Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax: Speaking up to an unsympathetic spouse

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A woman whose husband always seems to dismiss her feelings wants to stop retreating to silence.

    Carolyn Hax: Anger lingers over daughter’s breakup

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    Her daughter and grandkids have moved on, but Mom wants to see the ex pay for leaving for another woman.

      Carolyn Hax: Girlfriend wonders, Where’s his daughter?

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      After 10 months of dating, beau is still keeping his 7-year-old away from the girlfriend.

        Carolyn Hax: Kids too young for his infidelity bombshell

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        Husband wants to tell children about a sibling born after affair, but his wife is entitled to keep the news secret.

          Carolyn Hax: Mom afraid teens’ romance will backfire

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          Two female friends differ on whether their children should date each other: Would it be ‘cute’ or a disaster?

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            When ‘they’ doesn’t identify as either male or female

            When people call themselves “genderqueer,” does identity trump grammar?

            Feb. 3, 1987: A research technician at Abbott Laboratories in Lake County, Ill., USA, inspects a batch of biochemically treated beads that are used in a test to screen blood for evidence of AIDS virus infections in the early stages. This improved version for testing donated blood will allow blood banks to find contaminated units that otherwise might not be deteted. Abbott Laboratories announced Jan. 26 that it has received approval from the U.S. Food and Drug Administration to begin marketing their testing procedure. (AP Photo)

            ‘Fearbola’ reminds me of the AIDS panic

            Misinformation is spreading faster than the virus itself.

            Champaign glasses sit on the pool table at MJ's Tavern after transgender couple Lucille Boygel and Laura Bush were married by Christina Rodriguez in Norfolk, Va., on Sunday, Oct. 12, 2014. MJ's Tavern hosts four wedding ceremonies for same-sex couples, individually, one after the other, on the patio. Christina Rodriguez is the officiant. (AP Photo/The Virginian-Pilot, The' N. Pham)

            Is it homophobic to address a gay couple as ‘Mr. and Mrs.’?

            A guest is angered by poor treatment at an upscale resort, and wonders what was behind the mistake.

              

            Hints From Heloise: The drive to data destruction

            Be sure to remove all information — or better yet, destroy the hard drive — of any computer you’re getting rid of.

            Hints From Heloise: Travelers can’t see the light

            A reader sounds off on the poor lighting in hotel rooms.

            Hints From Heloise: Candy cache

            Tips on storing candy for the long haul.

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            Animal Doctor: Give grieving dog a boost of TLC

            Dog mourns the loss of a companion; change in temperament; purring’s place among cats; meaning of love.

            Animal Doctor: Dogs no longer eat dirt for dessert

            Change of diet curbs obsessive behavior; heartworm medicine in cold weather; common cat ailments.

            Animal Doctor: The cruelty of a life behind bars

            The bird trade is inhumane; singing cats; 15-year-old cat eats only gravy; letting the elderly keep their pets.

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            Ask Amy: Woman treats friend like spare tire

            He felt like second fiddle, and then she confirmed it in all but words. Why is she surprised that he’s hurt?

            Ask Amy: Long ago abuse haunts survivor

            Her former in-law abused her when she was a teen; now his daughters (her nieces) want to connect.

            Ask Amy: Woman dreads telling parents she’s pregnant

            They did not handle the news of her first pregnancy with grace; Amy warns her to brace herself.

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            Miss Manners: Lady walks away from lewd men on street

            As well she should. So why are her elders calling her reaction ‘harsh’?

            Miss Manners: Callers who offer half-divided attention

            The Gentle Reader gives callers undivided attention; they, on the other hand, are usually multitasking.

            Miss Manners: A library in the loo

            A Gentle Reader wonders whether it’s tacky to have magazines in the guest bathroom.

            Miss Manners: Online vacation pics can be safely ignored

            The reader feels such photos can be seen as bragging; Miss Manners assures that that is indeed the intent.

            Miss Manners: Third baby shower not so charming

            She suspects that, with each shower, her friend is returning the shower gifts to furnish her home or wardrobe.

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            Advice from Slate's 'Dear Prudence'

            Live discussion with Slate advice columnist Dear Prudence, a.k.a. Emily Yoffe.

            @Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

            @Work Advice: The insolent intern

            What’s a worker to do when the intern lets important documents languish on her desk or wind up in the trash?

              Family

              Family Almanac

              Illusration by Hadley Hooper for The Washington Post

              When co-sleeping leads to commotion

              FAMILY ALMANAC | Two boys, 4 and 9, enjoy co-sleeping, but it can cause commotion.

              Help! My teen son is driving me crazy

              Her 14-year-old doesn’t listen and Marguerite Kelly advises how to handle it.

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              My husband wants to involve his new girlfriend in the family

              Marguerite Kelly says a therapist and mediator could help the situation.

              Meghan Leahy

              On Parenting: Meghan Leahy and Amy Joyce took questions about parenting

              Meghan Leahy, a parenting coach with Positively Parenting, will join Amy Joyce to talk about parenting children of all ages.

              On Parenting: Meghan Leahy and Amy Joyce took questions about parenting

              Meghan Leahy, a parenting coach with Positively Parenting, will join Amy Joyce to talk about parenting children of all ages.

              On Parenting: Meghan Leahy and Amy Joyce took questions about parenting

              Meghan Leahy, a parenting coach with Positively Parenting, will join Amy Joyce to talk about parenting children of all ages.

              Explaining Daddy’s addiction

              Substance abuse was a factor in this tumultuous divorce, and the children know something’s going on.

              Child's Hands

              I want my child to be more competitive

              He wants his daughter to want to be sporty and competitive. She is resisting. What to do?

              Date Lab

              Leslie and Demetrius

              He likes Jim Carrey, she doesn’t. Can this work?

              Their senses of humor may be different, but they had much in common.

              Alison and Tariiq

              A date that was meant to be?

              They knew immediately that they had something — or someone — in common.

              Date Lab: He noticed her tattoo right away

              This couple found out they share interests that are more than skin-deep.

              Tori and Andrew

              Date Lab: Boatbuilder meets sailor. Love ahoy?

              These two do-it-yourselfers find lots in common, but it’s not clear just where that will lead them.

              Mindy and Julian

              Adventurous, spicy food lovers hit it off in Clarendon

              There was a kiss, but it’s still not clear whose idea that was.

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