... it felt so good when he said 'I'll be around' [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:03 AM Flag
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actually we talked about getting together much sooner than T or C... but the fact that that hasn't materialized is what is bugging me and no way am I running after him, but I still want it and I hate it so much that he knows that... and I can't help but wonder if this is the kind of games this man plays for his own ego and that it had nothing to do with any kind of special connection we had or his feelings for me [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:06 AM Flag
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I am sure he is connected but if he has not communicated further, that is a very clear message [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:20 AM Flag
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Indulge me a bit... do you think he misses me? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:26 AM Flag
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Probably but I don't think he was as all in as you are [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:31 AM Flag
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He is not your answer.. You sound like a great person who is struggling now. I am going to bed I am in la but could talk again the most important thing for you to remember is things are never as good or bad as you think they are... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:08 AM Flag
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Thank you, I need to go too. Thank you so much for talking. You have really helped me. You are kind to listen to me, I feel so lonely sometimes. How will I know it's you on here? Leave a keyword or something if you can... :) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:18 AM Flag
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Look for CU On here over weekend. What you are going through is common and to feel lonely and desperate is also normal it will get better [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:26 AM Flag
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How long have you been married... And if you have young children, you need to see how you feel in a few years as things change [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:31 AM Flag
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Been married a while, one young child. Wanted more, DH is leaning towards no. I am too, many days. I know that a marriage has ebbs and flows, I've experienced them. Sometimes I go back to loving him 100% and thinking I could never, ever want or be with anyone else. And then something like this will happen. And yes, it's happened before, but never like this. Never this close. That's why I think it's going to happen at some point. It feels inevitable. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:36 AM Flag
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The most difficult part of any marriage is when children are young. Life changes, honestly...you should get it out of your system...maybe not a one night stand but something well short of an affair [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:50 AM Flag
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This only after you have been brutally honest with your husband,,,, again he is a caveman...make him understand he is losing or lost you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:52 AM Flag
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where did you meet my husband, btw...? LOL he is absolutely a cave man... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:56 AM Flag
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what do you mean by 'well short of an affair'? that sounds like what I was getting into with this guy... and if that's what you meant, maybe all my husband needs is for me to be flirting with someone in front of his face... maybe he just needs to see another man visibly attracted to me? we socialize very little, have hardly any friends (although we try, it's just so hard to make friends it seem)... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:55 AM Flag
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No what you need to do is have him believe you are having an affair and double up with the I need some time to think and just leave for a few days... Get back and don't sit down to discuss until he breaks down.. Then tell him you love him but may no longer be in love with him... You have to have him understand that it is not you but him and he is losing you [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:11 AM Flag
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Start by socializing without him. Avoid bars etc because you are obviouslyn smart and probably attractive and you will find plenty of men that will connect with you...then you will be in trouble [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:13 AM Flag
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It will also make you feel less insecure as you will get plenty of attention [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:14 AM Flag
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I might be able to socialize without him, yes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:17 AM Flag
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It's a great idea but not feasible... my duaghter... I could never leave her alone with him, total disaster (she is young) [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:16 AM Flag
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Not even for a night, hire a babysittter [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:21 AM Flag
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Please trust me on the above I know....how men are [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:22 AM Flag
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:34 AM Flag
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Who cares [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:44 AM Flag
[ - ] Anyone fantasize about sex with someone other than dh, if so, who? 27 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:27 AM Flag
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Go sleep with your husband. Then, go to bed! Thanks. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:29 AM Flag
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chris meloni [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:31 AM Flag
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unexpected, but cool [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:34 AM Flag
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Go sleep with your dildo [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:42 AM Flag
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Lassie [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:32 AM Flag
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King Kong [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:37 AM Flag
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Chuck Norris [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:40 AM Flag
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Why [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:50 AM Flag
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OMG, he was so hot like 20 years ago. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:22 AM Flag
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Yes but not anyone specific. Just a faceless man who is mean to me. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:41 AM Flag
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Really [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:41 AM Flag
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Not literally faceless, I just don't picture a face [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:43 AM Flag
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But the mean part [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:45 AM Flag
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oh yeah [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:46 AM Flag
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You mean rough [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:48 AM Flag
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yeah I guess, but it's just a fantasy, so I don't worry about safety or anything. I let things get weirder in my head than they'd ever get in real life. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:54 AM Flag
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Wow [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:53 AM Flag
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Danish men. All of them. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:41 AM Flag
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More than one at a time [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:44 AM Flag
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Ben Affleck [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:42 AM Flag
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With a strap on [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:47 AM Flag
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Yes tied up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:51 AM Flag
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All the time. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:07 AM Flag
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Details [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:16 AM Flag
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all sorts of random people. Lately, doctor, cop, stranger in the subway, hot woman, butch woman... I'm an equal opportunity fantasizer. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:12 AM Flag
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Ever acted [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:19 AM Flag
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Not yet. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:21 AM Flag
[ - ] I'm 42 nd feel totally non-sexual anymore. I never have sex with my husband and have frankly decided to close up shop. I know Dads in my kid's pre-K are into me but I don't get it -- I am not so hot and give out no sexual vibes. I think of myself only as a mother. Starting to feel bad for my DH though. How do I start to feel sexy? Seriously, it is so rare a sex though enters my head, and I used to be quite a fun girl in that regard. 9 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:19 AM Flag
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You should sleep with one of the other husbands [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:22 AM Flag
