Carolyn Hax
Carolyn Hax
Columnist

Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys. Sign up for Carolyn Hax’s column, delivered to your inbox early each morning, at bit.ly/haxpost.

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Mom isn’t psyched about Mother’s Day party; dreading a family funeral

Readers wonder how best to handle events they uncomfortable about attending.

Clingy guy leaves her feeling smothered

Clingy guy leaves her feeling smothered

Can she tactfully tell a clingy boyfriend to scale down his need for reassurance?

After a divorce, am I rebounding or falling in love?

After a divorce, am I rebounding or falling in love?

Think about the relationship in binary terms until you sort out your feelings: Do you enjoy his company or not?

To do right by an ailing parent, do right by yourself

To do right by an ailing parent, do right by yourself

Reader tells Carolyn Hax she has been turning herself inside out to lift her parents’ spirits in a health crisis.

Carolyn Hax: The chat to have with a traditionalist mother

Carolyn Hax: The chat to have with a traditionalist mother

Readers offer thoughts to a husband whose tradition-minded mother snarks about his wife’s career.

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