Carolyn Hax

Columnist

A woman is getting tired of dropping hints about a present. What more can she do to get her point across?

  • Sep 4, 2015

A woman who escaped an abusive ex wonders if she is falling for a new guy for all the wrong reasons.

  • Sep 3, 2015

A woman expecting her third child struggles with her husband’s disappointment over its sex.

  • Sep 2, 2015

Man causes offense with suggestion that his sibling’s 13-year-old daughter get a nose job.

  • Sep 1, 2015

It’s better to explore and breathe a while than jump into a 15-year career commitment and regret it later.

  • Aug 31, 2015

A mother-in-law needs to apologize for a visit that was a blatant disregard of the desires of her son’s wife.

  • Aug 30, 2015

They knew they were in for big changes, but they are are miserable. It’s time to call in the troops.

  • Aug 29, 2015

For the most part, a mother needs to let her grownup daughter learn life’s lessons on her own.

  • Aug 28, 2015

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and tackles your problems.

  • Aug 28, 2015

A mother needs to plant the seed to help her daughter realize that her boyfriend is manipulating her.

  • Aug 27, 2015
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Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997, after five years as a copy editor and news editor in Style and none as a therapist. The column includes cartoons by “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis — Carolyn's ex-husband — and appears in over 200 newspapers.

Besides the daily column, Carolyn has a weekly live online discussion (noon Fridays), the Hax Philes forum and a Facebook page. She also has a policy of saying yes when NPR calls but avoids TV like something forgotten in the back of the fridge; the feeling appears to be mutual.

Carolyn lives in Massachusetts with her husband, three boys and medium brown dog, Billy, but sees D.C. as "home."  

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