BDSM & fetish community
for kinksters by kinksters.

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Ohhh rigged by Morpheous and peterclaver
taken by EmJ in Toronto, Ontario.  

FetLife is a FREE Social Network for the BDSM & fetish community.

Similar to Facebook and MySpace but run by kinksters like you and me. We think it is more fun that way. Don't you?

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Candidly, I LOVE this place. I’ve been telling my friends, ‘Somebody finally got it right’.

— Jay Wiseman, author of SM 101

4,761,195 Members

shared 24,230,959 pictures and 241,234 videos, participated in 5,966,979 discussions in 99,905 groups, are going to 429,391 upcoming events and reading 2,214,766 blog posts.  Kinky heaven!

Why Join FetLife?

  1. It's Free

    Free as in Google, mySpace and Facebook free.

  2. It's Secure

    We have a fetish for security. That's why we're the first social network to be 100% SSL. The same security banks use.

  3. Your kinky friends are already on here

    With 4,761,195 members, there is a good chance they are already on FetLife. Find them, message them, share pictures with them and see what they are up to.

  4. A great way to make new kinky friends

    Don't tell me you are full up on kinky friends.

  5. FetLife is not a meat market

    And that is why it works. Fewer trolls, less BS and more real people.

  6. People on FetLife accept you as you are

    It gives you a place to learn, share and explore your kinks.

  7. Get in touch with your local community

    There is no easier way than FetLife. And if you want to get active locally, we have over 429,391 events listed.

  8. Join one of over 99,905 Groups

    Our groups are a great place to ask questions, get advice & give advice to/from a large portion of the community.

  9. It has a simple design and interface

    We are proud of the design. It is simple and gets out of your way.

  10. Designed by the community, for the community

    We are not a faceless corporation. We are kinksters just like you.

What are people saying about FetLife?

“FetLife.com: effortless to join and obviously created by people who have been online and in the fetish community forever.”

— Dear Sasha, Montreal Mirror, Eye Weekly & Uptown

“I have never had a place on myspace or otherwise because those sites are a bit… icky. This is wonderfully not icky!”

— naughtyabby 30F sub (Oregon, United States)

“I am totally impressed. I love the feel of the interface, I love the concept, I am going to tell every kinky friend I know to join.”

— BIF 41F Switch (Ontario, Canada)

“FetLife is invaluable for finding friends and making connections. It singlehandedly got me a social life in my area.”

— tomboy_femme 22GQ Switch (Oregon, United States)

“TY very much.. so far this is one of the easiest sites to maneuver threw and I have been giving all my friends in the lifestyle the link to join.. :)”

— sunny 37F sub (Michigan, United States)

“Great website. I have been checking out facebook but I have to keep it somewhat neutral as vanilla family and friends are there. Its great to have somewhere to go where you don't have to hide anything.”

— shy_but_sassy 43F (British Columbia, Canada)

Sound good? Then Sign-Up Now!

And join 4,761,195 kinksters in some fun times.

* The “98.64% of FetLifers would recommend FetLife to a friend” is based on a survey of the community that was conducted in January 2010.
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