Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax: Wary of a significant other’s friend

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The letter writer wants permission to veto a friendship. Does this cross the line of trying to control the situation?

Carolyn Hax: Finding a middle ground with in-laws

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She comes from a quiet upbringing and finds his family overly brash. How can they compromise?

Carolyn Hax: Hold off on that unsolicited sisterly advice

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A woman who wants to offer her sister some unsolicited relationship advice needs to back off.

Carolyn Hax: Helping a younger daughter out of a shadow

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A woman with a high-achieving firstborn wants to help her younger daughter achieve on her own terms.

Husband’s wandering eye sends newlywed packing

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He says he’s sorry, and she’s wondering if she is giving up too easily.

Advice Columnists

  

Hints From Heloise: How to keep that pumpkin smiling

A little petroleum jelly, or bleach and water, can keep the smile on your pumpkin for a long time.

Hints From Heloise: Go peanut-free

An ER nurse urges everyone to avoid offering candy containing peanuts to prevent allergic reactions.

Hints From Heloise: Should shoppers Zip up?

The answer? It depends: Retailers may ask for your Zip for marketing purposes or to prevent theft.

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Miss Manners: Public display of affection is no fun to watch

Her in-laws are like The Lovers on “Saturday Night Live” — even in her wedding pictures!

Miss Manners: A bride is a bride only for a night

But in 1800s, a bride was a bride for a year, during which time she could wear her gown as an evening dress.

Miss Manners: Not every milestone deserves money

Demands for monetary gifts keep rising, so Miss Manners isn’t suprised to hear of a divorce fundraiser.

Miss Manners: Friend has reason to be annoyed

When a man joined her and her friend at a bar, they both froze her out of the conversation.

Miss Manners: Interview dress should be spelled out

A college professor is surprised to be turned away from a part-time job interview because she wore denim.

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Ask Amy: Man questioning gigolo status should look for job

He’s jobless, and his rich girlfriend gives him cash; Amy says if it doesn’t feel right, return it and look for a job.

Ask Amy: Young mom not sure about relationship

She had a baby with a man she doesn’t love. He’s a good man and father; should she remain with him?

Ask Amy: Sister insists family include abusive ex

The writer’s sister keeps standing by her abusive boor of an ex, and wants him included in family functions.

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Animal Doctor: Cat must be kept on a zero fat diet

What to feed a cat with high triglycerides; what triggers dry eyes in dogs; averse reactions to vaccines.

Out-skunking the skunks

Skunks are diggers, not climbers. A 5-foot-high fence can keep pets safe.

Bipolar dog or problem child?

Dogs with a malfunctioning thyroid gland or in pain can become aggressive or emotionally stable.

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@Work Advice

@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

She doesn’t want to be a victim again

When a painful memory from the past intrudes upon your present

Family

Family Almanac

HADLEY HOOPER FOR THE WASHINGTON POST

How to talk to teens about family finances

A single mom worries about telling teens about family finances.

How to help an in­cred­ibly shy son

Her 20-year-old son has never had a close friend. Marguerite Kelly offers this mom some advice.

HADLEY HOOPER FOR THE WASHINGTON POST

How to stop a toddler’s TV tantrums

Marguerite Kelly explores how to stop a toddler’s end-of-tv-tantrums.

Momspeak

Note to parents: It doesn’t get easier, ever

MOMSPEAK | In hoping the next stage of parenthood will be better, parents can miss the point of childhood.

When cheating on homework is okay

Harvard survey finds 42 percent of kids cheated on homework. What’s the big deal?

New school year’s resolution: Let teachers teach

OXON HILL, MD, AUGUST 16, 2013: Quiana Reedus, 35, takes a moment to read with four-year-old Damarco Lathern who visited Barnaby Manor Elementary School with his parents before the new school year begins. Reedus, who has been a public school teacher for 12 years, prepared her new class room in which she will teach pre-K children from now on full days. Restoring full day pre-K to eight schools in the count is part of Prince George's County Executive's Rushern L. Baker's plan to turn around the county schools in order to raise test scores, increase graduation rates and reduce truancy in six neighborhoods that have been plagued with social ills. (Photo by Astrid Riecken For The Washington Post)

This year, resolve to be a less meddlesome parent.

Date Lab

They share an unconventional outlook

Two women, one of whom is in a relationship. Where can it go from here?

Date Lab: In which Matt gets a second chance

He was rejected once. What will happen with his rematch?

They both like Nicki Minaj, so that’s a good start.

He’s outdoorsy, she’s a spelling whiz. They both like Nicki Minaj. But what about each other

One woman, two men.

In this episode of Date Lab, our dater gets to choose who stays.

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