Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax: Are friends with kids taking advantage?

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She’s happy to be Auntie Kate but misses one-on-one time with the parents.

Carolyn Hax: Helping mom and daughter, 4, through a loss

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A woman who has had a miscarriage worries about showing her emotions in front of her 4-year-old.

Carolyn Hax: After taking offense, don’t be defensive

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Roomate’s comments about a change in behavior probably call for a humble, open-minded response.

Carolyn Hax: My best friend, the doormat

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Reader wonders how she can help a friend who is repeatedly mistreated by her boyfriends.

Carolyn Hax: Defining one’s best self

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Carolyn Hax: It’s when you like yourself, when you’re getting the most out of your strengths.

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Hints From Heloise: Wrap up some new uses

Creative ways to reuse wrapping paper.

Hints From Heloise: No chewing at the table

A reader relates a scenario in which a dinner companion chewed (and spit) tobacco at the table.

Hints From Heloise: Squelching home allergens

A few tips on clearing the air.

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Miss Manners: Boss’s invite not a command performance

Every year his boss “invites” him to buy a ticket to a dinner auction for the school he sends his children to.

Miss Manners: E-mailed wish list is best ignored

Her best friend e-mails gift lists “on behalf of her daughter” filled with big-ticket items.

Miss Manners: A simple task may correct rude child

They’re at a loss on how to correct their child’s rude friend. Asking the child to set an example may help.

Miss Manners: Toddlers can wait to acquire formal niceties

A Gentle Reader’s friend suggests she start teaching her toddler now to ‘behave like a gentleman.’

Miss Manners: Refusing to switch seat requires resolve

It is not impolite to ask for someone’s exit-row seat on a plane. Nor is it impolite to refuse such a request.

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Ask Amy: Crush of family at Christmas creates stress

Her family’s demanding behavior around the holidays is exhausting her. And she has a baby on the way.

Ask Amy: Cohabiting couple face family opposition

Her live-in’s disapproving mother, who agreed to a fresh start, has resorted to stealth tactics.

Ask Amy: Has Facebook replaced sympathy cards?

For a grieving 40-something, Facebook “sympathy” feels hollow.

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Animal Doctor: Cat is far from finicky about its food

Cat has abnormal appetite; taking a cat off a medically prescribed diet can be risky; dog suffers from PTSD.

General anesthetic might be too risky for an old retriever

Older dogs are prone to develop usually benign cysts or tumors in hair follicles and glands in the skin.

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Animal Doctor: Dogs, too, can be wartime heroes

A wife wants a dog’s ashes interred with war veteran at Arlington National Cemetery.

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@Work Advice

@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

Needling staffers with a vaccination plan

Boss plans to require those who refuse flu vaccine to wear masks and gloves.

Family

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Wandering husband leaves family with mentally ill son.

Should they divorce? A wandering husband leaves a wife with a mentally ill son.

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Marguerite Kelly’s gift guide for kids

So many holidays jammed together this year might make it hard to buy. But Marguerite Kelly has ideas.

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How to teach your son to do it all in the potty

Her son has one major problem with potty training. Marguerite Kelly advises how to fix the problem.

Momspeak

Note to parents: It doesn’t get easier, ever

MOMSPEAK | In hoping the next stage of parenthood will be better, parents can miss the point of childhood.

When cheating on homework is okay

Harvard survey finds 42 percent of kids cheated on homework. What’s the big deal?

New school year’s resolution: Let teachers teach

OXON HILL, MD, AUGUST 16, 2013: Quiana Reedus, 35, takes a moment to read with four-year-old Damarco Lathern who visited Barnaby Manor Elementary School with his parents before the new school year begins. Reedus, who has been a public school teacher for 12 years, prepared her new class room in which she will teach pre-K children from now on full days. Restoring full day pre-K to eight schools in the count is part of Prince George's County Executive's Rushern L. Baker's plan to turn around the county schools in order to raise test scores, increase graduation rates and reduce truancy in six neighborhoods that have been plagued with social ills. (Photo by Astrid Riecken For The Washington Post)

This year, resolve to be a less meddlesome parent.

Date Lab

On this date, they let down their guard

She likes Army guys — and he’s in the Army.

Date Lab: They both like to cook

But do they like each other?

For an Italian, a warm welcome to America

His name is Fabio and he’s helping teach her words in Italian. Perfetto!

Tom Sietsema picks the dates and the restaurant

Does the food critic have a future in matchmaking?

They chitchat about the past

But is there a future?

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