Be an interesting person : The 3 easiest ways

The word “interesting” means engaging or exciting and holding the attention of people. It means arousing a feeling of interest. It is a state of curiosity or concern about something. It is an excess or bonus beyond what is expected. Interesting is something that evokes your mental state. If you want to be interesting, learn and do interesting things. That is all you need to know. What “interesting” means is entirely up to you. Being an interesting person improves your life in several ways. It will help you find your passion. There are endless activities, hobbies, and experiences to have in this world. Find something you love and to your time to it. You might find your new favourite pastime, or even a new career. You make new friends. The more you do, the more experiences you have, and the more you can relate to others.

Here are the three secrets to be an interesting person:

Connect with people and things:

Blend an inclusive knowledge-base with new experiences and you’ll find yourself swimming in a sea of new opportunities. Because you know more and do more, you’ll meet more people. Since you’re well informed on a several topics, you’ll woo everyone with great conversation. You will engage your new friends. You will ask questions, answer questions and learn good communication skills. You will become a connector. You’ll open your and their eyes to a world of new possibilities. Connectors see the big picture. You probe into the past, look into the future and connect what you’ve learned to the present moment. You’ll become a walking encyclopaedia and an amazing storyteller. You’ll be bursting at the stratums with inspiration and enthusiasm about everything. You will become more creative and a better problem solver. As a result, you will be the most interesting person in the room. Learn the principles of amazing storytelling. Stories have great power. Stories are what people remember and connect with most. At the end of the day, stories are the best way to communicate a message. Be a story distiller. When your story is over, don’t just move on to the next story. Figure out the lesson, universal human experience, practical take home value and call to action.

Keep busy and learn new skills:

Keep engaging yourself in different types of activities. Plan your days ahead of time. Keep a schedule. Do whatever you must to avoid slacking off and wasting your time.  Join a group or club in your area.  Local communities often have gatherings to drink, play board games, and just have fun. Go to a festival and interact with people over there. Learn their culture and traditions.  Go on adventures. Whatever activities you adopt, do them passionately. Learn everything well. It can be a skill, science, or board game. Become obsessed with it, and then drop it. Move on to new things and hobbies. Find a new passion to obsess over. Continue to build a stock of skills and hobbies. Travel more and go to new places and explore more things. Get out of your comfort zone and explore the world. You will encounter unimaginable adventures by just getting away from home. Traveling doesn’t have to be expensive. Learn a skill or take up a new hobby. Make sure to diversify. Try a bunch of different things. If you need help learning something, the Internet has all kinds of resources.  Backpacking, camping, geocaching, hiking, rafting, rock climbing, scuba diving, sky diving, surfing, cooking, drawing, glass blowing, guitar, language learning, magic, photography, woodworking are a few of the infinite things you could try learning.

Establish your presence and increase your curiosity:

Presence is a very important quality. It is the blend of your confidence, self-belief, strong body language and how well you interact. It isn’t the most important quality needed to be more interesting, but it helps. The interaction you have with people makes the difference. If you want to make your thinking, writing and speaking more unique, relevant, persuasive, and more creative, you need to make your presence felt. Create points of dissention. Vagueness fuels curiosity and curiosity is a natural motivator of human engagement. So, there’s a certain conflict when people observe an unexpected behaviour. The most effective way to attract people’s attention is to break their patterns. Curiosity is a catalyst to risk-taking. Curiosity is what gets you questioning the world and your place it. This transforms you from a passive bystander to being more active element of the society. It is the key element to imagination. Make your mind wander through endless possibilities for you and where you can lead your life. Some of the best ideas strike when you just let your imagination run wild.