Tata writes: Maybe you could help me understand a phenomenon. In the Middle East and especially in the Gulf countries, homosexuality is punishable by the death penalty and decapitation. Paradoxically, I have often heard that the Arabs of the Gulf have many homo relations between them because they do not have access to women. It seems that it is rampant in the Gulf, and apparently the fear of dying does not stop them.
But I read a bizarre story about a Gulf prince who got caught in a fight in a gay nightclub in London with his lover. This guy is a hypermasculine Arab man, and he doesn’t look gay. But maybe Arabs have too much testosterone and are always horny, that’s why they put a tent on the head of their women and could fuck anything. I don’t know, it’s just a reflection.
The prince is in London, and there are no obstacles to have contacts with women, dozens of women if he want. He drives a Ferrari, he is rich, he is a prince, but he continues to go to gay nightclubs and avoids women? Why? Another rumor is of another prince from the Gulf who allegedly murdered one of his employees with whom he had gay relations. It seems that there is a mentality in the Gulf that if the guy is active rather than passive, he is not gay. Are these guys gay, bi or straight? Can a hetero sodomize a guy and be hetero nevertheless and continue to act full macho? I find this crazy and I do not understand this mentality.
That is correct. A man who plays the male role in gay sex is not considered to be gay. This is even true here in the US. Many straight men have the idea of “I would let a fag suck me off,” and they do not consider that to be gay.
One time I went over to this guy’s house. I thought he was normal, but it turned out he was a fag. He hit on me real hard, but I turned him down. Then he sort of broke down in front of me and seemed to apologize for his homosexuality, as if it were an addiction of some sort. “I’ve been doing this since I was 12,” he told me apologetically.
He had put some straight porn on TV before he came onto me. I thought that was a bit weird, but his attitude was, “Hey, let’s you and me watch some porn.” Seemed like a straight guy wanting you to watch some porn with him. I assume that straight guys don’t always watch porn alone, and sometimes more than two or more straight guys watch porn together.
I made friends with this gang associate after I moved here. He used to come over here all the time, mostly to smoke pot. He was not even 1% gay; in fact, as a Mexican, he and his friends were very homophobic. One time I asked him to put this pain patch on my back, and his Mexican friends freaked out. He later told me that they thought me asking him to put the pain patch on my back was really gay. Well, one time I was over at his place, and he was there with some of his younger friends, maybe 18-20 years old. They were all pretty much gang associates, very tough and hard and completely straight. They had porn on, and three or four of these hard Mexican tough gang guys were watching porn together. So you see straight guys do watch porn in groups sometimes.
Anyway, getting back to the story. The guy kept repeating, “I really love women,” and it seemed like a case of “he doth protest too much.” He also said that he had made a lot of money in real estate, and once he got a lot of money and started driving a Mercedes, women were throwing themselves at him all the time. OK, women are basically whores, well, we all know that.
At one point, he picked up this pack of photos and came over and showed it to me. He said, “Look at all these young guys I sucked off.” I was not very assertive back then, and I was afraid to tell him I did not want to see that stuff, so I pretended to be interested. It was mostly just head shots of young men aged 18-22. A lot of them looked like tough, hard, masculine young men. Many looked like the construction worker type to me. After a while I finally got up some nerve and said, “Man, why are you showing me this stuff?” and that’s when he started apologizing for his gay stuff.
But he had about 30-40 photos of young men in those pictures. So this fag sucked off ~30-40 hard, tough, masculine, construction worker type young men. It’s hard to figure out sexual orientation, but I would say that all of those young men were straight. So yes, in the US, there is still this attitude that if you play the male role in gay sex, you are not gay: “Just close your eyes and pretend it’s Seka.”
I had a few friends who had done that a few times, and they confessed it to me. I still let them hang around me because they never tried anything with me because they were basically straight anyway other than the “I’d let a fag suck me off” mentality.
In fact, one told me, “Women don’t know how to give head at all. The only people who know how to give head are faggots and whores. If you want a really good blowjob, just go find some faggot, tell him you’re straight and you want some head, and then just lie back and enjoy it. Fags love to suck off straight guys. That’s like a dream come true for a lot of them.”
He told me that he did not consider that activity to be even 1% gay because he told me that was not even 1% attracted to men’s bodies. I would classify him as completely straight.
In prison, you are only gay if you play the female role. So you are gay if you suck cocks or take it up the ass, but you are not gay if you engage in insertive anal sex or the passive role in oral sex. Many men have been playing the male role in prison sex like that for many years, and they do not consider themselves gay at all. Many would tell you that they would not play the female role for $1 million. They would say, “No way. That would make me a fag. I’m not a fag. I’m just a straight guy with a gay wife in here.”