Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax: Carrying out a late mother’s wishes

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Dividing the estate leaves a survivor wondering if some heirs aren’t showing proper thanks.

Carolyn Hax: How a bride-to-be can handle her mean mom

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The answer: You can’t change her negativity, but you can learn to take away her power to ruin the big day.

Carolyn Hax: A doggone good indicator of parenting skills

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How you treat your dog is a good indicator of how you’ll handle kids — in both discipline and affection.

Carolyn Hax: Trying to set boundaries with judgmental parents

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A daughter has seen what her parents’ negativity has done to her brother’s relationship.

Carolyn Hax: Juggling three busy families’ schedules

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One parent is annoyed that another family’s activities seem to dictate when they all can get together.

Advice Columnists

  

Hints From Heloise: Ring around the commode

Vinegar can erase a hard-water ring in a toilet.

Hints From Heloise: The gentle agitator

Tighten the jar, run it through the dishwasher, and voila — decrystallized jam or honey.

Hints From Heloise: The stamps are in the mail

Stamp Camp USA, a children’s stamp-collecting camp, can use canceled stamps and other items.

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Miss Manners: Couple forgoes wedding for house upgrades

Couple seeks funds to feather their nest, stressing the savings to non-guests of their non-wedding.

Miss Manners: Exception to the hats-off rule for gentlemen

Gentlemen may leave their hats on when traveling through lobbies and other transitional spaces.

Miss Manners: Cute story vs. humiliation

A Gentle Reader wonders whether parents should post some of their toddlers’ more embarrassing acts.

Miss Manners: Public display of affection is no fun to watch

Her in-laws are like The Lovers on “Saturday Night Live” — even in her wedding pictures!

Miss Manners: A bride is a bride only for a night

But in 1800s, a bride was a bride for a year, during which time she could wear her gown as an evening dress.

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Ask Amy: Sisters consider family-style adoption

Her younger sister would like to adopt a child with her; Amy suggests considering foster parenting.

Ask Amy: Sister feels pressure to take in dad

Her younger sister wants her to take in their father once she and her husband buy their first home.

Ask Amy: Kindness toward neighbor backfires

Her elderly neighbor has gotten used to her stepping in to help, but she just can’t do it anymore.

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Animal Doctor: Cat must be kept on a zero fat diet

What to feed a cat with high triglycerides; what triggers dry eyes in dogs; averse reactions to vaccines.

Out-skunking the skunks

Skunks are diggers, not climbers. A 5-foot-high fence can keep pets safe.

Bipolar dog or problem child?

Dogs with a malfunctioning thyroid gland or in pain can become aggressive or emotionally stable.

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@Work Advice

@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

When you don’t want to lean in

Instead of turning down promotion opportunity, why not try turning it into what you want?

Family

Family Almanac

Illustration by Hadley Hooper for the Washington Post

How to help angry post-divorce sister and her children

How to help a sister very angry after a divorce, and her children who are the focus of her anger.

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How to talk to teens about family finances

A single mom worries about telling teens about family finances.

How to help an in­cred­ibly shy son

Her 20-year-old son has never had a close friend. Marguerite Kelly offers this mom some advice.

Momspeak

Note to parents: It doesn’t get easier, ever

MOMSPEAK | In hoping the next stage of parenthood will be better, parents can miss the point of childhood.

When cheating on homework is okay

Harvard survey finds 42 percent of kids cheated on homework. What’s the big deal?

New school year’s resolution: Let teachers teach

OXON HILL, MD, AUGUST 16, 2013: Quiana Reedus, 35, takes a moment to read with four-year-old Damarco Lathern who visited Barnaby Manor Elementary School with his parents before the new school year begins. Reedus, who has been a public school teacher for 12 years, prepared her new class room in which she will teach pre-K children from now on full days. Restoring full day pre-K to eight schools in the count is part of Prince George's County Executive's Rushern L. Baker's plan to turn around the county schools in order to raise test scores, increase graduation rates and reduce truancy in six neighborhoods that have been plagued with social ills. (Photo by Astrid Riecken For The Washington Post)

This year, resolve to be a less meddlesome parent.

Date Lab

They’re attracted, but will politics get in the way?

She’s a bleeding-heart liberal; he’s middle-of-the-road

They share an unconventional outlook

Two women, one of whom is in a relationship. Where can it go from here?

Date Lab: In which Matt gets a second chance

He was rejected once. What will happen with his rematch?

They both like Nicki Minaj, so that’s a good start.

He’s outdoorsy, she’s a spelling whiz. They both like Nicki Minaj. But what about each other

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