The 3 Biggest Myths About Infertility

National Infertility Awareness Week (NIAW) is coming up on April 19, which is a perfect chance to bust some common infertility myths. These are the three I hear most frequently. ...more
And secondary infertility is just as heartbreaking as primary infertility -- they are just ...more

April 1st: The Day the Internet Changed My Life

No joke: Tomorrow is a very special and wonderful anniversary for me. Seven years ago today the internet helped me have a baby. Seriously. Wait. Do you not know this story? Oh, it's a good one. And it's nice to be reminded that the people on the other end of the wires and tubes and webs of our computing devices are as connected to us as we will allow them to be. ...more
Wow!  I hadn't heard your story before.  Seriously, the online infertility community is just THE ...more

Hope Balances the Sadness of Infertility

Infertility is a study in the art of disappointment. Those of you in the trenches know exactly what I'm talking about. You have to balance, constantly. You have to find the hope within the sadness. Plaster on a smile and get through that presentation after the bad phone call, attend that baby shower, or even sit in the waiting room of your OB-GYN's office where you're the only one who isn't pregnant. Eventually, you learn to let the disappointment roll off, to compartmentalize, to focus on the future instead of the present. You learn to only feel the hurt just enough. ...more
girlryanne - Your post rings so true to my heart.  I've lived through 5 failed IUIs, 1 fresh IVF ...more

Infertility: A Wish Unfulfilled

Nearly two years ago, I wrote a poem that expressed my feelings about the possibility of not ever becoming a mother. I like so many other women was diagnosed as pre menopausal in my mid thirties. Had I not made the decision to begin family planning, I may never had known. As young adults many of us women are taught how to respect our bodies....more

You Are Never Alone if You Reach Out

Candace-This will be our 3rd year participating in the...more

Doing All the Things...

So yeah. Life is sorta overwhelming at the moment.Remember when I said tball was going great and not really that stressful this year?...more

541st Friday Blog Roundup

I read a post a few weeks ago about the idea of closing the comment section on a blog in order to move the conversation to other social media platforms such as Twitter or Facebook. He makes some excellent points about the comment section: “The system is built for individual comments, not for discussion threads […] ...more

SIDS Research

We've been keepin' on keepin' on here. It's been a busy week--David has late nights, I have stuff going on at work that's keeping me busy, Zuzu's still been hitting (and occasionally missing) the potty, Coco is trying new foods every three days like it's her job, Cooper is barking his ass off at anyone who walks by our house or drives a large vehicle by our house, and has just barked himself right outside because it's nap time and they are both sleeping at once and NOBODY BETTER RUIN THAT FOR ME.Today was my first stay at home day in ages that I didn't have a ton of grading to do, which meant I've almost caught up on laundry piled up downstairs (missing last weekend's laundry session, plus Zuzu going through more than one pair of pants per day is keeping our washing machine busy) AND I managed to mop the kitchen floor. My bare feet are thanking me because it was seriously kind of gross ....more

Free Range Parenting and Helicopter Children

I’ll admit that the discussion online regarding the parents whose children were taken into custody again because they were playing alone at a park has made me cranky....more

Anxiety and Infertility, The Cycle of Being Trapped

Part 1 Alright, week two of Chris blogging and this is what I want you to do; I am going to paint two pictures and I want you to tell me how anxious they make you feel. Game? First scenario: you just waited for 2 hours to get a front row seat on a brand new roller coaster ....more

Oh Hey We Spent The Last Few Days Doing All This Stuff

We had an eventful three day weekend. I even took a nap on Saturday!(Let's all pause to reflect on the fact that my ability to take a nap (1) was noteworthy enough to get mentioned in the opening paragraph (2) evidently merited use of an exclamation mark (3) probably won't happen again until 2020.)We drove to my parents' on Friday. The day started out not-so-great ....more

The Greatest Drawer Pulls of All Time

So I read a home decorating article that described drawer pulls and knobs as the “jewelry” of the kitchen....more