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Carolyn Hax

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Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and comments about the strange train we call life and your holiday horrors.

  • Dec 11, 2015

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax takes your questions and tackles your problems.

  • Dec 4, 2015

Attributing the difficult episode to some trait or behavior of the mother only adds emotional turmoil.

  • Nov 20, 2015

Advice Columnist Carolyn Hax took your questions and tackled your problems.

  • Nov 20, 2015

A woman wants to know how she can show support for her spouse, who is constantly being set up for hurt.

  • Nov 19, 2015

Not validating a partner’s viewpoint should raise a red flag for anyone planning a long-term relationship.

  • Nov 18, 2015

As the biological clock ticks, a woman has a much greater concern than wondering whether to have a child.

  • Nov 17, 2015

A woman who had to put her 5-year-old in a sister’s care for a year has no place critiquing the care she offered.

  • Nov 16, 2015

A mother whose 5-year-old son is struggling in pre-K dreads spending Thanksgiving with her own mom.

  • Nov 15, 2015

Wife should not let mom and dad monopolize her time — or husband’s — during long-distance visits.

  • Nov 14, 2015
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Carolyn Hax started her advice column in 1997, after five years as a copy editor and news editor in Style and none as a therapist. The column includes cartoons by “relationship cartoonist” Nick Galifianakis — Carolyn's ex-husband — and appears in over 200 newspapers.

Besides the daily column, Carolyn has a weekly live online discussion (noon Fridays), the Hax Philes forum and a Facebook page. She also has a policy of saying yes when NPR calls but avoids TV like something forgotten in the back of the fridge; the feeling appears to be mutual.

Carolyn lives in Massachusetts with her husband, three boys and medium brown dog, Billy, but sees D.C. as "home."  

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