Carolyn Hax
Carolyn Hax
Columnist

Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997 as a weekly feature for The Washington Post, accompanied by the work of “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis. The column has since gone daily and into syndication, where it appears in over 200 newspapers. Carolyn joined The Post in 1992 as a copy editor in Style, and became a news editor before turning to writing full-time. She is the author of “Tell Me About It” (Miramax, 2001), and the host of a live online discussion on Fridays at noon on washingtonpost.com. She lives in Washington, D.C., with her husband and their three boys. Sign up for Carolyn Hax’s column, delivered to your inbox early each morning, at bit.ly/haxpost.

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Carolyn Hax: For middle sister, the center cannot hold

She’s caught between warring siblings and a distressed mother.

Carolyn Hax: Losing composure when dealt a tough hand

Carolyn Hax: Losing composure when dealt a tough hand

A self-described “logical” reader feels helpless and overwhelmed in face of family illnesses.

Carolyn Hax: Being erased from family history

Carolyn Hax: Being erased from family history

A reader wonders why it hurts so much that her ex’s young daughter, 5, has never been told she exists.

Carolyn Hax: Even in grief, family snubs fiance

Carolyn Hax: Even in grief, family snubs fiance

It’s been made clear that her fiance is not welcome at a family funeral, causing pain on top of grief.

Carolyn Hax: Couple’s squabbling short-circuits fun in their outings

Carolyn Hax: Couple’s squabbling short-circuits fun in their outings

Breaking the scolding cycle; paying too much on Mother’s Day; bad breath could end a relationship

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