There’s a rise in memberships for swingin’ parties, but before you apply, know your stuff...
Every weekend, somewhere around the world, champagne is flowing, music is throbbing, guests are bathed in candlelight and things are getting raunchy. Welcome to a world where 50 Shades of Grey isn’t just a fantasy, it’s lived.
Forget the scene of bowls full of keys and wife swapping in mid-suburbia, these posh orgies are for the attractive, powerful and professional. With thousands of applications posted through the doors of the most exclusive sex clubs in the world, we take a look at how to get in and what to do when you’re there.
Top 3 sex parties in the world
How to get in: With a tag line ‘the network for sexual elite’, it’s no wonder there’s a screening process before being given access to this exclusive club. Apply to become a KK Standard for £10 which will allow you minimal access to the happenings. This is the screening stage, upon which you will be invited to become a Gold or Platinum member.
What are the rules: Men can't approach women at parties unless they know them, everyone wears a mask like in Eyes Wide Shut (Face Lace, £20), and single men aren't allowed at all.
What can you expect: With a name that represents the cyber slang for ‘every time someone masturbates, God kills a kitten’, you can be sure to find risqué cabaret nights, feathery burlesque shows, giant bean bags and lots of shagging. You could be eating dinner with someone’s leg coming out from the curtained off area!
How to get in: Like most sex clubs, there’s a membership process, but this one is quite simple and straightforward. Just email a name (doesn’t have to be your real one) and photos of your face and body… then wait.
The dress code: This is not a fetish or leather party, it’s where the world’s elite come to play, so you need to look the part. Dress as you would for a gala or dinner (Alexander Wang Twist Long-sleeves Dress, £710) and don’t forget heels that look hot when you’re naked (Christian Louboutin Mesh Pumps, £545).
What are the rules: Men must be in suits - none of whom can be single. Women in dresses and lingerie - of whom can be attached or single. Safety is a must - no excuses- and condoms are provided.
What can you expect: Chic. Classic. Upscale. Intimate. Parties are hosted in couple's luxury apartments, houses or mansions where only 20 couples and 10 single girls will be granted access.
One Leg Up
How to get in: The membership is based on two separate nights, eat-in (where members are screened) and takeaway (where you don’t have to be a member, but have to buy a ticket).
The dress code: Nights are themed, so you’ll have to check their calendar. The most important thing will be what you wear below. Stockings never go astray (Falke,£21) as does a little friend to help you tickle someone’s fancy (Crave Vesper Vibrator Necklace, £69).
What are the rules: All men must be escorted by a woman. If you arrive together, you must indulge together (bringing more people into the mix is fine) and leave together. No-one leaves alone.
What can you expect: Eat-In Soirees are only open to members and take place in private hotel suites and lofts throughout New York. Everyone is required to disrobe down to his/her undies when it's ‘undies time’ and each couple/single lady needs to provide their own alcoholic beverages. Takeaway Soirees are ticket based and held in lounges and clubs, as such, there’s no live playing, just a bit of topless fun and lots of tongue!