IN CONVERSATION

Winona Ryder and Keanu Reeves Really, Really Love Each Other

The actors on their latest collaboration, their memories of filming Dracula, and the reason they won’t be remaking Bonnie and Clyde.
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Ryder and Reeves photographed at photocall for Destination Wedding in Los Angeles on August 18, 2018.By Kevin Winter/Getty Images.

It was 90 degrees in Beverly Hills, but Keanu Reeves and Winona Ryder were wearing head-to-toe black—looking as though they had just teleported onto the cream-colored Four Seasons couch from somewhere colder, darker, and significantly less August. Reeves wore a black blazer and his signature shoulder-length tresses. Ryder had layered a tuxedo jacket over a graphic T-shirt—looking less Stranger Things mom than Veronica Sawyer all grown-up. When a publicist led me into the room where they were sitting, afternoon sun beating in from a floor-to-ceiling window, my first inclination was to draw the blinds and shield these beloved goth-ish stars of the 90s from the light.

Reeves and Ryder, both a little removed from their teen idol days but still plenty productive, have of late teamed up for an unlikely collaboration—a romantic comedy called Destination Wedding that will open August 31. Though the actors aren’t Hollywood’s usual rom-com types—the contradictory circumstances of their latest film make sense in a space-time continuum-defying sort of way. Reeves and Ryder starred in another kind of destination wedding 26 years ago—when their characters married in Romania during the filming 1992’s Dracula. (Ryder has said that she and Reeves might actually be married because of the ceremony, which was officiated by “a real Romanian priest.”) When Ryder received the script for this Destination Wedding, from writer and director Victor Levin, she knew she wanted Reeves to play her romantic partner again.

“I just love being together with him so much,” Ryder said in that incongruously sunny hotel room. Turning to Reeves, she continued: “My love for you . . .”

“. . . and my love for you,” Reeves returned, looking at Ryder adoringly.

“I’ve had it forever, but now people are finally seeing it. Even though we’re in character,” said Ryder.

When they first met two decades ago, both actors were on the white-hot upswing of their careers. Ryder already had Beetlejuice, Heathers, and Edward Scissorhands under her belt, while Reeves had appeared in My Own Private Idaho, Bill & Ted’s Bogus Journey, and Point Break. Ryder fondly remembered an entire month spent rehearsing the Francis Ford Coppola period drama at the filmmaker’s vineyard in Napa. Reeves was quick to point out that Ryder was a principal, playing opposite Gary Oldman’s title character, while he was merely a supporting player.

“You were pretty much in Dracula land,” Reeves said to Ryder. “You and Gary were all doing your thing. I was Jonathan Harker, all in the background . . . I had like one scene.”

“No,” Ryder interrupted, refusing to let Reeves diminish his importance to her Dracula experience. In fact, while moving houses recently, Ryder discovered proof of her co-star’s meaningful contribution all of those years ago.

“I’m one of those people who is bad at moving,” explained Ryder. “My dad is an archivist, and I have that same hoarder-archivist habit. I save everything, but I have these journals, and I just pulled one out recently, and it was from around the time of Dracula.” The text: “angst, angst, angst, angst, thank God for Keanu. Thank God I’m going to see Keanu.”

“I was always just so happy when you were around because there was so much, sort of, trauma,” said Ryder. (Coppola has said that Ryder and Oldman fell out while filming: “One day they [. . .] absolutely didn’t get along. None of us were privy to what had happened.” Ryder has said of Oldman’s Method technique: “Maybe it’s his way of working, but I felt there was a danger [while filming].”)

“You were working hard,” Reeves assured Ryder. “I’m ‘no muss, no fuss.’ I’m just”—here, he embodied the physicality of someone even more at ease than he had been just a moment ago, which was more chill than you could be in eight Dracula lifetimes—“‘It’s great.’”

“It’s like what Katharine Hepburn said about Spencer Tracy,” said Ryder, seemingly referring to Reeves’s laid-back acting approach. “‘There’s no embroidery. He just does it.’ Which is so great. A lot of people embroider a lot.”

“I know, but there’s some beautiful embroidery,” offered Reeves.

Another thing Ryder learned about herself by reading through her diaries recently: “I clearly only [journal] when I’m depressed, because there’s never any, ‘I had a great day’ entries. When you look back, you’re like, ‘God, what was wrong with me when I was that age?’”

“That’s what art is about,” Reeves deadpanned.

Alas, Reeves doesn’t journal. But he does write notes to friends.

“We wrote each other a couple letters, too,” Ryder said, turning to her co-star. “You were one of two people who were still writing letters when e-mail started to happen. You and Daniel Day-Lewis were the only two people whom I get physical letters from. It was so nice. People just don’t do that anymore.”

Left, Winona and Keanu attend the Fourth Annual Independent Spirit Awards on March 25, 1989; Right, photographed together at the 2000 MTV Music Awards.Left, by Ron Galella/WireImage; Right, by Jeff Kravitz/WireImage.

Reeves and Ryder have at least one mutual friend, and in the decades between Dracula and Destination Wedding, they’d usually see each for dinner every year or two. Their easy chemistry is why Ryder wanted Reeves to play her co-star this time around, especially given the intense nature of their latest project: they are the only two actors who speak in the film, and only had nine days to shoot.

Brain-fried from a day of interviews, Ryder said that she has never been to a destination wedding herself—or “a traditional one,” for that matter.

“Like a church wedding?” asked Reeves, incredulous. “You’ve never been to a wedding in a church?”

“No, I actually haven’t,” laughed Ryder.

“Have they all been weddings in nature—not even ordained by priests, but shamans?” needled Reeves. “And Wicca? What were they doing during the weddings? Were they pagan?”

“Yeah. I mean, wait,” said Ryder, scanning her brain for nuptials she could have forgotten. “I’ve been to some weddings.”

“Synagogue wedding?” wondered Reeves.

“It wasn’t in a synagogue, though, but it had the stepping on the glass. ”

“So it had some tradition, culture,” said Reeves, seemingly relieved by this conclusion.

With this wedding mystery solved, talk turned to Hollywood’s reboot frenzy, which has included new takes on Heathers and Point Break. Ryder said she hasn’t seen the Heathers musical, while Reeves hasn’t seen the remake of Kathryn Bigelow’s classic action movie. The two didn’t seem bothered by the idea of younger stars remaking some of their biggest hits.

“I think it’s cool that other generations take a story and do it,” said Reeves. “I’m not against it.”

“They’re doing Little Women again,” volunteered Ryder, referencing Greta Gerwig’s upcoming adaptation.

“They’re always doing Little Women again,” cracked Reeves. “You’re like No. 4.” Ryder erupted into laughter.

Considering their abundant fondness for one another, I ask whether Reeves and Ryder will keep working together.

“My hope is to do many more movies with him,” said Ryder.

“You want to do action,” offered Reeves.

“I would like Bonnie and Clyde,” considered Ryder. “But do you remember how bad I was with my physical therapy?”

Reeves did. So he launched into playful casting-director mode, suggesting less physically grueling genres. “We could do horror, a political thriller? Want to do a period film? You could play a 60s culture revolutionary?”

Ryder seemed excited by the idea. So Reeves continued with his impromptu pitch.

“We’re futuristic intellectuals. How about you’re the amazing poet/painter, and I get to be the drunk guy?”

“No.”

“You want to just fight and fuck?” asked Reeves.

“Fight and fuck?!” Ryder cracked up, so Reeves boiled down his idea to a pitch-able tag line: “Think. Fight. Fuck.”

“I like it,” announced Ryder. “Where do I sign?”