Carolyn Hax

Carolyn Hax: How to make the two-bed marriage work

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Separate sleeping areas aren’t as uncommon as thought and can prove beneficial to secure needed rest.

Carolyn Hax: Grandparents, reunions and what is really worth inheriting

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An older couple must resolve her concerns about funding kids’ travel costs vs. his about family bonds.

Carolyn Hax: On an island, seeing an ex in all the old familiar places

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A woman who’s divorced and dating must gracefully cope with seeing her ex in places they used to frequent.

Carolyn Hax: Getting a spouse to handle a fair share of the chores

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Figure out what each of you best tolerates in housekeeping and share the load. There’s no other choice.

Carolyn Hax: Does friend really need help finding a life outside parenting?

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She has a college degree and made comments about losing herself. But she’s not moving to change things.

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Civilities

Civilities: What’s so upsetting about a gay couple kissing in public?

Civilities: What’s so upsetting about a gay couple kissing in public?

Steven Petrow explores why public displays of LGBT affection strike a straight nerve.

Civilities: Stop taunting Kim Davis about her looks. Her hypocrisy is another thing.

Civilities: Stop taunting Kim Davis about her looks. Her hypocrisy is another thing.

Many of Kim Davis’s detractors have resorted to a meanness about her hair, her glasses, her weight. It’s not okay.

Civilities: The current rage about ‘political correctness’ is both wrong and rude

Civilities: The current rage about ‘political correctness’ is both wrong and rude

Steven Petrow explains that being “PC” is another way to be considerate and respectful.

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Hints from Heloise

Hints From Heloise: Would DOB be A-okay?

What is best way for doctors’ offices to leave reminder messages?

Hints From Heloise: Ribs don’t make their date

Meat should be cooked or frozen within three to five days of purchase, regardless of the printed date.

Hints From Heloise: Debate on TV — LCD or LED?

Both types provide stunning images, but LED costs a lot more.

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Animal Doctor

Animal Doctor: Making improvements to preventive care

A report from Banfield Pet Hospital recommends expanding the definition of preventive care.

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Ask Amy

Ask Amy: Ailing daughter struggles to take care of aging parents

It’s time to reach out to elder-care agencies and explore available resources.

Ask Amy: Recent college grad ponders parachute color

No one wants you to linger, depressed, at a professional job.

Ask Amy: Should girlfriend make a big move for her guy?

In making a decision, marry the wisdom of your head and heart.

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Miss Manners

Miss Manners: Complaint about visible bra results from too-close look

Keep a respectable distance from the women in question.

Miss Manners: Birthday thank-you notes get stamp of disapproval

Most important thing is that an acknowledgment was sent, not the season of the stamp.

Miss Manners: Proper letter of complaint should suggest a solution

Avoid personal attacks; the purpose is to persuade the recipient to solve the problem.

Miss Manners: Grown-ups don’t require theme parties

A birthday and house warming party? Simply have a party — and don’t make it a gift grab.

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@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

Work Advice: Stood up? Don’t take it lying down.

Workers in the freelance economy need to protect themselves with contracts and consequences.

@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

Work Advice: How to deal with a bad tipper

Plus, advice from Tom Sietsema on tipping for wine and takeout.

@Work Advice columnist Karla Miller (DEB LINDSEY/FOR THE WASHINGTON POST)

@Work Advice: Employees left to their own devices

‘BYOD’ is becoming the standard in workplaces, but the policy raises issues for businesses and employees.

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A few final thoughts from Marguerite Kelly

The parenting columnist offers her best advice after 35 years of writing.

Illusration by Hadley Hooper for The Washington Post

When co-sleeping leads to commotion

FAMILY ALMANAC | Two boys, 4 and 9, enjoy co-sleeping, but it can cause commotion.

Help! My teen son is driving me crazy

Her 14-year-old doesn’t listen and Marguerite Kelly advises how to handle it.

Meghan Leahy

On Parenting: Meghan Leahy, Amy Joyce take questions about parenting

Join us at 11 a.m. to talk all things parenting.

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A tween impervious to the stink-eye

Teach respect to a 10-year-old boy (while respecting him).

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‘I don’t want my kid to become a bully’

A parent worries about a child’s inability to let go of a “minor” slight.

On Parenting: Meghan Leahy, Amy Joyce take questions about parenting

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Date Lab

Katie and Kristopher Date Labbers

Date Lab: They played Jenga. But will it all come crashing down?

These two got into the fun so much they even wrote that headline.

Jillian and Wes

Date Lab: Will their love for trivia nights turn into a significant thing?

A runner is paired with a woman looking for an athlete.

Thom and Susan

A new one on Date Lab: He didn’t sign up — his co-workers applied for him

Was the evening blind-date serendipity or catastrophe?

Date Labbers Scott and Allyson Aug. 2015

Date Lab: He signed up two weeks ago, she, five years. Worth the wait?

It was an evening of goofing around, singing in a cab and dancing.

WASHINGTON, DC- AUGUST 18: We follow this couple Jessica Salley, 23, and Sebastien Vilfayeau, 27, on their date in Washington, D.C. on August 18, 2015. Jessica Salley: 23, says she prefers to date men a few years older than her, does museum communications and outreach for work and has lived in the DC area since September 2014. She went to Harvard, has traveled a lot and is interested in Europe and history. Sebastien Vilfayeau: 27, works in software development at University of Maryland. He is from France originally but has been here four years. He likes to travel and likes the outdoors. (Photo by Marvin Joseph/The Washington Post)

Date Lab: Will a private evening tour of the National Mall inspire romance?

Maybe history, iconic America and a luxe town car can lead to love. ...

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