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haha. bad advise. please don't do this! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:24 AM Flag
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You just have to start again, whether you really feel it or not. Sex begets sex. Fake it til you make it, etc. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:35 AM Flag
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^ True [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:55 AM Flag
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One word for ya: hormones. Any other perimenopausal symptoms you're having? Insomnia? Night sweats? Losing hair? You could try seeing a naturopath. Could be thyroid issues as well. Doesn't have to be like this. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:47 AM Flag
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Same here, though I am divorced. Have not had sex in five years. Remember it fondly, but can't say I miss it exactly. Miss the idea of it, but obviously not enough to get out there. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:54 AM Flag
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How old are you if you mind me asking [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:17 AM Flag
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43 [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:26 AM Flag
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Does DH bother you about it, or has he accepted it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 07:12 AM Flag
[ - ] God, just got caught masturbating 7 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:16 AM Flag
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And you're telling us this because... [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:17 AM Flag
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Cause [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:20 AM Flag
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Thank goodness for the comma :\ [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:18 AM Flag
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why whom? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:23 AM Flag
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My husbands best friend [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:24 AM Flag
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fake [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:25 AM Flag
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Why would I lie [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:27 AM Flag
[ - ] How do I find out if a director of admissions has a PhD? I wouldn't want to write "Ms." if she's a "Dr."? TIA! 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:15 AM Flag
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If the website doesn't say it, she doesn't. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:16 AM Flag
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it's really nice that you are concerned about this--i agree that if the website doesn't list it, she doesn't. also, if they are anything like me, they don't really expect anyone to call them dr or care if they address them as ms. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:19 AM Flag
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OP: thanks! But I really just don't want to mess anything up. And many people wouldn't mind, but others would be upset and/or annoyed. I once had a professor almost bite my head off because I called him "Mr" and not "Dr." That was a learning experience. But I just found the info on the website. Thanks! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:28 AM Flag
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wow, that was a professor with an inferiority complex. ivy graduate teaching at a state school? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:43 AM Flag
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OP: who knows. But i've never forgotten that incident. For these purposes, I can't afford to make a mistake, even a minor one. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:00 AM Flag
[ - ] Anybody who has had bedbugs - talk to me about the prep and the social isolation. I fear we may have them (a light infestation at this point), and I have no idea who I would/should tell (if confirmed). So scared. 5 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:09 AM Flag
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Don't tell anyone. My friend told me and I lived in fear of her bringing them into our home. It wasn't necessary, but it was true. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:12 AM Flag
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Kill everyone that was exposed to them [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:18 AM Flag
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?? Do you mean 'tell'? School? Work? Will my DC become feared? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:38 AM Flag
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prep sucks - you should take time from work to do it. We had a light infestation BUT you have to treat it just as carefully. Those assholes can hibernate for up to 18 months without food. I didn't tell a soul. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:32 AM Flag
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Thanks. How did you keep DC from telling (are they old enough?) Do you suspect anyone got them from you? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 05:03 AM Flag
[ - ] s/o: anyone still smoke? I had my last 7 years ago tomorrow, still crave cigs all the time but would never smoke again. 28 Replies [ Reply | Watch | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:06 AM Flag
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I wish. Quit 19 years ago and still miss it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:09 AM Flag
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op: glad to know I'm not alone on missing it! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:08 AM Flag
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I only smoked at parties in college occasionally. Then got so sick one night that I never had another. But they still smell good to me sometimes. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:10 AM Flag
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Sometimes, at the end of a long day. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:09 AM Flag
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Are you married? What does DH say about it (if so)? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:12 AM Flag
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If he notices he is not happy, but he often doesn't notice. It's very odd, he's not in denial, just not observant. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:15 AM Flag
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Man I am jealous. I know mine would be like a bloodhound. How much do you do it? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:16 AM Flag
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I do it in spurts. I've been sick the past few weeks so I haven't smoked. But the other month at my brothers wedding DH was drinking, and I disappeared 3 or 4 times. My grandmother caught me, but DH didn't [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:21 AM Flag
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Awesome. I am jealous. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:25 AM Flag
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your priorities are f***ed up [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:45 AM Flag
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I smoke, and I love it. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:13 AM Flag
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Do tell! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:15 AM Flag
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nothing to tell. I just smoke because I love to. I've tried to quit, but my desire to smoke overcomes it. Only time I quit was when I was pregnant. As soon as I popped that baby out, I told dh "get me a cig" [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:30 AM Flag
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so you puff the smoke in db's face? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:35 AM Flag
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nope. db not attached to my hip. i can puff far away from db. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:38 AM Flag
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and your clothes and body don't reek of 3rd hand smoke? [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:44 AM Flag
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loser [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:23 AM Flag
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you're a loser for giving a f*ck that I smoke. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:30 AM Flag
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you should smoke more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:35 AM Flag
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lol!!! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:39 AM Flag
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for sure. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:43 AM Flag
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make sure you smoke in front of your dcs so you can set an example. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 03:45 AM Flag
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no need to worry about example i'm setting my dc. worry about the example you're setting for your own dc. loser! [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:02 AM Flag
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yep you should definitely go smoke some more. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:02 AM Flag
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and fill their little lungs with second hand smoke, dc's love that [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:02 AM Flag
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^^^Actually, that's true, if you smoke around your kids when they're young, they'll learn to like the smell [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:03 AM Flag
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np: and you know this from where? dh's parents both smoked. He hates the smell of smoke. Same with bf. [ Reply | More
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General Topics 10.19.12, 04:13 AM Flag
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I smoke whenever I travel for work. [ Reply | More
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